Some are really needy in this, sure. Bot for myself, after some time I would like to be without condom (first sex with her is with a condom) in her as it is a very emotional thing for me. I showed it once to my now-ex-wife how the difference feels, it is way more personal and intimate to not use a condom and she agreed with me: tons of difference!
And to the physical feels, sure! A condom makes it feel numb while a wet pussy feels so very awesome on our penis.
So at first sex it clearly shows a lack of responsibility not wanting to use a condom but later on never. You trust each other and you know he won't let you down (I mean you, the question starter) when it comes to flushing out your pussy.
Because sex is like this with a condom,,,,
... and like this without one.
LMAO
I understand guys not wanting to use them because it feels better without. It’s why I’ve never made any serious boyfriend wear them. I want him to fully enjoy sex with me and we get tested first. However, I don’t understand how they go without during casual sex. You don’t know this person’s sexual history and could catch a disease. You don’t know if she is on birth control. Even if you pull out, pregnancy can still happen. It seems like they just go for the pleasure and worry about the consequences later.
Absolutely agree.
Yes, a single sperm is enough to make you pregnant. Unlikely to happen as it can die on the way but the fact is, that a single sperm cell is required, the rest sperm cells are an insurance policy for nature, that fertilizing does take place on a very high chance as it is critical for a species to survive. I also don't understand how they even do it on porn or "casual sex", means ONS or so? STD seem no word to them.
And my question to you lady is do you allow sex if a guy doesn't use a condom? After all it is your responsibility to have responsible sex so you don't get pregnant. Guys only have a one track mind and either don't think of the consequences if the girl gets pregnant or they want to pay child support for 18 years.
Oh yes. I always have condoms on me. I suppose the only problem I've encountered is I've had men explicitly refuse to wear a condom. In which case, I obviously don't choose to have sex with that person. Because pregnancy isn't the only thing to fear with unsafe sex. I have to question their motive with so easily wanting and willing to have sex without protection
I'm very responsible when I don't use a condom because I do care for her not becoming pregnant, I go with her to shower and help flush her pussy a lot. Only and always a condom and especially on oral sex (anal is okay, it is very dirty in there, but not pussy), I will see that as a lack of trust in me. And I'm tested all negative on any major/common STD.
@roland77 Washing out the "pussy" as you so elegantly put it, does not assure that a pregnancy will not occur. All it takes is one speedy little tad pole to get to the egg first and call allie allie alls in free! So you are not being as responsible as you claim.
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you'll never get a guy to wear a condom for a blowjob... I did give a blowjob to a guy wearing one and it's not a good experience... i'd rather suck him without one plus he can't cum in your mouth... coitus sex of course is essential that he wear one for obvious reasons as you can get pregnant if he cums inside.
I'd use them with someone new but like others have said it's very numbing and ruins the feeling a great deal. Even the ultra thin condoms with various things (warming lube or whatever) to make them feel better are terrible compared to without.
It does feel better but mostly it is I think because they are lazy and they don’t care about the risks.
Also some guys are worried of loosing their erection while putting the thing on.
I always a condom even in a relationship. I think the pill isn’t great for women’s bodies and unless my lover really wants to be on it I see no reason to be on it.
Frankly make the guy wear a condom, it isn’t that hard if he has an issue he can hit the road.
Why do girls never want to use female condoms then? If you can't really feel all that big of a difference- just wear a pair of pants, with holes for both your holes, and a built-in condom stuffed up your vagina. If that sounds like a hassle, and like it'd be unenjoyable for you, what with your clit being completely taken out of action and all- welcome to our world...
Our cockheads are the equivalent of your clits. That's where we get almost all of our pleasure and sensation from. And having to wear a condom, which completely covers and seals them off, hampers our pleasure no less than it would for you to have to wear a latex sticker completely covering and sealing off your clit, whilst getting fucked by the guy wearing the condom. Doesn't sound so pleasurable now, does it?
Why do I sense hostility? lol. I mean, I've never used a dental dam... it seems like It would definitely be somewhat of a hassle to shove latex or something up vaginal canal opposed to putting something over a shaft. Between a dental dam and a male condom, the male condom seems more user friendly. I mean, women primarily use birth control. But the use of a female condom hasn't even been taught in traditional sex ed classes let alone widely publicized either. I'm a grown woman, and I have NO idea how to use a dental dam, but I know how men can properly put on a condom.
Because we’re already the ones doing everything else, we’re the ones that have to be careful we don’t get pregnant, we’re the ones that have to have weird shit literally inserted into our bodies as birth control which doesn’t always work, the LEAST y’all can do is wear a condom lmfao
I feel a big difference. It's still not worth the risk of getting pregnant or catching a disease. Condoms are a must
... all the time a must or only at start until he is tested all negative?
I would only consider not using a condom if in a monogamous relationship with both of us tested negative
Exactly the same here. It is a consideration done by both of us. :-) I could also catch some STD from her, not just she from me.
All of the sex that I've had in the last several years has been with a condom. As I guy I still get good feeling through it.
Condoms suck for guys. I also dont care for them cuz they are uncomfortable. Only use them If my guy is trying to last a long time and even then he will rip it off halfway through sex
OH MY GOD!!!
@ZeussLightningBolt we are pretty rough so end up breaking even if he keeps them on
TMI.
100% without a doubt, it feels leagues better. I'm infertile and have only had sex with my wife so no comment on the worries of consequences.
Because it feels significantly different. Also the transition from foreplay to sex is interrupted by a condom. Lastly, they assume you're clean, and kinda like the risk of getting you pregnant.
You can build putting on a condom into your foreplay, like she puts it with her mouth on.
The better question is why you keep on ending up with guys that don't care about their health, unwanted pregnancy and STD risks! This is assuming the question is about you personally.
I've never objected to using them and would definitely use them with someone new anyway.
Hooray for safe sex lol.
Of course it feels better without one. We know well what we have to do by wearing one, but that doesn't change the fact that having 'naked' intercourse still feels best for a man because his penis feels 'free.'
I started using myone condoms. Its basically a custom ordered condom. They have different lengths which is nice combined with width. They actually fit...
for many guys. where a condom is kind of like. if a guy and a girl were only every to have sex fully clothed. by that I mean normal clothes you would wear daily. not just stuff you might happen to wear during sexual intercourse.
so it can often feel uncomfortable and not as sensitive for the guy in question.
plus in the heat of the moment a condom might be one of the last things the guy is thinking about. more so if it have been a while since he last had release or sex.
It feels way better without
Big difference in feel
Yes, there is a tremendous sensation of her natural vagina features and there are none that fit so that is out for me. For some reason, every woman I have been with wanted it bare with my load in her and some were trying to get pregnant. These were some risky times. I was lucky to be with clean women too. Those days are past and I am with someone that I will not mind if she tells me she is.
I feel a huge difference.
Still would always use condoms until I was in a serious relationship, and after that would just rely on the pill.
You can go with him to shower and flush your pussy out together. :-) I did that with my then-girlfriend and we made love with no condom maybe 4 times per day (hot phase) and she never got pregnant with it.
Guys say it feels better in in the moment
And how about you? Don't you feel the difference? Tip: Use a condom to rub your clitoris with it. How does it feel? Yes, that is what we feel with a condom, very numb! Sure, responsibility and STD is a reason to first use a condom but in a LTR, all fine.
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