Ladies, do you think is unfair and selfish when men ask you for anal sex (You receiving)?

Question

If I was a woman and a dude asked me for anal sex, he can hell off.

Ladies, do you think is unfair and selfish when men ask you for anal sex (You receiving)?

Answer 1

Anonymous

Is it selfish and unfair to ask? No, of course not. Would be selfish and unfair to continue asking if she says no? Probably.

How about this... is it selfish and unfair for her to ask him for anal sex (her receiving)? Because that has been more my experience. I'm not a big fan of anal but I've dated some women who were and who pressured me to do it.

Maybe the bigger question here is... is it unfair and selfish for a religious fruitcake to continue to push his judgmental sexually repressive bullshit views on everyone else?

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

1 y
The anus wasn't designed for sex and penetration. God created a vagina for a reason. The person giving anal sex isn't the one who will have to endure the pain and discomfort and possibly serious medical problems.
Opinion Owner

1 y
Yadda yadda yadda, same tired old bullshit argument. By that logic oral sex is bad too, which is pretty ridiculous.
Hispanic-Cool-Guy

1 y
Oral sex doesn't cause bruising or bleeding unlike anal. But whatever.
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Opinion Owner

1 y
Anal sex doesn't cause bruising or bleeding, unlike teeth.

LOL, you have no clue what a dumbass you sound like here, do you.
Hispanic-Cool-Guy

1 y
You know more than actual doctors. Congrats. 😂
Warmapplecrumble

1 y
Anal sex can cause prolapse of the intestines and discharge of faeces... It's also higher risk for STDs due to tears
Warmapplecrumble

1 y
Tares***
Opinion Owner

1 y
@Warmapplecrumble You were right the first time... it's tears, not tares, unless you are working with digital scales or something.

Anal sex can cause problems if done improperly, just like vaginal sex can. Normal and responsible anal sex does not cause those issues though.

But sadly there is a lot of misinformation out there, and you are doing your part to perpetuate it. Educate yourself.

www.plannedparenthood.org/.../can-anal-sex-have-any-long-term-effects-on-my-body-ive-heard-that-it-can-cause-anal-leakage-later-in-life-and-anal-prolapse-is-this-true
Daniela1982

1 y
@Warmapplecrumble You were right with tears which is spelled like the crying tears. A tare is a measurement of weight.
Warmapplecrumble

1 y
@Daniela1982 oh really 😂 thanks 🙈

Answer 2

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

The anus wasn't designed for sex and penetration. God created a vagina for a reason. The person giving anal sex isn't the one who will have to endure the pain and discomfort and possibly serious medical problems.

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

Yadda yadda yadda, same tired old bullshit argument. By that logic oral sex is bad too, which is pretty ridiculous.

Answer 4

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

Oral sex doesn't cause bruising or bleeding unlike anal. But whatever.

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

Anal sex doesn't cause bruising or bleeding, unlike teeth.

LOL, you have no clue what a dumbass you sound like here, do you.

Answer 6

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

You know more than actual doctors. Congrats. 😂

Answer 7

Warmapplecrumble

Anal sex can cause prolapse of the intestines and discharge of faeces... It's also higher risk for STDs due to tears

Answer 8

Warmapplecrumble

Tares***

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

@Warmapplecrumble You were right the first time... it's tears, not tares, unless you are working with digital scales or something.

Anal sex can cause problems if done improperly, just like vaginal sex can. Normal and responsible anal sex does not cause those issues though.

But sadly there is a lot of misinformation out there, and you are doing your part to perpetuate it. Educate yourself.

www.plannedparenthood.org/.../can-anal-sex-have-any-long-term-effects-on-my-body-ive-heard-that-it-can-cause-anal-leakage-later-in-life-and-anal-prolapse-is-this-true

Answer 10

Daniela1982

@Warmapplecrumble You were right with tears which is spelled like the crying tears. A tare is a measurement of weight.

Answer 11

Warmapplecrumble

@Daniela1982 oh really 😂 thanks 🙈

Answer 12

Iamagoodguy | 309 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Request no some like it for some reason
Demand yes that's rude

Answer 13

Daniela1982 | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Tell him sure, but I get to peg him first with a fat 10 inch strap on and ram him like two big horn sheep butting heads. I'm sure the clown would suddenly no longer be interested in performing anal and would suddenly remember he had an appointment and excuse himself while holding his arse.

Answer 14

thegirlfromthething | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

It’s not unfair or selfish to ask but it is unfair and selfish if he feels entitled to anal sex and won’t stop pestering me after I said no.

Answer 15

fauchelevent | 10.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I don't think asking itself is selfish... It'd be selfish if you said no and then he kept trying to get you to do it.

Answer 16

Niki777

Xper 4

No its not. :) but don't get offended if we politely say no!

Answer 17

Roberta95 | 264 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

It is a bit unfair and selfish. But if I were a man, who knows what I would do.

Daniela1982

1 y
You would probably try and find a Ho who will bend over for you, and not for the soap.

Answer 18

Daniela1982

You would probably try and find a Ho who will bend over for you, and not for the soap.

Answer 19

TazWax | 2.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Never had a guy ask. I've offered.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

1 y
Why would you offer it?
TazWax

1 y
Because I'm into ass play and wanted to know what a dick felt like up it.
Hispanic-Cool-Guy

1 y
Didn't it hurt you?
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TazWax

1 y
A little
Daniela1982

1 y
Did a turd also fall out as he was withdrawing? It happens from time to time I hear.
TazWax

1 y
@Daniela1982 nope

Answer 20

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

Why would you offer it?

Answer 21

TazWax

Because I'm into ass play and wanted to know what a dick felt like up it.

Answer 22

Hispanic-Cool-Guy

Didn't it hurt you?

Answer 23

TazWax

A little

Answer 24

Daniela1982

Did a turd also fall out as he was withdrawing? It happens from time to time I hear.

Answer 25

TazWax

@Daniela1982 nope

Answer 26

Agem123 | 2.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Personally I don't prefer anal sex, but some girls like it. So, it really depends.

Answer 27

Warmapplecrumble | 3.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yeah what's wrong with vaginal sex 😅

Answer 28

bangyourhead

Guru

How’s it selfish. She’ll have fun too.

mistixs

1 y
Unlikely
ProfessionalMusician

1 y
I'm with you
bangyourhead

1 y
@mistixs Aren’t you a virgin?
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mistixs

1 y
Yes but I've read studies that most women find the idea of anal sex to be a turn-off
bangyourhead

1 y
@mistixs I’ll take the word of women I’ve had anal with.
Daniela1982

1 y
Yeah, but can you believe the word of Ho's?
bangyourhead

1 y
@Daniela1982 Not sure, what do you think about anal?
Daniela1982

1 y
If God had wanted women to have anal He would have given us a Cloaca, like a crocodile has, instead or a separate vagina and rectum.
bangyourhead

1 y
@Daniela1982 If God didn't want you to have anal, he wouldn't have put so many feel-good nerve endings there.