When having sex, which is more important to you?

[Anonymous]

[ecfresh]

While orgasming at the same time is ideal that’s not always happening. Spotlight sex during oral and trading off pleasure is more practical especially while engaging in foreplay. Usually my intentions leading into sex are to help her cum a few times prior to intercourse and then allow myself to cum after slowly increasing the intensity of said intercourse.

It motivates me to give her pleasure and I used to really be all about the number of orgasms I could give her. One thing I learned is that could put pressure on her because sometimes she might be in a different mind space and not even feel like releasing; just wanting the intimacy found in making love. So while it’s still exciting to hear her cum over and over again I had to adjust to focusing on the overall experience and realizing the connection and bonding is what counts.

So I still picked C because I really enjoy feeling pleasure myself and like I said I like to give her pleasure as well. Just have learned every sexual experience will be unique and to have great conversation and communication so even if the quantities of orgasms are less the quality of the time spent is still supreme.

[Ianto]

I have recently been seeing a lady who warned me that she struggled with orgasm. Somewhat to my surprise, it is most unsatisfactory. The positive side is that she obviously doesn't fake it, and is very willing to oblige me. Even so, I find that I am far less inclined to bother, knowing that she will not orgasm.

[Ianto]

Thank you for the MHO.

[just_a_potato]

I'd say together but if I had to chose one or the other, I'd make sure they'd orgasm I could just finish on my own later anyway

[EmmaMary]

Naturally the ultimate would be that we both orgasmed together.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl. x

[Asker]

No problem! 😊

[EriFrancis1994]

We both orgasm. Not necessarily together but it's important we both do. I don't feel satisfaction without cumming and I know men don't either. Even if I've cum a few times but he hasn't I'll keep doing whatever it takes to make him cum

[DeeDeeDeVour]

The ecstasy is euphoric when we both orgasm together.

[Apple1996]

Giving my husband a orgasm gives me more pleasure then having one myself so definitely focus more on him

[Smf1989]

that's nice of u

[jenn11161986]

I'm not selfish. I'm already ok as long as he's fine

[Glenn603]

Obviously i want to have an orgasm when having sex as well, but it is definitely more important to me that she gets to have one.

[Jjpayne]

When it happens in my life, together would be good but id want to make sure she's happy

[M1k3y]

Definitely more important for her to enjoy it and make it better for her.

[wankiam]

b... always been like that for me

[R4vedave]

We both orgasm

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

They don't even have to be there. Unless I need a sandwich, obvs 🤔

[Asker]

😂😂😂

[NEW_YUKI]

Partner has an orgasm🥰

[Dargil]

I voted #2 from a practical standpoint. Everybody dreams about C.

[Haelaeix123]

I like to orgasm during sex but its more important to me that she orgasms first

[Laozi]

It's sex. It's a two-way road. So, it should be pleasurable for both not just for one.

[your_guy_23]

I always prioritise making my partner orgasm, I don't even care if I don't orgasm, as long as my partner does then I'm happy

[Nik1hil]

What's point of sex without orgasm..

[Hannajenky]

I would say b, I am not going to every time and there's nothing he can do aboht it it’s just how my body works

[justcurious2019]

i have yet to have sex but i would say if i had a girlfriend she will have an orgasm

[monsterockstar]

Both organm and mutually understand and careful while ejaculation withdraw penis from vagina

[loveslongnails]

My partner is ALWAYS more important. Always.