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  • I'll admit sexuality is not my area of experience but I do have a lot of experience with personal development and relationships. You're profile says that you're 15. I can tell you that the person you are now will probably not be the person you are 10 years from now. It's the time to really learn from your experiences and grow as a person. Get to know who you really are as person and who you want to be. That should be your focus. As for discussing your sexuality with your parents, it depends on your relationship with them. At 15 my daughter thought she was bi. Now she's 19 and after going through some things she knows now she's straight but just has certain preferences in guys. We have always had a close open relationship so we could talk about that stuff. Communicatuon is very important in any relationship but if you don't have a relationship with your parents where you can talk about stuff openly, I'd say its okay to wait until you figure out some things yourself first. However if you have a relationship where you can talk about stuff even if you're still growing and learning from things, then share where you're at.

  • First I would ask them what they think of bisexual. Then depending on thier reaction. That's when I would make the decision 2 tell them. I guess best case scenario is sooner or later. They will find out. By telling them sooner than later. Then maybe they will know how 2 accept. As for me I think thier is nothing wrong with u wanting 2 be bisexual. Let's face it now we are going in 2 the 21 century. Meaning we can't all live in the past.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think you should as you may just be experimenting... when I was your age I had sex with girls and after awhile I just gravitated toward boys... I think at that age I was fearing pregnancy and enjoyed girls who were very much into me... as I wasn't as into them but that's my condition... I don't know your full feelings... but your saying bi and that means you still like boys... I wouldn't say anything they don't need to know as you'd only upset them and probably needlessly... it's ok to be bi or to have bi experiences but you don't need to tell anyone about that as nobody else gets hurt or needs to know either.

  • It is really up to you. They may already have noticed that you are a normal girl who enjoys all friends equally. We don’t have to be labelled, just loved.

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  • If you feel comfortable telling them then go ahead. If not then I would recommend waiting until you are.

  • If you don’t feel comfortable with it, you shouldn’t.

    • Okay thanks

    • You’re welcome 😊

  • Why would you? Just be sure your partners are ok with it (if you're thinking about having girlfriend and boyfriend simultaneously)

    • I have a girlfriend right now

    • And you don't want to tell your parents huh? Well... only you can make your decision because it highly depends on your parent views and so on. If they don't like homosexuality then it would be a good idea not to I guess

  • Go for it. They probably already have some ideal you are.

  • In general i'd say yes, but you know best how your parents would respond to it.
    If they aren't the type of parents that would punish you for it then definitely do it.

  • Impossible to say, we don't know your mom and dad. Do you think they could accept this? Do they need to know right now? Is there a girl you are seeing?

  • I don’t think you need to tell them. Let them know your young and want to explore. Maybe have some friends over and see how the night turns out.

    • I love having sleep overs with girls

    • Sounds fun.

  • Ask yourself this question. How will telling my parents improve my life, improve their lives or improve my relationship with them? While I might not like the scenario, the fact is that with some discretion, you can explore bisexuality right under their noses (sleepovers) and they might not even notice. They would be looking for get togethers with guys.

  • sure, if u want, jus dont stretch it out and make some big deal coming out story, like i see on youtube, i find that unneccesary and corny.

    jus be like "yo, mum, dad,... check this out... im bi sexual"

  • Yes you should! I came out when I was 13

    • Dam really how did u know?

    • I kissed this (well made out) girl in my class and well... yeah I found out I really like girls

  • Tell your dad first.

    • Why him?

    • It will make your relationship with him better if you go to him before your mother.

    • Okay ill do that thanks

  • No one can tell u what u should do, it has to be ur decision. If u want to tell them then u should, if u don't then u shouldn't.

  • Only if you feel comfortable talking to your parent's about being bi-sexual.

  • Sure, if itll get a rise out of them.

  • Do you really talk to them when it comes to intimate matters? Because some people don't have a connection with their parents. And it would be a big problem saying this kinda thing to them... Trust me

  • Why to tell? In case you tell them, what will you get? Nothing. You have your life, enjoy it as you like.

  • They are probably aware of it...

    • How?

    • My youngest daughter is lesbian. I knew a long time before she said anything plus my other daughters had there feelings about her. But she came out a told all of us, she actually lives up in the attic flat with her girlfriend...

    • How old is she?

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  • Are you really 15 tho?

    If you want to tell them. Tell them.

    • Yes why u ask?

    • Cause if that's you in the Pic. You're hot haha. Legal in my country but illegal in most

    • Thanks that is me.

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  • No because you don't know what you are, don't waste your time talking, nothing worth saying.

  • They probably will think it's a phase seeing as you are 15.

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