Should I tell my mom and dad that I am bi sexual?

[FlirtWithMeeee]

I'll admit sexuality is not my area of experience but I do have a lot of experience with personal development and relationships. You're profile says that you're 15. I can tell you that the person you are now will probably not be the person you are 10 years from now. It's the time to really learn from your experiences and grow as a person. Get to know who you really are as person and who you want to be. That should be your focus. As for discussing your sexuality with your parents, it depends on your relationship with them. At 15 my daughter thought she was bi. Now she's 19 and after going through some things she knows now she's straight but just has certain preferences in guys. We have always had a close open relationship so we could talk about that stuff. Communicatuon is very important in any relationship but if you don't have a relationship with your parents where you can talk about stuff openly, I'd say its okay to wait until you figure out some things yourself first. However if you have a relationship where you can talk about stuff even if you're still growing and learning from things, then share where you're at.

[Love2Jackit]

First I would ask them what they think of bisexual. Then depending on thier reaction. That's when I would make the decision 2 tell them. I guess best case scenario is sooner or later. They will find out. By telling them sooner than later. Then maybe they will know how 2 accept. As for me I think thier is nothing wrong with u wanting 2 be bisexual. Let's face it now we are going in 2 the 21 century. Meaning we can't all live in the past.

[chrissykerdock]

I don't think you should as you may just be experimenting... when I was your age I had sex with girls and after awhile I just gravitated toward boys... I think at that age I was fearing pregnancy and enjoyed girls who were very much into me... as I wasn't as into them but that's my condition... I don't know your full feelings... but your saying bi and that means you still like boys... I wouldn't say anything they don't need to know as you'd only upset them and probably needlessly... it's ok to be bi or to have bi experiences but you don't need to tell anyone about that as nobody else gets hurt or needs to know either.

[ushagomez]

It is really up to you. They may already have noticed that you are a normal girl who enjoys all friends equally. We don’t have to be labelled, just loved.

[Dargil]

Ask yourself this question. How will telling my parents improve my life, improve their lives or improve my relationship with them? While I might not like the scenario, the fact is that with some discretion, you can explore bisexuality right under their noses (sleepovers) and they might not even notice. They would be looking for get togethers with guys.

[NightOwl8801]

I would do some soul searching and ask yourself if you are 100 percent ready to come out as bisexual to your parents.
I would take baby steps first , a close friend and or maybe a non parent relative that is close to you and then confide in them and get some input

[BeanieCoatman]

sure, if u want, jus dont stretch it out and make some big deal coming out story, like i see on youtube, i find that unneccesary and corny.

jus be like "yo, mum, dad,... check this out... im bi sexual"

[slatyb]

Impossible to say, we don't know your mom and dad. Do you think they could accept this? Do they need to know right now? Is there a girl you are seeing?

[Bratsondanielle]

Why would you? Just be sure your partners are ok with it (if you're thinking about having girlfriend and boyfriend simultaneously)

[foxrider77]

I don’t think you need to tell them. Let them know your young and want to explore. Maybe have some friends over and see how the night turns out.

[Hoss1981]

Go for it. They probably already have some ideal you are.

[505error]

If you don’t feel comfortable with it, you shouldn’t.

[azuhkaego]

Do you really talk to them when it comes to intimate matters? Because some people don't have a connection with their parents. And it would be a big problem saying this kinda thing to them... Trust me

[Rippersavage]

No one can tell u what u should do, it has to be ur decision. If u want to tell them then u should, if u don't then u shouldn't.

[oncpl]

Why to tell? In case you tell them, what will you get? Nothing. You have your life, enjoy it as you like.

[sawno]

In general i'd say yes, but you know best how your parents would respond to it.
If they aren't the type of parents that would punish you for it then definitely do it.

[BobbyC65]

Only if you feel comfortable talking to your parent's about being bi-sexual.

[Twalli]

They probably will think it's a phase seeing as you are 15.

[andrermm]

Are you really 15 tho?

If you want to tell them. Tell them.

[AzureGirl]

If you feel comfortable telling them then go ahead. If not then I would recommend waiting until you are.

[Shamalien]

No because you don't know what you are, don't waste your time talking, nothing worth saying.

[VeronicaMay]

If you think they’d be accepting of you, and you feel ready and safe

[Surely]

You are in the age of experimentation and free flowing hormones.
Wait awhile and see if anything changes.

[32DD_yeye]

Yes you should! I came out when I was 13

[Gedaria]

They are probably aware of it...

[WhereAmI]

Sure, if itll get a rise out of them.

[nudeNhorny]

Are you 100% sure that you are?

[Potatocream]

ofc :) have you already done it with both genders?

[AynonOMouse]

Tell your dad first.

[Nachowedgie]

Nope

[Anonymous]

No..