My mom forces me to carry condoms whenever I go out. Why won't she trust me?

Question

So annoying. It's always the same thing, even when she knows I'm sleeping over at a girl friends house. And I've always been pretty responsible too, I take the pill for medical reasons since I was 10, and only missed it once in almost 5 years. Are parents always this paranoid?

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Love2Jackit | 701 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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The reason she wants u 2 carry condoms. It's not cause of the birth control. It's cause she loves u and don't want u 2 catch any STDs. All it takes is one std that u catch. It being herpes and its with u for life. Thier is no cure for herpes. It's a virus that stays with u for life. I promise u one thing. If u ever seen a case of the herpes. Then u know why it's a good idea for a man 2 wear a condom. That's just one std. Thier are a few more that u don't want 2 catch. In all honesty u don't want 2 catch no std.

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automatic812

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Be thankful she cares about your future... you will appreciate her for wanting the best for you when you are older! Try to look outside of the box and see it from her perspective. It's not about her trying to control you but is about her looking out for your best interests.

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Moonchild714 | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Be thankful she's supportive. The Pill helps with Pregnancy Condoms help with Diseases. I hope you are being Responsible and Smart and Using the Condoms and not thinking I took my Pill this Morning can't get Pregnant because Girl you're setting yourself up for a Disease!!! For Females STIs can Destroy Everything and Kill you!!!

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CindyRuns | 609 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

If you're on the pill, you don't need to worry about getting pregnant... you DO need to worry about getting an STD from a guy.

Getting an STD can cause all sorts of problems and also prevent you from having kids some day.

CamilaP

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i know that much

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CamilaP

i know that much

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donrengle

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I think your mom's trust problem may not be 100% about trusting you. I think she knows how boys will tell a girl anything to get with them sexually. Maybe you should sit down with her and explain to her how you are not going to let a boy sweet talk you into sex. I think she just needs her mind put at ease.

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hobbledehoy

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Maybe she was young. Maybe just take it light hearted. at least she is open minded I guess. Don't let it force you into thinking sex is all that matters.

Answer 8

Anonymous

Yes we are paranoid. It makes us crazy on a regular basis. One slip up can lead to a life threatening illness. Just carry condoms and check the expiration dates. Don't leave them in a cold car or a hot car. Make your mom happy and give her peace of mind. They can die a slow death in your purse never to be used until you are 18 but if in need they'll be waiting.

The mom whose been down this rodeo before.

Opinion Owner

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If you are bi then you should carry female condoms too. Women who sleep with women aren't as careful sometimes and it can hurt them.
CamilaP

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what are you talking about? female condoms aren't for oral sex between girls, they're for peniis in vagina penetration
Opinion Owner

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Maybe I'm using the wrong word or device. www.cdc.gov/.../Dental-dam-use.html protection during oral sex.
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CamilaP

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had never heard of it, thanks for sharing

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Opinion Owner

If you are bi then you should carry female condoms too. Women who sleep with women aren't as careful sometimes and it can hurt them.

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CamilaP

what are you talking about? female condoms aren't for oral sex between girls, they're for peniis in vagina penetration

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Opinion Owner

Maybe I'm using the wrong word or device. www.cdc.gov/.../Dental-dam-use.html protection during oral sex.

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CamilaP

had never heard of it, thanks for sharing

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genericname85 | 14K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

you should be happy. your parents could be people that forbid you to have sex. that would be way worse than parents that actually make you behave responsibly. your parents care in a good way. you should be happy.

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Trolloween | 706 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Well if you're having sex at 14 she's probably terrified you're going to get pregnant too young and wants to instill some safe sex habits.

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worldscolide | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Maybe she thinks that regardless of the circumstances she would prefer you be safe and prepared.. Gotta remember the pill does not protect against diseases and sickness. Only getting pregnant.

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mattdzz | 421 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

I doubt it. If she's concerned about you bringing condoms, she thinks you're a hoe.

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Haelaeix123 | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

A lot of parents are yeah, just being protective I guess

Answer 18

howlinsilently

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Just worried and want yiur life to be as you want it. She might also be doing so you can give to friends who are not with caring parents. She might also be doing so dad have none and gets none. Lol

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COMMODOREII | 6.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

They are always going to be paranoid. The best thing is just have the condom ready to show her when you leave and just bear with it.

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andrermm | 164 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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She's just protecting you. Enjoy your mom. And have safe sex!

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jason222 | 341 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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yeah that doesn't make sense. if you are already on the pill that is good enough lol. do u actually make guys wear the condom tho?

Imcmullan

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Good enough? So the pill prevents you from getting an STD? wow... ok.

Answer 22

Imcmullan

Good enough? So the pill prevents you from getting an STD? wow... ok.

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ding187

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Cuz she thinking u gonna be fucking here's the condoms just in case lol

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Gedaria | 4.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Guys don't carry them. Always best to be safe, than sorry..

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bklynbadboy1 | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Well mine was but with good reason I've done some pretty crazy shit lol

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Reddwolf | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

It's there right to be alittle paranoid but yours is way to much

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Cannuck22 | 945 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Really you are complaining. Condoms don’t only help reduce the risk of pregnancy you know.

CamilaP

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well yeah, i'm not complaining about having to carry condoms. i am complaining about my mom saying that to me all the time when she knows that i can take care of myself
Cannuck22

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She is just being a mom.

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CamilaP

well yeah, i'm not complaining about having to carry condoms. i am complaining about my mom saying that to me all the time when she knows that i can take care of myself

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Cannuck22

She is just being a mom.

Answer 30

Anonymous

Maybe it’s your friends she doesn’t trust but if you’re only 14 it’s strange that she thinks you’re having strange already

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beatcoock | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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You are lucky for it... They are afraid of you getting fucked with an Std

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Walrus_au | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

the pill does nothing to protect against STI's

And your mother cares about you. she knows how easily such things can be forgotten in the heat of the moment.

Answer 33

Anonymous

i dont really know
do you often have random hookups tho?

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TheFlak38 | 2.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

All hail single motherhood and their f*cked up products.

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bethgurl | 433 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Ur lucky I tried to carry condoms and she took them away from me

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NightOwl8801 | 4.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Because you're a sexually active young woman, they just want you to practice safe sex even if you take birth control. They don't want you to catch an STD

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oldermale | 483 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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I think she trusts you but not the guys to have condoms with them,

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Slate69 | 140 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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She cares for you and want you to do the right thing and knows how tempting things can be.
So always be safe and never rush thing.

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bananathunder | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

she's just being cautious in case anything would happen. Be thankful. My mom used to buy me condoms too

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Meatunnel69 | 526 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Maybe they are for baloon making

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purplepoppy | 4.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

They're just worried you'll pick up a std.

CamilaP

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it's only her, i don't have a father

Answer 42

CamilaP

it's only her, i don't have a father

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ateef77

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Maybe because you are sexy girl

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username4h

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She just cares about you

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brigfrey25 | 299 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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🤷🤷🤷

Answer 46

dthomas89 | 165 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Aren't you bi?

CamilaP

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i am
dthomas89

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Then why do you think she's nervous about you going over a "friends" house. Yes, women can't get pregnant having sex with each other, but, still...
CamilaP

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well, she probably thinks i'd have sex with a boy at a girl friend's house. i guess it's a possibility
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dthomas89

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Does she know you're bi
CamilaP

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of course, i talk to her about everything
dthomas89

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That's good