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I’ve always thought of this as etiquette but I was wondering what it’s typically like for other couples.
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- It's something you try for, but sometimes the woman you're with is nervous, or especially the first couple times you sleep with someone there's a lot of excitement, so it goes quickly, and you really don't know how to please them yet.
I mean, over time it's pretty straightforward to get your partner off before you, and common courtesy, I've only been with two other women who would get theirs and be like ok, I'm done, you do you. It was extraordinarily frustrating, and showed me the flip side of that coin right quick.0|00|0Is this still revelant?Great points! And I totally agree. Some women do need to feel totally comfortable with a guy before they allow themselves to feel pleasure. We can get in our head pretty easily and obtaining an orgasm is a lot more mental work than it is for men.
I get why that’s frustrating and I’ve been there too. I think it just has to do with a lack of chemistry or two people that aren’t that Into each other.
- i mean it's not really so much that i "have to make sure". the things that are most fun to me just happen to make women cum xD it's not some sort of conscious extra effort or some awesome character trait of mine. it's purely egoistic :P0|00|0Is this still revelant?
Lol that’s a fine way to go about it too. I’ll never understand guys that don’t care about their women getting off too. I get so turned on seeing my partner happy.. you think they would too 🤷🏻♀️
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422- I bring my SO off by fingers or orally every time before I mount up. I am a short round with a quick trigger and this way, if I cum in a few short minutes, she isn't left unfulfilled. And she often remains aroused for a while after her orgasm and sometimes I can catch it when I mount up and give her another surge. It works better than it sounds.1|00|0
I get what you’re saying and it definitely makes sense! It’s still sensitive and sometimes
It’s easier to orgasm a second time right after the first.
- Yup. The problem in my case is that I last too long, and she gets tired in the middle of everything. So she gets all the orgasms she can get, but I never get to cum.
She doesn’t like blowing me or jerking me, and once she’s done,... she’s done. 😕
So the thing is this, I always pleased all my women, there isn’t a bigger satisfaction for a guy than making her cum! But my now wife, once she comes, she stops. So, yup, at least in my case, I make sure she orgasms first.0|00|0I’m sorry you’re going through that! Have you expressed how you feel about it? Do you feel like you last too long because you don’t feel like she’s wanting to make you feel good? If someone doesn’t care about your own pleasure I think there’s something bigger going on the relationship that you need to address. She should want to make you feel good.
- I always make sure my partner cums before me because I know the second I do, I'm no longer interested in having sex. I'm tired and no longer horny and I just want to sleep or get on with my day. So it's important my partner finish first1|10|0
This is a really good point and it’s true with a lot of men. It’s not always saying that women should come first, but biologically it just makes more sense. My partner is always done after he cums first and not interested so it’s best that I cum first so we are both happy.
- Prefferably, yes, but if I finish, there's always fingering and oral to help her finish too. Altbeit; after ejaculation I'm not that interested in giving than I was prior, but I continue giving for her0|00|0
- Yes, I try to ensure my wife finishes first, sometimes we finish at same time or close to it.1|00|0
I love when that happens! That actually happened a couple days ago with my partner. It’s the best feeling!
- I always give a women at least 2 or 3 orgasms from oral before I slowly slide my throbbing dick into her now quivering pussy.0|00|0
- I try my best because I want her settled after. A deep orgasm-ed girl is a tranquil happy one.1|00|0
- I do my best to make sure she always has at lease one before I let myself get close to mine because I hate getting mine and then she feels like we are done. That’s why I love giving oral as it usually good for one or two at the least...0|00|0
- Of course. Often women are multiple and she comes first0|00|0
- Yes I prefer her too but it doesn’t always happen. But if she tells me it’s ok then I don’t feel so bad. But I’m all about her pleasure over mine so whatever I can do for her I’m down.0|00|0
- I try to but sometimes I prematurely ejaculate and it’s impossible to control not hold back from cumming. It actually gives me anxiety when having sex with a new girl that I don’t want to sometimes because I know I’ll cum very fast0|00|0
- I do yes, im a giver so its important that she orgasms before i do0|00|0
- This question is shitty to me. No guy has made me cum before. I've faked them all so I'm skeptical of guys even having the ability to1|00|0
I think your first problem is faking it. What’s the purpose of faking it? I’ve never understood this. It takes time to orgasm with a guy for the first time but it’s obtainable and once you do it once you’ll know what works. Just find a guy that will take the time and relax. And faking it doesn’t help your situation or his. Be honest about your sexual pleasure and you’ll be happier.
- I try to make sure. But since I last very long, most girls inevitably go before me.0|00|0
- Yes... but usually we are talking about more orgams so she may orgasm two or three times until I do.1|00|0
- Men haha nope they demand to orgasm first. Drove. me. crazy so I switch sides.
I love making my sweet lover orgasm first then it's my turn to lay back and enjoy her or climb on top and have my way.0|00|0#Notallmen 🤣
I suffer from this predicament from the other side. The girl cums and it's over.It’s true. Not all men do. And honestly most of the men I’ve been with have made sure I orgasm first. I’m glad you’re getting that pleasure now but its obtainable from men too. I’ve been with my guy for four years and I can’t remember a time where we both didn’t get off.
- that is always my goal... why usually make sure to give lots of oral foreplay1|00|0
- No I don't make sure or even try she just does multiple times actually and then i cum sometimes0|00|0
- Lol "etiquette." Uh, anyway, yeah, unless I don't really like her that much in the moment I guess.0|00|1
... it is etiquette? Once guys cum it’s over. It’s better to make sure she’s enjoying herself but women can still enjoy sex and pleasure you after they cum because they don’t need recovery time in between orgasms (or not much.) I think it’s just apathetic to only care about your pleasure. If that’s your mentality I feel bad for the women you’re with 🙄
- my guy seems to usually follow that "etiquette"0|00|0
- almost always either through oral sex or toys0|00|0
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