How often do guys keep sexfriends?

[Anonymous]

In my previous relationship, my boyfriend kept a sexfriend... long story.. I was naive and when I found I ended things.. when I trying to figure out about that thing... many male friends told me that in their youth they did threesome, others had sexfriend etc.. I kind of learn and grew to understand that it is normal for guys to do these stuffs. Today I have a crush however the situation cropped again... he has a sexfriend.. he did not tell me but I discovered it... he knows the girl since 2015 and they are high school friends but have sex regularly.

So so I want to know how often do you guys keep a sex friend?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

As often as humanly possible haha

I had a friend who used to be a fuck friend and she got a boyfriend so we stopped.

We hang out and go to movies together probably 2 or 3 times a month. We're close friends.

Used to have another girl that I used to have fun with. It was fun. But if you're not in an open relationship, it HAS to stop as soon as you get serious with someone.

[Asker]

So you can control yourself around your sexfriend? My crush brought his sexfriend on holiday, his sf stayed at his place, wore booty shorts for hiking.. when that girl was around he avoided me. Literally ran away, As soon as she went away.. he started saying hi again...

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I can understand why he could act that way. It's kinda an awkward situation. He doesn't want you to be mad at him. Maybe she really needed a place to stay or something and he felt like he couldn't say no. I doubt he brought that girl over with having sex with her on his mind. And as much as I hate to admit it (because I think the world in general should have a more relaxed view on sex) not everyone has the same kind of self control as me and my friend.

[PrudentGuy]

Never. I think I would not. I prefer a monogamous relationship for 2 primary reasons:

1) it will be long term because the girl will be more willing.

2) with IUD we can fuck bare without condoms.

[Anonymous]

Assuming these guys are having sex with female friends, then I'd say that girls have just as many sex friends as guys do. How often do they have sex friends? Pretty common now days. Do they keep them while in a relationship with someone else? Not usually, but sometimes.

[PeterPumpkin]

That's very true. It takes two to Tango.

[Opinion Owner]

@PeterPumpkin Have you had sex friends before?

[PeterPumpkin]

Yes, and I find that far superior to my shitty marriage.

[Opinion Owner]

@PeterPumpkin You had sex friends while being married?

[PeterPumpkin]

No, not during the marriage. But before and after, yes. Friends really don't have a lot to argue about. A marital couple has endless shit to argue about. It goes with the territory, because a married couple are now partners in life, and with that comes a shit-load of resentment brought on by life's decisions. Do you go to Cancun, or do you fix the leaking roof? Choose wisely, because your sexlife holds in the balance. Friends with bennies don't have to deal with that horseshit.

[boggboss]

I have only known 2 guys to do this growing up and 1 stage so yeah

[Haelaeix123]

Depends on the guy to be honest, some guys might keep 3 at once, others many never have one.

[Browneye57]

You found TWO that made up this crap?

[ThatGuy133]

In my youth I had one but I was also single. If I was in a relationship I didn't have anyone else because that was disrespectful to my s/o. Sounds like these guys don't really care.

[Twalli]

Never if I am dating someone. It doesn't mean I will end contact with that person.

[andy530]

Depends on the nature of my relationship if I keep as friends around or not

[B2281]

Never had a sex friend.

[Anonymous]

Tldr

As long as we can.

[Anonymous]

I've never had one. But I know girls also have them.

[Opinion Owner]

My wife she's had some sex friends for years.