Do good looking guys actually have women throwing themselves at them?

[Anonymous]

I've seen comments about in dating, how women like average looking guys or more into dating them because they are more likely to be more faithful. Good looking guys have pussy thrown at them and less often to commit or something like that. That's true to an extent it seems, but only if to have good looking mean "super movie star good looking" which very few people are that good looking. But then there are plenty of good looking people right but just not THAT good looking, but are conventionally attractive and therefore, above average in looks, just not a 10.

It's like saying someone is only wealthy if they are a millionaire or billionaire, when technically I believe a person like an attorney or occupation where they are making like $300, 000 a year is pretty wealthy, just not THAT wealthy like millionaires. But they are above average in wealth. I think that can apply to looks too. It's made to sound like good looking guys have women come onto them or it's easy, when that would only be for model like good looking guys or high status guys. Other good looking guys have it easier, but I think it's not isolated to that, but good looking, Sociable, extroverted guys with plenty of friends will have girls easily. I'm sure there are good looking guys who don't have dates easily because they are shy or more introverted, so good looks doesn't mean girls coming on to them and the bonus good looks brings if said good looking guy has a strong social life. Good looking guys who get ass left and right, more often have a lot of friends and doing a lot of social things and a big friend network more often.

[FatherJack]

Not always , a man has to bring a hell of a lot more than mere looks to attract and win over a woman , sure good looks help , but one little social mistake will get him branded a " creep " just as quickly as a less good looking guy.

[Asker]

yeah, there's more leeway for a goodlooking guy. But he has to be a sociable person. The good looking guys I've seen who have gotten girls, it's not just their looks, but they have strong social lives. That sets it up for said guys to meet many women. I'm sure there are a decent number of shy good looking guys or introverted good looking guys who struggle getting dates. Not because women don;t find them attractive or don't check them out.. But because they don't approach women and/or, put themselves in much less social situations or have less friends or know people which could connect them to a potential partner.

[Rippersavage]

I'm probably going to sound like a huge douche but as someone who girls find very attractive I'm gonna have to say yes, good looking guys do have girls throwing themselves at them.

[Asker]

I'm good looking, if that was true it would happen for me. A lot of my friends are either married with kids or don't go out as much. I also have anxiety, even though quite outgoing when in mutual places like work or class. But I basically had a really cute girl, 21, who worked at a dunkin donuts not charge me for the large cappuccino. Had a girl at a Buffalo bills game, college girl too, really cute. Chat me up at beer line, I got her number. I had a lady in produce cooler where I was working, be really flirty with her talking and grab my bicep three different times. It's sporadic because the small city I live in maybe. But strangers, family friends, and just enough stuff has told me that I'm a pretty handsome guy. Not movie star level, but apparently a general appeal to get women 10 years or more younger and older, and very conventionally attractive women check me out. Not just from white women but different races, ethnicity too. I'm not getting ass left and right, but that's because my social life is not so strong right now. I'm trying to pick it up but work schedule makes it tough. But that's my point, Man good looking guys who are getting ass, they are talking to a bunch of women and having quite a social life and out and bout where they are meeting a lot of women. The women see them and more apt to be with said good looking guys. Good looking guys put themselves out more, the difference is they get reject less than average guys or attract hotter or more attractive women compared to average looking guys.

[Emma_Edw]

Not always, I know many attractive looking guys with nasty attitudes. They can almost never get girls unless it's for a one night stand.

[Summeroflove]

Many times. Men want women to make a move on them. But many women who do aren’t the type you would want.

same for women. Because many times the kind of men they want. Aren’t the kind approaching them.

[Gibbby]

Well, it's a factor. But for me personally if he is a douche no thanks, can't depend on his looks alone if you want a future together... he needs a good personality too.. and money always helps :P jkjk but personality matters more for long term relationships.

One night stands sure the good looking guys have the upper hand. Not my style.

[Avicenna]

No, a lot of women do hit on good looking guys

[Asker]

Yeah I'm sure, but I see comments like good looking guys can just get sex easily simply because they are good looking. Women only seem to actually be aggressive going after a guy generally is if he's a high status, well known top musician, athlete or basically "the top guy on campus" or he's super good looking. Like model, movie star, which very few guys or people are That good looking. But saying a person is not good looking because they aren't model good looking is like saying a person is not wealthy if they are not a billionaire or millionaire. I don't know about you, but fucking people making $300,000 or more, but under a million, are still quite wealthy in my opinion. So you can be still good looking even if it's not model level and therefore still above average in looks. I believe good looking guys who get sex easily, are also guys who have fairly strong social lives and being around people, friends, where they are often in social places and still approach women. They just get turned down much less than average looking guys. Well I can't completley say that. I believe there can be good looking guys who may get women's attention, but either stupid, vain, or boring and turn the girl off. My experience shows that I'm a pretty good looking guy, so when I see these comments. I'm thinking well where is all this? ha. But it's because, I haven't been in a ton of situations because my friends are married and I just go out less and less friends because of seeing friends less as a result. My work makes it hard to do more, but that's the point. Guys I know who are good looking and getting girls. They also have a bunch of friends and/or just doing a lot of things and where they meet many women or such places.

[coolguy277]

7/10 is the new 4/10.

[Anonymous]

I've had women throw themselves at me before. I've been wold whistled, approached in the street, propositioned at work, followed in shopping centers, had my butt grabbed in the street, and offered lifts to work by strange women.

However, the most noticeable behavior was when a whole bunch of new girls (temps) joined at work. Every single one of them will look at you, but completely ignore all of the average looking guys. Even in the distance I see new girls walk in and immediately look towards me like no other guys exist. I also observed how differently they act if you accidentally touch them too. You apologize and they say ''that's ok, any time'' or ''if you wanted to touch me all you had to do was ask'' In the mean time, the average guy gets serious bother for accidentally touching. Once you see the double standards, it's a turn off, and the average looking guys start to pester you for not responding to the interested girls.