Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
G@G Community 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
How Do I Look? 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel & Leisure 
Trending & News +16
... and like this without one.
Yes, a single sperm is enough to make you pregnant. Unlikely to happen as it can die on the way but the fact is, that a single sperm cell is required, the rest sperm cells are an insurance policy for nature, that fertilizing does take place on a very high chance as it is critical for a species to survive.
I also don't understand how they even do it on porn or "casual sex", means ONS or so? STD seem no word to them.
Oh yes. I always have condoms on me. I suppose the only problem I've encountered is I've had men explicitly refuse to wear a condom. In which case, I obviously don't choose to have sex with that person. Because pregnancy isn't the only thing to fear with unsafe sex. I have to question their motive with so easily wanting and willing to have sex without protection
I'm very responsible when I don't use a condom because I do care for her not becoming pregnant, I go with her to shower and help flush her pussy a lot. Only and always a condom and especially on oral sex (anal is okay, it is very dirty in there, but not pussy), I will see that as a lack of trust in me. And I'm tested all negative on any major/common STD.
@roland77 Washing out the "pussy" as you so elegantly put it, does not assure that a pregnancy will not occur. All it takes is one speedy little tad pole to get to the egg first and call allie allie alls in free! So you are not being as responsible as you claim.
@Daniela1982 I am acting responsible. First is always with condom, second coitus interruptus, already washing it out. And it did work. My then-girlfriend got not pregnant from me even when we had 4 times made love per day with no condom.
Using a condom feels a bit distant, while being in with no feels very close and intimate to her. I would definitely miss it one day. And as I said, I'm tested negative on all common STD. I photographed the test results for her so she can see them, not just my loose words to trust.
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would only consider not using a condom if in a monogamous relationship with both of us tested negative
Exactly the same here. It is a consideration done by both of us. :-) I could also catch some STD from her, not just she from me.
Our cockheads are the equivalent of your clits. That's where we get almost all of our pleasure and sensation from. And having to wear a condom, which completely covers and seals them off, hampers our pleasure no less than it would for you to have to wear a latex sticker completely covering and sealing off your clit, whilst getting fucked by the guy wearing the condom. Doesn't sound so pleasurable now, does it?
Why do I sense hostility? lol. I mean, I've never used a dental dam... it seems like It would definitely be somewhat of a hassle to shove latex or something up vaginal canal opposed to putting something over a shaft. Between a dental dam and a male condom, the male condom seems more user friendly. I mean, women primarily use birth control. But the use of a female condom hasn't even been taught in traditional sex ed classes let alone widely publicized either. I'm a grown woman, and I have NO idea how to use a dental dam, but I know how men can properly put on a condom.
Because we’re already the ones doing everything else, we’re the ones that have to be careful we don’t get pregnant, we’re the ones that have to have weird shit literally inserted into our bodies as birth control which doesn’t always work, the LEAST y’all can do is wear a condom lmfao
Neither does pregnancy to a woman so consider yourself trumped. Would you rather have less feeling or pay out $1,000 a month for 18 years for the privilege?
@Daniela1982 Oh, so you're one of those women who gets pregnant just for the child benefit payments then? No surprises there...
@AmourHoney "we’re already the ones doing everything else"- like what? "we’re the ones that have to be careful we don’t get pregnant, we’re the ones that have to have weird shit literally inserted into our bodies as birth control which doesn’t always work"- no, you're the ones who CHOOSE whether or not to do these things. You don't "have to have weird shit literally inserted into our bodies as birth control which doesn’t always work" any more than we "have to have our testicles literally snipped off as birth control which doesn’t always work". Take responsibility for your own actions, and your own choices, for once in your goddamned lives.
We are taking responsibility, by requesting that y’all wear a condom just in case the birth control fails so we don’t get pregnant. But y’all don’t want to hear it. Y’all will whine about anything and then blame it on women.
If we don’t use birth control then we need another form of protection, AKA, the guy wearing a condom. Genius.
But like I said, we’re the ones taking birth control pills and having rods injected into us to keep ourselves protected, the decent thing you could do is wear a damn condom without whining. No, we don’t have to take birth control but if we don’t want to risk getting pregnant then it’s safer that we do.
No but I suppose there are those who can't get welfare so they do the next best thing.
@AmourHoney No, I actually want to have children, and just won't have sex with any women I'm not prepared to impregnate. Simples. Maybe you 'ladies' should try displaying the proper sexual conduct, and proper level of judgement, for an actual 'Lady', and do likewise- namely, simply refrain from having sex with anyone who you deem to be unworthy of impregnating you? It's not hard...
@AmourHoney Don't want to risk getting pregnant? You know full well what the one and only 100% safe, side-effects-free option is. You just aren't prepared to take it, because "I'm too horny I can't control myself I'm not a fucking nun lmfao".
Can you imagine trying to get your dinky in a condom if it were pasted inside a vagina? Unless you lie and get an extra large it isn't going to go in easy and would definitely ruin the moment for you.
yes. litterally i almost feel nothing with a condom on. wouldn't be the first time i couldn't cum and lost my errection after some time, cause i just didn't feel anything. condoms suck.
I'm not opposed to not using a condom with someone I trust... but I've heard that people lie about their status all the time. And asking people to show me some valid tests can be daunting. I'm on birth control because I dont like having periods... but the whole disease thing is alarming to me. I guess you shouldn't be having sex with someone you suspect to be dirty anyways lmao
You can go with him to shower and flush your pussy out together. :-) I did that with my then-girlfriend and we made love with no condom maybe 4 times per day (hot phase) and she never got pregnant with it.
I don't think those exist... also, I'm not a big "clit stimulation is everything to me" person. lol.
To answer your question id rather have sex with a condom than no sex at all if the lady wants it
You can build putting on a condom into your foreplay, like she puts it with her mouth on.
Those with nobs on them? They are great for her to be stimulated, other stronger condoms feel very numb and you think you are outside of her wet pussy.
@roland77 Yep, men are programmed to completely disregard the value of their sperm, and most have fallen for it. You'd rarely hear a woman saying anything that devalued her eggs.
@Truthatanycost I give my sperm a high value, without it not a single egg cell gets fertilized.
True in one way or another. Still I would always do a STD checkup to make sure she can feel safe, when the condom breaks or when we avoid it.
The hard ring on the opening you mean? Yes, they do that a little. Sadly they need to be tight to your penis, else sperm can come out and enter her pussy.
At the first time is okay to ask for a condom but later, in a LTR and he is tested? Na, I would certainly miss that kind of intimate trust being inside her pussy "raw".
You won't get THAT quickly pregnant, you can wash your pussy together with your boyfriend out. It worked with my then-girlfriend very well. We made love with no condom 4-5 times per day in our hot phase and she was still not pregnant. And I'm (again) tested negative on all common STD.
And you still can get pregnant if you wash your genitals after, please educate yourself 🤦🏻♀️ www.plannedparenthood.org/.../after-sex-without-a-condom-if-the-female-washes-out-her-vagina-with-hot-water-and-soap-can-she-still-get-pregnant
It is not just washing, but deep flushing with a shower, but move on. I'm not interested in you anyway.
Honestly please do read up on some of those articles to educate yourself a little on women’s health because it’s clear you have no idea how harmful what you’re suggesting is. I’m not saying that to be petty or rude I’m just saying that the fact you thought that it was okay to do that is disturbing.
Then I wonder what other "miracle" has made her not pregnant but when she was here, she got pregnant on the very first day (s) of her arrival here, even before our marriage?
I know for the fact about douching a pussy/vagina isn't good for her PH value (~3.5-4.8 is healthy). But it fixes itself after some time and we were not flushing it every hour with a tons of water.
Like I said, you can still get pregnant and it can still cause infections. Infections don’t ‘fix themselves’ either, they require medical attention. It literally tells you in that article that it does not decrease the chances of getting pregnant. Honestly man, it doesn’t matter if you’re not flushing it out every hour, doing it ONCE is enough to cause damage, please for the sake of my sanity. EDUCATE YOURSELF.
I am not putting myself at risk of pregnancy and infections because he doesn’t want to wear a condom. No condom, no sex. Simple as. If he doesn’t like that then he can go be with someone else. Because I am NOT screwing up my health and well-being all because some guy can’t wrap it up.
I never said that, that you should. Read my initial comment: >At the first time is okay to ask for a condom but later, in a LTR and he is tested? Na, I would certainly miss that kind of intimate trust being inside her pussy "raw".< And I know infections don't go easily away by themselves. I am sex-educated and as I already showed you, I even know your PH value: 3.5-4.8.
But how about bathing or swimming? Won't water come in your vagina (and in swimming halls with added chlorine)?
I'm not crazy to forcibly push tons of water in her pussy, no! That can hurt a lot. And I'm not putting her willing at risk. I explain all in advance what I know about sex, then it is still her choice. Still, after some time, I want no condom because I want to feel her pussy directly on my penis. It is so intimate to do.
And you suggested douching after sex with out a condom. Just because you know the balance doesn’t mean you are educated because I literally just had to explain to you why it’s not good... and no water does not get inside the vagina when swimming or showering unless you force it there purposely.
Intimate trust, nothing is disgusting on a girlfriend/wife. :-) Okay, drinking pee or eating poo, or her feet (no fetish in it), yuck!
Then you loose interest in STD and unwanted pregnancy. Act responsible and have a condom with you.
And how about you? Don't you feel the difference? Tip: Use a condom to rub your clitoris with it. How does it feel? Yes, that is what we feel with a condom, very numb! Sure, responsibility and STD is a reason to first use a condom but in a LTR, all fine.
Most Helpful Guys