Guys, when you’re having sex with a woman, do you always make sure she orgasms first?

Question

I’ve always thought of this as etiquette but I was wondering what it’s typically like for other couples.

razelove · Accepted Answer

It's something you try for, but sometimes the woman you're with is nervous, or especially the first couple times you sleep with someone there's a lot of excitement, so it goes quickly, and you really don't know how to please them yet.

I mean, over time it's pretty straightforward to get your partner off before you, and common courtesy, I've only been with two other women who would get theirs and be like ok, I'm done, you do you. It was extraordinarily frustrating, and showed me the flip side of that coin right quick.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

i mean it's not really so much that i "have to make sure". the things that are most fun to me just happen to make women cum xD it's not some sort of conscious extra effort or some awesome character trait of mine. it's purely egoistic :P

Purplekite77 · Answer

This question is shitty to me. No guy has made me cum before. I've faked them all so I'm skeptical of guys even having the ability to

souEu · Answer

Yup. The problem in my case is that I last too long, and she gets tired in the middle of everything. So she gets all the orgasms she can get, but I never get to cum.

She doesn’t like blowing me or jerking me, and once she’s done,... she’s done. 😕

So the thing is this, I always pleased all my women, there isn’t a bigger satisfaction for a guy than making her cum! But my now wife, once she comes, she stops. So, yup, at least in my case, I make sure she orgasms first.

SarahsSummer · Answer

my guy seems to usually follow that "etiquette"

dany018 · Answer

Prefferably, yes, but if I finish, there's always fingering and oral to help her finish too. Altbeit; after ejaculation I'm not that interested in giving than I was prior, but I continue giving for her

ecfresh · Answer

Of course. Often women are multiple and she comes first

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes, I try to ensure my wife finishes first, sometimes we finish at same time or close to it.

LiamSawyer · Answer

I always give a women at least 2 or 3 orgasms from oral before I slowly slide my throbbing dick into her now quivering pussy.

Dargil · Answer

I bring my SO off by fingers or orally every time before I mount up. I am a short round with a quick trigger and this way, if I cum in a few short minutes, she isn't left unfulfilled. And she often remains aroused for a while after her orgasm and sometimes I can catch it when I mount up and give her another surge. It works better than it sounds.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

I always make sure my partner cums before me because I know the second I do, I'm no longer interested in having sex. I'm tired and no longer horny and I just want to sleep or get on with my day. So it's important my partner finish first

Haelaeix123 · Answer

I do yes, im a giver so its important that she orgasms before i do

Passinggas · Answer

I try my best because I want her settled after. A deep orgasm-ed girl is a tranquil happy one.

TCredo · Answer

that is always my goal... why usually make sure to give lots of oral foreplay

dovido · Answer

ALWAYS is a strong word for everything regarding sex! and with my girlfriend usually yes

Rippersavage · Answer

Yes I do

Thatsamazing · Answer

Lol "etiquette." Uh, anyway, yeah, unless I don't really like her that much in the moment I guess.

s2firestar · Answer

I try to make sure. But since I last very long, most girls inevitably go before me.

ND4SPD31 · Answer

Yes I prefer her too but it doesn’t always happen. But if she tells me it’s ok then I don’t feel so bad. But I’m all about her pleasure over mine so whatever I can do for her I’m down.

Dr_Latex_McPeggin · Answer

I do my best to make sure she always has at lease one before I let myself get close to mine because I hate getting mine and then she feels like we are done. That’s why I love giving oral as it usually good for one or two at the least...