Would it be better if pornography did not exist?

[newblinds]

I'm a weak man, some people say pornography is wrong and you shouldn't check it out.

I want to find out if it's wrong for me to watch porn, but I can't stop myself forever from seeing it unless it didn't exist at all.

Sometimes I haven't watched it for many months, it wasn't because I was on a mission to not watch it, I wasn't even trying to not watch it. I just didn't watch it for no reason and did my thing without anything giving me a hand.

Nothing changed that I could see when I wasn't consuming pornography, my main issues of being unable to get girls and seeing my dick as too small was still the same.

Maybe I already got the answer that it wouldn't do anything for me to not watch porn, but I feel I'd want someone who is magic to pin me down so I wouldn't be able to get at it ever again.

There's no reason in my mind saying it's wrong to watch pornos because the reasons I've heard don't make sense for me, I can't justify not watching it since it seems like it's fine mostly.

I guess I do it when I feel like it, since I feel there's no gain that I believe in or have experienced from not watching it.

Dunno, would everything be better if there's no pornography?

[Dongtai]

That’s a moral debate. There’s some girls who enjoy the industry and others who don’t but need the money. Some industries treat the women well. Some don’t treat them well at all and take advantage of them.

Right or wrong. It’s my understanding that the girls in porn go out of their own free will. It’s only wrong if they’re being forced.

I don’t think it’s wrong for a man to watch porn but it can be a slippery slope to addiction and it can wreak your natural urges that draw you to women. But if you have the right balance it’s harmless and can keep your sex drive at a healthy level.

For me. I watch it and get off to it. I don’t do it so much that I don’t get erections for girls I see during my daily routine. If I stop getting naturally turned on I’ll stop for a week or so. I also make sure my crave to meet women is healthy. Am I meeting girls daily or am I relying on porn to get off? If it’s the latter, again, I stop for a week or so to get my urges at a healthy level. I absolutely do not watch porn or masturbate when I’m in a relationship or dating some woman who I know sex is a likelihood.

I have a monstrously high sex drive. It’s to the point where I can make myself orgasm without any physical simulation. If I don’t have a release my urges start to overflow and girl who I wouldn’t normally find attractive become attractive. I have to get off somehow at least once a week or I start to become a different person.

[Dongtai]

I’m less inhibited, more impulsive and attracted to most women. My confidence spikes as well but it’s more of a “all i care about is sex” mentality so everything else gets blocked out. I haven’t quite mastered that part of myself but I tend to bring him out on purpose when I’m dating a girl because women find him more attractive and they’re able to control him better than I can for obvious reasons. But overall I try to stay balanced. My darker side is reserved for girls of interest but I try not to let his polar opposite come out (no crave for sex=less proactive with girls in general)

[MackToday]

It would be better for those who act in it and produce it. It wouldn't matter much to those who look at it , they'd just find something else like the old Sears catalog trope from the 20'th century.

[newblinds]

That is something I didn't think about and it's funny as well, would the same people who don't like porn say you shouldn't look at the Sears catalogue I wonder.

[MackToday]

Probably at least some of them. It's religious nuts and some are nearly ISIS level.

[laurieluvsit]

It has it's purpose for those that enjoy it, if you don't than pass on it is all :)

[IAMNathanael]

My initial answer was yes but then I considered if there might be something equally bad to replace it. There always seems to be opposition in everything.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes it would be better , all it does is ruin you computer
and it's not healthy ways of life.

[newblinds]

Could be true, which is the unhealthy part of pornography for someone's life?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Unhealthy part of porn is watching it and not making time for a actual real love life that involves sex and besides porn is also opening ones life to Satan? That is why i been praying about things i had a porn addiction and not easy life?

[stormbreaker06]

Yes.

But I think getting rid of people and stupid people would be the best solution.

[newblinds]

Getting rid of which people? The ones who don't like pornos? Or you think it should not exist? And how did it happen for you to think it should not exist?

[stormbreaker06]

porn should exist but stupid people ruin it by hurting innocent people.

[clampfan101]

It’s very wrong, but some argue it reduces cheating. Sounds like a loose-loose situation if people can’t learn to stop cheating.

[clampfan101]

I know I’d be better off without it.

[Dchrls78104]

I think it would; and I also think it would be better if everyone found a spouse who loved his/her spouse for what he/she is and no one was lonely.

[newblinds]

So the pornography is mostly because people who are lonely or people who don't love their spouses as they are, something like that is the reason it would be better if it didn't exist?

[Dchrls78104]

Only one of the reasons.

[newblinds]

Ok makes sense, any other reasons, or prefer not to mention those maybe.

[pretty_bad]

I dont know but i do like porn

[Xtownsen]

Yes I agree

[newblinds]

With what?

[Xtownsen]

I agree it would be best if pornography didn’t exist

[newblinds]

Oh, what brought you to that thought that it should not exist?

[Xtownsen]

It can become addicting

[Anonymous]

no because then there would jus be loads of perverts going out with cameras trying to make their own porn... probably by harrassing females... not a good idea

[Opinion Owner]

if ur weak and can't controll ur urges then thats ur fkn problem, thats like trying to get rid of food for everyone jus cos there's some fatasses who can't controll thereself and over eat, like no, being "weak" is jus an excuse to give into ur desires, every has the ability to control theirself and be strong, ur jus choosing not to

[Opinion Owner]

many people can control theirself so were not gonna take a way a perfectly good and healthy part of our life jus cos pervs like u cnt control urself

[newblinds]

Ya being weak is saying I give in, that's what I'm saying. I didn't say I overindulged in porn, like the fatass in your example, not quite the same. Just that some people say that any porn at all is wrong, so I wanted to see what would happen if it didn't exist. So you think most people could stop watching porn if they wanted to as things stand today, I would have a hard time believing that, but I understand people who have your perspective.

[Opinion Owner]

sorry, i was jus mad cos i feel there's a possibility that porn will be completely banned from the internet in not too long, they already tried that safety block thing on google all over and made it harder to access porn in uk, and now i see people asking if porn should not exists... it kind of scares me because i think not too long the police will actually try to delete every porn and remove our freedom, i would jus find that ridiculous, and unneccasary, so sorry, no hate to you, im jus venting my annoyances because i love porn so much and dont ever want to ssee it go,,,, if it does i will be so mad lol

[Opinion Owner]

no hate to you, i was jus joking, was jus venting my frustrations of these stupid new strict rules... like u have to be over 18 to buy a goddamn energy drinks now... look over 25 to buy alcohol... etc... etcc... ridiculous lol soon u will have to be over 56 before u can have sex lol

[newblinds]

Ok I see that it's important for you, I don't feel I need any apology. ya I use VPN for the porn always so I don't know if I experienced the block you're talking about. I feel there's definitely some control and surveillance that is happening in UK, I'd prefer not as much of that. Sometimes I see something from the German version of a site and I don't watch it since I'm paranoid it would be seen as not ok in UK.

[Opinion Owner]

oh lol