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What's the charm and appeal about pussy?

I don't get why are the men so crazy about the pussy. What's the charm and appeal about it to the men?
I can get the charm , appeal and curiosity about the boobs or the dick and balls , but the pussy is just a slit / an opening with hair around it. Nothing much about it.

Why are the men so crazy for it and want to have a look at a girls pussy, want it's pictures etc and all?

A dick , balls and even boobs are more interesting and appealing things in my opinion.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I feel like when you're a girl, you can just finger yourself and have an incredible orgasm

    But when your a guy, you can use your hand and it kinda sucks or a sock and it kinda sucks, or some kinda lube or a lotion and that can make it a little better sometimes but it's like if we dont get sex, masturbating isn't even a quarter as good as it feels to have sex.

    I mean there's nothing that's even comparable to a pussy. Even if you have a condom on. And tbh, the pussy is only half of what makes fucking so good.

  • The first time I saw one pulled open by a girl for me (at age 11 and completely unsexualized), I felt a huge surge of excitement. I agree that most are just ordinary looking, so there must be some sort of instinct component. Seeing one closeup induces me to want to give it oral. And seeing them in video, drooling fluid, contracting in orgasm and even peeing never gets "old".
    Best I can explain.

    • Damn you saw your first at age 11 Wow , that's so early. How old was she and why did she pull her pants down to show it to you?

    • I think he was having a wet dream.

    • @Sillyubaaabe We were both 11. I went over to her house after school to hang out. Her mother worked until 4pm. My mother was fatally ill and under a nurse's care and I stayed away from it (horribly depressing). We both were totally ignorant of sex. We eventually got bored with TV and board games and started getting naked and playing doctor. We looked and explored in ways I wouldn't again until I was sexual a few years later. We came back after the summer of 5th grade and both had begun puberty (peach fuzz). We did the same things as before and I sometimes got a cute little 12-year old boner. Neither of us knew why. We both just thought I had to pee. In my teens later, I realized what I had had right in front of me. @Daniela1982 I didn't get one of those for another 2 years.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Its a slimy, hairy, hole. I can't understand it either!

    • But I appreciate the men giving their feedback in this conversation

    • Do you understand and like the penis and ball sack?

  • I for one am comfortable with my pussy.

    What's the charm and appeal about pussy?

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  • We could ask why women are obsessed with dicks. But to answer your question- for me the obsession is the sheer sight of it. It's the warmth, the wetness, the scent and the smell. I also know it's the biggest source of pleasure for my wife so I enjoy giving her what she wants.

    • Women obsessed with dick? Silly... What makes you feel that way

  • Purely aesthetically I think boobs, ass, legs, face, etc. are really more beautiful. But with pussy you have to consider what it can trigger in the brain. I love licking pussy, and when I see one I picture myself between the legs, eating the pussy and this thought turn me on

  • I love everything about it. Firstly the cute little slit and the texture of the lips when I touch them. Then when I put my finger inside it’s the warm, wet, slippery feel and the taste when I lick it, especially when she has just cum.
    And finally I love how tight it feel when my penis is inside

    • You nailed it! I was going to write my own answer, but this is exactly right. Could not have said it better myself!!

  • Is this even a real question? You are a woman, you feel attracted and you like the dick and the balls. We on the other hand (straight ones) feel sexualy attracted by the pussy. If we weren't, sex wouldn't happen because no one wants to touch something that doesn't like.

  • It's not only because of the almost unimaginably beautiful sensations felt when the hard penis is being embraced by the incomparable moisture & warmth of a vagina but also the pure sexual ecstasy this lovely part of the feminine anatomy gives us when it brings the penis to orgasm/ejaculation 🍑🍆

    And to most of us guys, it's not 'just a slit': the vulva - labia, clitoris, the slit too - is an artisitic creation of pure sexual symmetry & loveliness 🍑

    • I can understand how it feels to penetrate it. But what's the charm about just looking at it and wanting to see a woman's pussy?

    • Can you pm me so I can explain more?

  • I guess you have to be a straight guy or a lesbian or bi girl to appreciate how erotically amazing, complex and interesting the vulva is. 🍑

  • It’s more about going in it something women won’t ever really understand cause they are the ones with it

    • So the guys always want to go in it? Why they are wanting to see it always?

    • Cause they can imagine that by seeing it visually it’s very satisfying Also if in person a guy just wants to see it and nothing more he’s fucked up

  • The shape, folds of skin, clit, wetness, taste, smell

    • Shape? What shape... It's just a slit between the legs

    • No there’s all kinds of subtle differences

  • It’s a elegant and private part of the woman’s anatomy that makes most guys feel special, unless they are jerks

    • Elegance part?

  • I spent nine months trying to get out and a lifetime trying to swim back up stream like a salmon. Ask the salmon why they do that stupid sht.

  • The smell the taste and getting horny knowing your cock is going to fill her pussy with cum I like tits just as much and cum on tits is hot to I love all of the women if I’m with her including her personality not just sex

  • To quote Marge Simpson: I just think they're neat.

  • Ain't you hypocrite? You think dick is okay to be admired but pussy is not. Why?

  • im guessing because they can picture how it feels when they look at it ig, I don't know, i dont ask for nudes

  • Cause they are sensitive, and they rub against sensitive areas.

  • I have no idea...

    • Never thought about it?

    • Yeah. I mean I don’t understand why they get so excited about vaginas.

    • What's your thoughts on male penis?

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  • I guess a woman feels 1 way with a guy inside her.

    And a guy feel another way.

    I saw boobs long before I saw a pussy. So it had a certain unknown quality to it.

    I guess I like knowing she is aroused for me, its her trigger and generally the oppostiness of it.

    All that I guess is the appeal.

  • If you had a dick you'd understand

    • That doesn't explain it well

    • The best dick you've ever gotten... imagine how your pussy felt to him...

  • The vagina is far more interesting to me than breast or buttocks. There is quite a bit going on inside the vagina. You get the outer labia, inner labia, urethra, clitoris, ...
    The vagina has far more things to play with than breasts. Pun intended: there is more bang for the buck.

  • I agree that boobs look waaaaay more attractive (man I love boobs), however a pussy doesn't look bad neither, in fact I've watched some girls (amateur pornhub couples lol) that had their pussies looking somehow "meaty" and looking so damn good.

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