Why do married men cheat?

Is it because of lack of sex? Is the sex still not enough? He prefers having sex with as many women as he can? Wife not caring or understanding enough? Wife too demanding? Wife is selfish and materialistic who keeps spending his money to buy luxury items? Not pretty? Not sexy?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • All the reasons you listed, may be a reason someone is not happy in their relationship. Not a valid reason to cheat. There is never a valid reason to cheat on someone, ever. You either communicate your unhappiness with your spouse and either agree to try to salvage the relationship or you part ways and then screw whoever you want. And it's not just men. Women do it too. And it's not always because unhappy in relationship. Sometimes it's just the nature of that person. Bad enough to be cheated on, but nowadays every one always wanna lay the blame on the person cheated on, never the cheater. WTF that ain't even right.

  • Makes him feel like an alpha male when he's cheating, especially if the side chick is pretty or hot or both. I know this for a fact cause a married guy told me this.

    • Are there still faithful guys who can resist sexual request by a random hot woman?

    • Yes. Lots of faithful men are all around. The ones in a solid marriage will even tell their wife if a hot woman hits on them and their wife will know it’s because her man has value.

    • @ecfresh is right. Some guys are totally faithful.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Lack of communication and honesty. People change over time so when you get married assuming what works for year one doesn’t work in year 5 or year 10. But married people who don’t communicate well and honestly tell their partners what they want eventually will get their needs filled outside of the marriage. While there are cheaters and people who just will not remain faithful; most of them aren’t tying the knot in the first place. It’s more likely that when he cheated it was to fill some hole that either he failed to request from his wife or she failed to deliver.

    • So if a guy likes to try anal, deepthroat, facial and blowjob but I only tell him I can only give him a blowjob but won’t try the rest because it’s kinda risky for me will he cheat? Or it depends on him? I will also give him sex twice or thrice per week I can’t give him Everyday because of work

    • What would make other things risky? What you do when you are making love with someone else is always up to the two of you. That’s when you create intimacy and do things to give pleasure to someone else. Being willing to try new things is important because otherwise over the course of a long time sex could be boring if you did the same thing over and over again

    • Regarding cheating though that’s why I said it’s about communication. I have heard of some couples where the spouse agrees to let their partner have sex with someone else to satisfy their needs. That’s not cheating because both partners know and are in agreement.

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  • There are plenty of reasons. Lack of sex, lack of different things in sex, boredom, an opportunity he couldn't refuse. Lack of love, etc...

    • Are there faithful married men who don’t cheat?

    • Of course there are. We are hard to find though. And me not cheating today doesn't mean I won't do it in the future. Same applies to women

    • So most women these days cheat too? I’m not one of them so I don’t really know

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  • You've got a pretty good start at a comprehensive list there. There are as many reasons men cheat as there are men who cheat.

  • I'm guessing mostly the first three

    • I don’t get why some married men need sex with as many women as possible if he prefers that he shouldn’t get into a relationship in the first place

    • It's our instincts to have such ambitions. Indeed, probably the only valid argument one could make for encouraging girls to wait for marriage is that denying sex to all men creates an environment in which no man can be jealous of the sexual sucess of any other. Removing that insecurity and still denying sex also focuses men to develop an appreciation for monogamy. Of course, this requires that all women be regarded as little more than learning aids for the purpose of training the animalinstincts of men, which is absurd.

  • Usually men cheat because the sex at home has died out, or the wife is done with sex and does not want to do it any more.
    Other reasons are that he is just a jerk and wants more sex with other women.

  • Perhaps tasting new and multiple dishes bring them to cheating adventure.

  • Thrill seeking

  • There are some guys who do it because their sex life is terrible at home.

    Some do it because they love variety or want younger women.

    Some do it because they need to feel that they can still get women.

    Some do it because they feel unloved and unwanted at home.

    Some people may cheat to fulfill a specific kink, that's not the most common reason, but it is a reason.

  • Why do married woman cheat?

  • The woman isn’t satisfying him

  • Because women automatically stop taking care of their looks after marriage. They assume that the guy is locked down and in the case of a divorce he can only lose. So she doesn't feel obligated to fulfil her end of the bargain. She starts becoming fat and ugly as a result and gives sex only if she can get something in return.

    • Like?

    • Take the kids to school, clean the house, buy her that new dress, take the trash out, walk the dogs, vacations in her dream destination, wash the dishes next day, don't expect any cooked food tomorrow, stop complaining about the girls night out, promise her he won't call any friends for the next football match this weekend, stop playing video games and so on and so on. The usual stuff women love to do to emotionally blackmail men.

  • Why do married women cheat?

    They just fell out of love, it happens

  • I have no idea. Why do anyone cheat when they are married?

  • could be for any of those reasons

  • All of these points is a potential reason...

  • In my experience there are many reasons. It really depends on the relationship and the guy. Sex can have a lot to do with it but is often times not the only factor

  • Don't you wonder why it's a 22 years old woman like you asking such a question?

    • She has a right to ask

    • I didn’t know much about guys

    • @WhiteShoulder a reasonable question would have been asked before.

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  • I don't see how they could love their wife if they cheat..

  • Because they're assholes

  • Greed and ego.