Guys during sex close to orgasm?

[Anonymous]

When a girl bites you or scratches you why don't you ever tell her to stop? Do you enjoy the aftermath bruises or while she's at it is not painful enough for you to want her to stop?

[Shon81]

Some women love to bite and scratch their partner during sex. Usually this comes without warning and not from the type of person you would expect. I'm pretty open minded sexually and if that's what she is into I'm willing to go through some pain for the sake of her pleasure. That said, I have been bitten a couple times so hard that it really really hurt and it kinda freaked me out. As to why men don't usually tell women to stop? For one, if we are having passionate sex I don't want to ruin the moment or do anything to risk it coming to an end. Secondly, I think many men would rather endure the pain than come across as weak by wimpering "owie that hurts, stap". Finally, there are some men that get aroused by pain during sex.

[Usernamesrdumb]

I like it but no bruises, especially above neck. Hikeys are for high school, not the officeZ

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

I would tell her to stop. I'm not into being scratched or bitten. The inflicting of injuries is a precursor to fighting as far as I'm concerned.

[Asker]

Right there? Would you physically stop her or verbally tell her?

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

Verbally. I know that many people like that kind of thing but it just triggers the wrong kind of response in me.

[Dyskrasia]

I enjoy it. Not everyone is, but a little pain right before getting off is nice.

[Browneye57]

Don't do that silly. Don't be an idiot.

[Ianto]

One's pain threshold alters during arousal. It is easy to not really notice superficial damage whilst engrossed in lovemaking. Or even to enjoy it!

[Cellestial]

Never happened to me but if it did I wouldn't tell her to stop so she can fully enjoy the experience. I mean she's probably doing it unintentionally thanks to the pleasure and telling her to stop at that moment would interrupt her from expressing it and probably ruin it for her since she'll start focusing on holding herself from doing something I didn't like or handle instead of enjoying the orgasm.

I hope you get my point

[Steve37]

It's erotic and not that painful

[Twalli]

To me it shows she is in such pleasure she can't control herself. Also a combination of pain and pleasure is actually pretty good.

[JamesBlackDragon]

I'm into pain

[Plitty-Tank]

I'd let her know if it is too painful.

[FATKATMATTIMATT]

Feeling wanted that intensely.