My mom forces me to carry condoms whenever I go out. Why won't she trust me?

So annoying. It's always the same thing, even when she knows I'm sleeping over at a girl friends house. And I've always been pretty responsible too, I take the pill for medical reasons since I was 10, and only missed it once in almost 5 years. Are parents always this paranoid?
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  • The reason she wants u 2 carry condoms. It's not cause of the birth control. It's cause she loves u and don't want u 2 catch any STDs. All it takes is one std that u catch. It being herpes and its with u for life. Thier is no cure for herpes. It's a virus that stays with u for life. I promise u one thing. If u ever seen a case of the herpes. Then u know why it's a good idea for a man 2 wear a condom. That's just one std. Thier are a few more that u don't want 2 catch. In all honesty u don't want 2 catch no std.

  • Be thankful she cares about your future... you will appreciate her for wanting the best for you when you are older! Try to look outside of the box and see it from her perspective. It's not about her trying to control you but is about her looking out for your best interests.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Be thankful she's supportive. The Pill helps with Pregnancy Condoms help with Diseases. I hope you are being Responsible and Smart and Using the Condoms and not thinking I took my Pill this Morning can't get Pregnant because Girl you're setting yourself up for a Disease!!! For Females STIs can Destroy Everything and Kill you!!!

    • I totally agree and believe what you saying honey because many girl don't understand what they are going into or facing as soon it's set for them!!!

  • If you're on the pill, you don't need to worry about getting pregnant... you DO need to worry about getting an STD from a guy.

    Getting an STD can cause all sorts of problems and also prevent you from having kids some day.

    • i know that much

    • Hello 👋 pretty how you doing and where you from sweet, i see your picture and i like 💗 you, so can we chat please

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  • I’d have to say that you’re lucky that you have a parent that cares so much. 😝

    • It good to be cared for but wen you don't have the same opportunity like others you just have to manage your self the way things are!!😏😏😏

  • Well if you're having sex at 14 she's probably terrified you're going to get pregnant too young and wants to instill some safe sex habits.

  • They're just worried you'll pick up a std.

    • it's only her, i don't have a father

  • I doubt it. If she's concerned about you bringing condoms, she thinks you're a hoe.

  • It's one of those better safe than sorry scenarios. She knows how boys are and how manipulative they can be. Try to see it as a sign of how much she loves you and not a sign of how much she doesn't trust you. I would imagine in this case it's not you she doesn't trust it's other boys, and while that seems contradictory, I know guys and just how wrong they can be. And there's nothing that says your friend doesn't have a boy come over at night. That's a thing too. Sometimes girls are more conniving than you would like to believe as well.

  • Then she must know something.

    My mom forces me to carry condoms whenever I go out. Why won't she trust me?
  • Brave mom I must say

  • I reported your acc and I hope law enforcement manages to track you down.

    PEDÓFILO CUZÃO.

  • A lot of parents are yeah, just being protective I guess

  • Maybe she was young. Maybe just take it light hearted. at least she is open minded I guess. Don't let it force you into thinking sex is all that matters.

  • I hate condoms thats why birth control is best for me

  • 🤷🤷🤷

  • Ur lucky I tried to carry condoms and she took them away from me

  • Maybe she thinks that regardless of the circumstances she would prefer you be safe and prepared.. Gotta remember the pill does not protect against diseases and sickness. Only getting pregnant.

  • I use to make sure thay had one one till I started taking the pill it feels so good when they cum I just love the feeling

    • You like the feeling of it when a guy cums in you and fills you up

  • you should be happy. your parents could be people that forbid you to have sex. that would be way worse than parents that actually make you behave responsibly. your parents care in a good way. you should be happy.

  • the pill does nothing to protect against STI's

    And your mother cares about you. she knows how easily such things can be forgotten in the heat of the moment.

  • All hail single motherhood and their f*cked up products.

  • I think she trusts you but not the guys to have condoms with them,

  • Aren't you bi?

    • i am

    • Then why do you think she's nervous about you going over a "friends" house. Yes, women can't get pregnant having sex with each other, but, still...

    • well, she probably thinks i'd have sex with a boy at a girl friend's house. i guess it's a possibility

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