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Are my boobs too small?

My ex broke up with me because my boobs are too small and unattractive 😥 I thought they are fine until he said that.
Are my boobs too small?
Are my boobs too small?
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People have been asking why my ex left lol. I don't know actually, he was my first boyfriend and I dont really know how to be sexy, I never have sex and pretty much scared.
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We were fighting about how busy I was, not having time for him and he have been asking for sex multiple times but I wasn't ready, we just dated for a month. So all I did was like cuddling naked, blowjobs and stuffs just to keep him happy.
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Thank you everyone for all your advice and comment! I felt better and yes I am over him.
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Sorry, but anyone i can ask about nipples perferences?
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  • Nope, they look great, I'm going to guess just hitting D or solid C cup. Anywho, doesn't matter regardless, more that you felt fine about yourself before.

    People say all kinds of hurtful things during break-ups, to justify them, make themselves feel better than you, so on and so forth.

    Regardless, if he's just with women for titties, he can find plenty of women with huge tits to not care about so much besides that trait... that will likely invest just as much back into him.

    Don't let one person being shallow and bitter bring you down, it's tough, but you gotta be tough. Being true to yourself is all you really have in the long haul, the looks fade anyway. I've dated some women with huge tits, and up until about 25 or so, that's fine and all, then they start trying to compete with a place around the belly button and causing back pain.

    We all age and get less attractive, so worry about being attractive on the inside. If someone's that shallow, or petty, let them have that opinion and worry about yourself and moving forwards with having a good life that doesn't involve them.

    • Thank you!

    • Don't thank me, maybe just work on your confidence a little more. Learn from the experience, and when you feel ready, move on.

    • I will do my best

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  • Your breasts are almost flawless!!!

    I'm guessing you're a B cup? there's a lot more to chest quality than just size. Firmness, perkiness, nipple color and shape, sensitivity. I've never felt two that were alike. And each is special and has qualities that others lack. It's a lot like height or hair color. You can't have both a tall AND short girl.

    A guy would be VERY lucky to have you in his life.
    Even cuddling naked is super special and an honor and privilege. It sounds like he's not looking for a serious relationship. I'm sorry to hear that.

    He just wants to use girls. Try to be happy he spared you further harm. I know that's hard to do, but your lack of self confidence is very cute and attractive, and a smart guy will appreciate your personality, giving spirit, and tight, soft, and adorable body.

    I'm jealous of your future guy. Thanks for the question 😄

    • They are not pretty but thank you!

    • They look great to me.

    • You need, I mean REALLY NEED, to accept that the vast majority, and I do mean VAST majority of men, will think you have gorgeous breasts. The guy who didn't... who cares? Fuck him.

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  • Girl, you look absolutely fine!! He's just trying to put you down emotionally, or to give himself a ridiculous excuse to back out. Don't let his negative body shaming comments affect you and love yourself! (Learnt it the harsh way myself: self-love trumps all!)

    Quick note: I recommend that you don't put pictures of your breasts on public websites like this one in the future, because you never know if the person who sees this has good intentions or not. A little precaution can save you from a lot of pain later :") Take care!

    • Thank you!

  • First... it blows my mind that a guy would break up with a girl for having small boobs... IF SHE HAD SMALL BOOBS...

    Honesty... this is just confusing... because you DON"T have small boobs! I mean... I genuinely don't understand this.

    The point is... the guy is CLEARLY an idiot. Your boobs are about perfect. Don't let this one idiot make you doubt that you're boobs 'are fine'... they are! :)

    • Thank you, he was my first boyfriend and hearing he said that just ruined my confident

    • oh wow... I'm SO sorry to hear that he was your first boyfriend! I've HONESTLY never ACTUALLY run into a girl who's ever actually been dumped for having small boobs. I really really haven't. But like I said... your boobs aren't even small... by ANYONE'S standards (except this one idiot... apparently). So I can pretty much guarantee you that this is going to be the first and last time any guy has a problem with your boobs. I'm just so sorry that he was your first boyfriend. ' Please don't let this affect your confidence (easier said than done, I know)... but seriously... you've got NOTHING to 'worry about' in the boob department. This guy is NOT in any way like 99% of guys you're ever going to meet. This will never be a problem for you ever again. He's weird. That's what it comes down to.

    • Thank you! It means a lot!

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  • You are beautiful just as you are. The better news is that over time your ex is going to find out how perfect your breasts were. Really big breasts to do not age well. You will always be perky, exciting to look at and wonderful to touch.

    Go Girl!

    • Thank you!!

    • Now you make me worried my girlfriend's are a bigger D.

  • Clearly they were too small for HIM. Don't ever let someone body shame you like that. It's great that he's gone. I'm sure someone who cares for you will accept your body as is and maybe even LOVE it.

  • First off. You look amazing so get that out of your head. What it sounds like is he was just throwing shit at you to hit you. From the argument it sounds like your boobs sent the issue. He just said that to fight back

    Again. You look good and big enough for any one who wants to be in your life 😉

  • They look wonderful and are bigger then mine. I'm sorry he used that as his reason. Those are perfect to me and just above them a wonderful head right on your shoulders.

    • Be okay with your "smaller" size, ha? 30C is hers, see comments here. Some males like small, medium, big, very big. And some simply, don't care (no boy-boobs, LOL).

  • He's a dick. There's girls out there would do anything for a pair like yours.

    • Trust me there are guys out there wishing for a girl with this pair

  • A pushup can make them seem bigger than they are. Can't tell until they are unleashed from their bonds.

    • If you "Can't tell until they are unleashed from their bonds." That only means that you want her too upload a pic of them without a bra. Are we really ready for that?

    • @Chris006 True, for all we know an "Anon" could be a bit different and we could be seeing Moobs instead.

    • Wow! *Three really genuin slow claps!*

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  • Your ex is fucking dumb. Those are great.

  • they are not too small.. i was an A cup and that is small...

  • Small? Are you fucking serious? Those are some luscious melons. You are blessed with perfect tatas, girlfriend. That guy was a clueless dickwad of the highest order. His words are meaningless. Be glad he's gone.

    • Well I guess he preferred bigger boobs

    • That couldn't have been his reason. Yours are perfect.

    • Sorry just saw your reply, and thank you for you kindness!

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  • No. My boobs cannot even touch each other in the middle, not even if I try. Life of a size AA girl. I used to be insecure about them, but I decided that I'm not getting a boob job anyways and I'm not able to gain weight, so worrying about them is useless.
    I have no trouble finding partners, people tend to call me attractive often and especially compliment my body all the time.

    Your boobs aren't small in my book. They look nicely shaped too. And even if they were, I think there's no such thing as too small. People have preferences, but you just gotta find a guy who likes your body type the way it is!

    Your ex is just an asshole who decided to find a lame excuse to dump you.

    • I like AA size always have

    • Your boobs are ok in shape

    • Ím a man

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  • Nah they're gorgeous babe 😍 screw him!

  • He’s a jackass. Your boobs are average sized.

  • 1. Your boobs appear to be average, not small.

    2. Many guys actually prefer smaller boobs, like 25-30% of all guys. And up to 50% have no preference about size.

    3. He knew your boob size when he started dating you. Apparently, your boob size is an excuse for the break up. He was tired of waiting for sex.

    4. Any guy who is pressuring you to have sex in the first month of dating is the wrong guy for you. There are plenty of guys who will think that you are beautiful and worth waiting for.

  • I like your bra.

    • Thank you! They are really comfy:)

    • He probably just said your boobs are small to make himself feel better about breaking up with you. Also, it could be a cover up to the real reason he broke up with you. Like he didn't get sex.

    • Maybe he’s small.

  • maybe he just does not like your breast implants ! thanks

  • Damn that’s sad those seem nice and perky looks like C cups those are avg in size wth he talking bout. Don’t let others dictate your confidence laugh it off the fact he had the nerve to shit on the size of your boobs.

  • I've never really been a big boob guy, but thats because i know that problems and pain it can cause women (Mom and couple others who had reductions for medical reasons)
    Worst yet to blame them for the break up means he couldn't see past that quite attractive pair to the beautiful woman and by that i mean mind, personality, etc (ok from what imagine body too). they are Attached to.

    Unfortunately most relationships start because of the physical desire but missing the mental connection.
    Cause if you really dont know them then ask them out it (like most guys do) its based on the physical and usually thats it.
    If you try to see what they are like, ask friends, hanging out, etc and then ask them out (more girls side) its based more on the mental component first the physical becomes second part.
    I maybe wrong but sex for most guys not a lot of thinking goes on a kinda autopilot
    Women i sure can be just physical i speculate more likely with someone whom they have already slept with rather then someone new.
    But Women with the mental connection and the physical will be more satisfied and it can deepen or amplify how they feel.

    Last thought i think you sensed how he was acting towards you and pressuring you which is why your felt more scared about sex to you it means something more than just physical and your afraid he might just try to take advantage and its all he ever wanted.

  • Well guys like all our different shapes and sizes. I would say that you are not small at all. He just finds bigger more interesting to him.

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