Guys, what are subtle things that girls do that instantly turn you on?

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  • As is often the case, I agree with what @AustinMan wrote.

    I can add a few specific things girls do that turn me on:

    - biting her bottom lip
    - playing with her hair
    - obviously showing off her boobs to me (yawning, bending over in front of me, etc.)
    - shifting her weight side to side (essentially masturbating without using her hands), which a lot of girls do unconsciously, or consciously but believing that guys don't know what's going on.
    - overtly expressing her kinkiness or submissive nature in any way.

  • It depends. For me, showing me in subtle ways that she's sexually submissive and open to kinky play really do it for me. That can be communicated in myriad ways: her appearance, her body language, her voice, her eyes, the way she moves, how she speaks.

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  • I like it when a girl does not wear a bra and/or unbuttons one too many so I get a sneak flash... way how. How bout you?

  • I drool for cute curly hair, nice soft skin, juicy kisses, smell good, I love open feet shoes , shorts with blouses , touching me in one arm or my hands, the looking she gives me , I love when she sits close and takes my hand and lets it rest on her meaty thights... Actually there are many things girls does lol

  • Biting her lip while looking at me a certain way (provocative)

  • Making out is a turn on, strip tease, sexually flirting and escalating. Not really too subtle

  • Messing with her hair, crossing her legs while in a skirt or dress are good, adjusting bracelets. Almost anything that only women do. Except for the limp wrist -- that's not a turn-on.

  • when she does something that could be viewed as sexy. without even thinking about it or trying to be sexy.

  • Caressing her own boobs/nipples. Not really subtle.

  • Touching my chest/shoulders, fluttering her eyes as she looks into mine

  • Dressing modestly but in a way that brings out beauty rather than just cover everything up like it'd the 1800s.

  • Stare in my eyes, punch me, purposely bump into me, and ask me out. That is about it.

  • Being naturally charismatic. Into their own sensuality. Or into me as a person.

  • Wonder the same lol

  • Those leggings women wear these days sure do help.

  • You don't have to do anything. Just a look or thought of you and it'll turn on me.

  • Bite her lip, smile and crosses her legs, gets me going haha

  • Tying their hair with their hands behind their head, Sighing or breathing heavily after finishing an exhausting work or exercise, Playfully hitting me especially kicking, Moving their shoulders in a specific way that's hard to define but believe me girls move their shoulders like that a lot and probably there are more

  • Breathing? Blinking? Talking? They all work...

  • Brushing your hair behind your ear. That little smile/smirk that you do when something is cute.

  • i don't give away the secrets that easy, but rest assured there are things a girl can do to turn a guy on instantly without touching. most girls don't have a clue...

  • When their naked and there playing with them self's sexually. 💞

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