Guys, what does it mean if my boyfriend shaved off his pubic hair?

Question

We've been having problems. He assumed the whole time we've been dating that I was using him for sex. Today (Valentine's), I gave him a letter that explained I love him. He bought me make up, We had a lot of sex afterwards, and he's being super sweet. But i noticed he's shaved off his pubic hair. My ex did that when we were having probs too. Cheating?

Answer 1

Jackelray

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I wouldn’t say it means he’s been cheating. Nor do I think it means you’re having problems necessarily. A lot of guys shave so they look bigger down there. Or they shave because they will look like porn stars. Honestly Id just ask him. It might be that he’s trying to do it to impress you or he thinks you’ll find it more attractive. Going to get pretty hung up on the dick’s, So honestly it could be anything

Answer 2

Glenn603 | 858 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

No definitely not. I either shave mine or trim them very short because i prefer the look. Maybe he shaved his off because he thought you would like it.

dragonfruitA

1 y
So, how likely is it that he's cheating with a girl who prefers it shaved?
Glenn603

1 y
Obviously I don’t know either you or you so I can’t say for sure, has he ever cheated before whether with you or whoever he was with before you?
Just because he shaved it doesn’t mean that he’s cheating
Glenn603

1 y
One more question, have you ever cheated on him?
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dragonfruitA

1 y
As far as i know, neither of us have cheated so far. But we've been having miscommunication issues - he thought i might be using him for sex, because i haven't been depending on him emotionally. bt it's not true. We talked it out yesterday and it's good now.

He does have a lot of female friends and he's a dancer, but i never let that get in the way of my trust for him. i have a lot of male friends & im a dancer too. We've always trusted each other

Answer 3

dragonfruitA

So, how likely is it that he's cheating with a girl who prefers it shaved?

Answer 4

Glenn603

Obviously I don’t know either you or you so I can’t say for sure, has he ever cheated before whether with you or whoever he was with before you?
Just because he shaved it doesn’t mean that he’s cheating

Answer 5

Glenn603

One more question, have you ever cheated on him?

Answer 6

dragonfruitA

As far as i know, neither of us have cheated so far. But we've been having miscommunication issues - he thought i might be using him for sex, because i haven't been depending on him emotionally. bt it's not true. We talked it out yesterday and it's good now.

He does have a lot of female friends and he's a dancer, but i never let that get in the way of my trust for him. i have a lot of male friends & im a dancer too. We've always trusted each other

Answer 7

TadCurious | 11.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I don't think his shaving his pubic hair is a sign that he's cheating. But I'm curious as to which way you like it better --- shaved or natural?

dragonfruitA

1 y
Whichever. Your body.

Answer 8

dragonfruitA

Whichever. Your body.

Answer 9

pierre7i | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

You should ask him why?

I get my hair down there waxed regularly, it just feels so much more liberating and pleasant, sensual too, to be smooth skinned in the pubic + genital area !

dragonfruitA

1 y
Yes, but for someone who usually keeps the hair to suddenly get rid of it after we've been having problems?

Answer 10

dragonfruitA

Yes, but for someone who usually keeps the hair to suddenly get rid of it after we've been having problems?

Answer 11

coolhandroo | 342 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Don't get in your head. He probably did it for you although from now on he'll probably keep it up for him regardless but don't trip out unless it's shaved and has lipstick on it

dragonfruitA

1 y
Ok. I was just worried, since we've been having problems.
coolhandroo

1 y
I'm not say he is or that he isn't but if he's not worth the benefit of the doubt just leave him don't trip out on every little thing because it will make you crazy and drive him away
coolhandroo

1 y
Just enjoy not having hair in your mouth😁
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dragonfruitA

1 y
thanks

Answer 12

dragonfruitA

Ok. I was just worried, since we've been having problems.

Answer 13

coolhandroo

I'm not say he is or that he isn't but if he's not worth the benefit of the doubt just leave him don't trip out on every little thing because it will make you crazy and drive him away

Answer 14

coolhandroo

Just enjoy not having hair in your mouth😁

Answer 15

dragonfruitA

thanks

Answer 16

MackToday | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Might have wised up to getting it caught in his underwear every time he takes a leak. Might have finally got pissed off enough by the pain to get rid of that shit.

Answer 17

Shiver | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Shaving pubes makes foreplay more pleasant and makes a penis look better. He probably just did it because of that.

Answer 18

Lunatic1 | 599 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Maybe he just like the feel better. Do you like it?

dragonfruitA

1 y
I don't have a preference. It is his body. I'm just worried he did it for some girl...
Lunatic1

1 y
Some guys do it for them, I do it too.

Answer 19

dragonfruitA

I don't have a preference. It is his body. I'm just worried he did it for some girl...

Answer 20

Lunatic1

Some guys do it for them, I do it too.

Answer 21

hamadazopry | 581 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

It's normal that men should shave their pubes at least one time/ month for hygienic matters and to avoid itching at this area all the day
Regardless that some women prefers male hairy pubes, in this case it can be only trimmed or graded

Answer 22

stormbreaker06 | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

You write him a card. He BUYS you make up.

Girl you cheap as fk. Thank God I'm incel. You women are so selfish and obnoxious.

dragonfruitA

1 y
But that was just today. We hadn't seen each other for a couple days
stormbreaker06

1 y
how did you know he bought you make up?
and when are you going to buy him something?
Boppy

1 y
I think the card requires more emotional effort, unless the makeup was picked out well.
Then again, I don't know how expensive makeup is.
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dragonfruitA

1 y
I bought him $100 couples massage and an acoustic guitar

Answer 23

dragonfruitA

But that was just today. We hadn't seen each other for a couple days

Answer 24

stormbreaker06

how did you know he bought you make up?
and when are you going to buy him something?

Answer 25

Boppy

I think the card requires more emotional effort, unless the makeup was picked out well.
Then again, I don't know how expensive makeup is.

Answer 26

dragonfruitA

I bought him $100 couples massage and an acoustic guitar

Answer 27

andrermm | 496 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Maybe he just doesn't want you to have pubes in your theet. Same as him not wanting in his

Answer 28

wildbilly123 | 331 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

He wants you to devour his cock.. suck his balls, deepthroat him, without getting hair in your mouth. You do not like it

Answer 29

holidaze | 258 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

he loves you. He endures pain for you. Wake the fuck up!

Answer 30

Anonymous

Could be When my girlfriend started shaving it that it was because she was cheating.

Answer 31

louthepantysniffer

Xper 1

Could be jus a change of pace or moving on.

Answer 32

CharlieDMX | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Might be. Might be not.

Answer 33

Plitty-Tank

Yoda

He may have done so thinking you'd like it.

Answer 34

billluc69 | 5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

or he was thinking you would like that look on him

Answer 35

letstalk247

Xper 1

No it's just to make the foreplay more easy

Answer 36

dthomas89

Xper 7

I don't know

Answer 37

pizzalovershouse | 3.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

🤣🤣🤣

Answer 38

Cannuck22

Xper 7

Lmao.

Answer 39

Jmmmfi4 | 3.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Could mean nothing

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