How many dates would you want to go on before deciding to have sex with someone?

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Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

More than one and fewer than 50. Hopping in bed too fast means you don't know what part sex plays in a person's life. Early sex is usually just bunny fucking. After a year or so, it settles into a pattern of being a part of life. You might go from every other day to once or twice a month. And this will have happened because you rushed. Talk before taking that plunge. You might find you are not sexually suited to each other at all and you could've broken up earlier if you hadn't hooked up so fast. Be circumspect.

msss98 · Accepted Answer

2 or 3 i could decide in the first few mins tbh but i would wana wait cause i don't trust my body 😂

COMMODOREII · Accepted Answer

Depends on the person. There can never be a set number of dates. I might want it sooner but if she's not up to it then it's a no go. Same goes if she wants it sooner and i just don't feel it. We might have to build up trust or we might after the first date. It just depends.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I would want to know that we were each committed to the relationship and that we had established trust and respect. That is not measured by a certain number of dates.

CindyRuns · Answer

Long enough for me to have a strong attachment to the guy... the earliest in a relationship that I had sex with a guy was after we were going out with each other for a little over 3 months.

If a guy can't wait, he doesn't respect me, and he can find some other girl to have sex with.

Apple1996 · Answer

It only took me 2 months into dating my hubby to have sex with him. And we were both virgins

Jjpayne · Answer

For me, it's not until very close to marriage but ideally marriage but that's not for everyone

ShortCircuit · Answer

Lmao. It's not a matter of dates. It's a matter of years.

Avicenna · Answer

Used to be if the first went well, now its if I want to be in a relationship with her.

LiamSawyer · Answer

Every situation is different but I'd normally want to get to know the person first.

Lily-bardot · Answer

It varies, I've had sex on the first date with some and waited til the 2nd or 3rd with others.

Rippersavage · Answer

I'd fuck on the first date if possible If not then 3 dates

honestGUY45 · Answer

It depends on the first date. If she comes across like a brain dead slut then the 1st night is OK because it's not going to turn into a relationship, maybe just a lay. If she is intelligent and responsible with herself and her decisions then I'll wait as long as she wants to.