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Do you think these 2 scenarios are equivalent?

Scenario 1: A woman is giving her boyfriend orgasms during vaginal sex, but she can't orgasm without receiving oral sex. He refuses to give her oral. She dumps him because she's tired of the frustration of not getting release of sexual tension (orgasm).

Scenario 2: A man gets sexual release from orgasming during vaginal intercourse, yet he dumps his girlfriend for denying him the additional bonus of anal sex because it's too painful.

In one of these situations, a person is dumping their partner because they're tired of being constantly frustrated by not getting sexual release; in another, a person is dumping their partner because their partner won't submit to a painful activity that is ultimately just a bonus that isn't vital for sexual release.

Do you believe these 2 scenarios are equivalent? Please read all options before voting.
Do you think these 2 scenarios are equivalent?
The people in both scenarios are equally selfish for dumping their partners.
Vote A
Neither of them are selfish in their reasoning for dumping their partners. However, the person in Scenario 1 has a more reasonable reason.
Vote B
Neither of them are selfish in their reasoning for dumping their partners. Both reasons are equally reasonable.
Vote C
Only the person in Scenario #2 is selfish. The person in Scenario #1 is not selfish.
Vote D
Both are selfish, but the person in Scenario #2 is much more selfish than the person in Scenario #1.
Vote E
Both are selfish, but the person in Scenario #2 is more selfish than the person in Scenario #1.
Vote F
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Anyone saying the woman is selfish needs to imagine how they would feel if every time they had sex, they got "blue clit"/"blue balls" due to lack of orgasm. If every sexual encounter ended in sexual frustration, who would want to continue having sex? It's not selfish to want to orgasm If your partner is also having an orgasm
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