Could you be in a relationship with someone if the sex was bad?

[AlongCameCindy]

[Hannahm67]

No but If sex is bad I always tell my partner what they should do instead and expect the same from them so if its still bad and they have made no moves to improve it then I will leave them. My current boyfriend and I had sex after a month and a half of dating which was long at the time for me because he said he didn't want it to be about sex be he was actually just nervous. I liked spending time with him so I waited I had us get tested so we could go raw on our first time. He lasted about 45 secs before prematurely cumming in me and then confessed it was his first time. I told him its fine if he makes it up to me by eating me out he jumped right to it and was ready to fuck again after ten minutes and lasted longer that time but I still had to finish myself off after. I like him so the next day I gave him tips and he did much better. Today two years later he can last forever if he wants and knows exactly what to do to make me cum every time since I trained him.

[KeziL]

I don't really care that much about sex. It feels good, but admittedly no guy has ever given me an orgasm. I've had sex with guys who were pretty bad, but also with guys who were really good, and I can honestly say that sex would not be much of a factor at all in deciding whether to be in a relationship with someone. One of the best nights I spent with a guy, he'd gotten himself too drunk and got whiskey dick so we barely fucked. Didn't matter to me, I didn't care. I'm cool with having bad sex and then just cuddling and talking, I like that part more. Sex ain't the main thing here, I care more about the person themselves.

[AndyOh]

No, I would have to leave.
Dated a girl once and the sex was bad. She was like a fish... just layed there, no matter what I tried to do. Finally broke up with her because it was just plain boring sex.

One reason why I advocate having sex before you get married; If your partner is bad in bed, it is going to be a long boring sex life, especially if you are needing a more exciting partner who wants to explore and learn and enjoy sex with you... thats me!

[AndyOh]

Thanks for the MHO :)

[PrudentGuy]

As long as she is willing to "upgrade" then yes.

1) a relationship is more than sex, but cannot succeed without sex.

2) good thing sex is an art that can be learned and perfected. Hence the couple must put in effort to be perfect for each other.

3) hence as long as she is willing to learn more and make sex a great part of our relationship, then yes, I'll date her if there is love and intimacy.

[Trolloween]

Yes because it would get better in time. Can't imagine a scenario where it wouldn't. Unless you mean I am the one to blame in the scenario and wasn't aware of it. That would be pretty bad.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Depends what bad means but I voted yes 🤭🤭🤭🤫

[lightbulb27]

Sure, but I don't see how it is possible for the sex to be bad. To me, that means the man isn't doing his job. maybe I'm naive here...

[integrale77]

It happened I tried to get her to expand her mind but we got divorced before any big changes happened

[Tamera952]

I am currently in one of those

[Jjpayne]

If we truly loved each other aside from having kids the sex would not matter

[M1k3y]

The sex can get better, just takes some time and honesty.

[Amberini]

Honestly, no. It's an important part of a relationship for me. We both need to be satisfied.

[20yearsolder]

Could I yes, do I want to be hell no

[LiamSawyer]

Not an easy question to answer as there are so many things that could influence a decision like that!

[Lily-bardot]

Never

[Browneye57]

No fukkin way. Sex is the glue.
You can overlook a LOT of slights and substandard if the sex is good. Trust me when I tell ya.

[Adrian2306]

all my ladies were just lying doing nothing... then for me doesn't matter, i dont mind doing all the work

[dthomas89]

Yes. Sex is sex

[Stu023]

Been there. Stayed for the personality, ended up getting burned

[rvarela]

Nope

[ND4SPD31]

Depends on how long I’ve been with them and how other things were.

[andy530]

This is a huge struggle I’m still trying to figure out.

[abc--123]

Unfortunately I am

[Plitty-Tank]

Yes. Relationships is not all about sex.