Im confused about homosexuality?

[Anonymous]

I believe being gay is a choice. But I get confused when people say they started liking the same sex at 5 years old. Where does that come from?

[Anonymous]

its a choice, but they say its not a choice because they can't control their urge... how do i explain... i mean...
its like... imagine ur 3... u accidentally make a conscious decision to find a boy hot because u accidentally look at them in a certain light that makes u think they are hot, (which most guys dont accidentally have that thought)
but... what you can do is stop thinking of guys in that way and think of girls in that way instead,
but what most gay guys do... is they dont try to repel against their weird urge, and instead give into it and let their gay urge grow for years,

then because they gave into their desires and want to fuck guys so bad, they say they can't help it and its not their fault that theyre attracted to guys because its natural for them,
but thats where they are wrong... its natural for them... theyre only like that cos they gave into their urge of thinking of guys in that way instead of rejecting that thought and thinking of girls instead,

[Opinion Owner]

its like if i went out raping girls... then i say "i can't help it, i didn't choose to rape the girls, they were so hot that i couldnt control myself" like no... every man can repel against his urge and that is not a excuse "i can't help it" because the same as with gays... u can reject the urge to be gay, yet so many gay people dont fight the urge and give into it instead... thats why i have no sympathy for fags... they let their gayness grow into the size of a tree when they could have jus cut it at the root when it first started forming... but no... they dont

[Opinion Owner]

its not natural for them*

[aquamarineman]

I don't feel like what I say can change your opinion in any way but I still want to get my opinion off of my chest. I respect your opinion but I really disagree. I'm gay myself and also abstinent. I am attracted to men and not attracted to women. Being gay is not a choice, I don't know how one could think it is, trust me if I could be straight I would, but even if you don't have sex like me, that doesn't change the fact that you are gay, because being gay isn't some "urge", it is a part of who you are. There's also nothing wrong with being gay, and to say that being gay should be resisted the same way people should resist the urge to rape is ridiculous and offensive in so many ways. It is wrong to assert that people should try to change who they are and repress themselves to be "normal" when what they are doing is not harming anybody, and it is unfair for the woman a gay man might force themselves to be with, as a gay man will never have the romantic connection with a woman a straight man can.

[Opinion Owner]

@aquamarineman but thats not who they are, thats who theyre choosing to be, so they should try to repel against it cos its not normal to be attracted to same gender, its weird and disturbing, therefore they shuld try to change what theyre attracted to instead of jus embracing it and letting their gayness grow, thats why im not gay you see, i accidently had a thought of boys for a brief second when i was young, now what i could have done... is accept it and keep thinking of boys that way like u did and say "its jus a part of me" but no... i didn't... the second i thought of boys that way i instantly told myself "no, thats weird,, so unnormal and fucked up" then i instantly snapped back to thinking of girls that way and never have had that thought of boys that way again... so... this is why gay people are gay u see... they dont try to stop their thoughts... they jus let them grow... so in a way it is a choice

[Tyme1313]

I’m not as nice as him. You’re an imbecile... Science has shown for over a decade that there is no choice to it. Every animal species engages in homosexual activity, it’s a normal occurrence in nature.

[Dchrls78104]

Don't listen to the bs. No baby is ever born with a cigarette in its mouth. People CHOOSE to smoke when they think they have sense enough. It's the same with homosexuality: no baby is born out of its father's anus, gay men choose to insert their penises into other men's anuses.

[Tyme1313]

Yet every animal species engages in homosexual activity. Studies have shown it isn’t a choice. Which means the studies have shown, you’re an idiot.

[Societalmess]

Being bisexual wasn’t a choice for me, the first feelings I had for someone was another girl. There’s no choice when it comes to it. Like how you were born attracted to the opposite sex, it’s just how we are. I didn’t even know there was a label for my emotions until I got older, I just liked who I liked.

[Anonymous]

being gay a choice 🤦‍♀️ You want to Know the answer to this I suggest for you to go hang out with a gay person and allow them to share their story with you because you will find that they don’t choose to be gay and they can’t help who they fall in love with

[Pipeliner87]

I'm sorry but if a fag tries to insinuate the idea that he would like to ass "fuck" me then those are grounds for a severe beating. I don't care who you are but that's just wrong in my books and you are going to drink your meals from a straw form a a month or two.

[Trolloween]

How many times has a gay guy hit on you? You're 32... if it hasn't happened by now then you're just too ugly, my super straight friend who's definitely straight and not overcompensating.

[Opinion Owner]

@Pipeliner87 I wasn’t really talking to you if you wanted to share an opinion you could have done it elsewhere other than under my opinion the asker asked a question that many of us cannot answer

[jakerson181]

@Pipeliner87 You could also just say no thanks and walk away. I think Trolloween is right. Deep down you're questioning your own sexuality. "Do I give off gay vibes? Would I like it if I tried it?" You're hiding behind this super macho wall. It must really suck to be so uncomfortable with who you are. But it's OK. Nothing extensive therapy couldn't help.

[Pipeliner87]

@Trolloween are your faggot? Why the hell would you even consider your guy friend good looking? You are truly a sick individual.

[Trolloween]

I've had lots of attractive male friends, didn't have sex with any of them though. As for me being gay, maybe I am and maybe I'm not I'll let you keep guessing. If I wasn't so sick maybe the idea of some random people thinking I was gay would make me feel very insecure about my sexuality and I'd feel the need to lash out at people that reminded me of myself because of my self hatred. Good thing you're not sick isn't it or I might have hit a nerve.

[Tyme1313]

@Pipeliner87 I’ve had guy friends tell me I’m hot. I actually think more of their complements than women that have said the same. Mainly because of how much they could be judged for it. Having said that, I’ll be the bi guy to offer to fuck your ass. Odds are you are a self hating closeted gay guy. Taking one in the ass sounds like the proper treatment to prescribe for you. I bet you’ll enjoy it. 😘

[purplepoppy]

Every 5year-old thinks the opposite sex is yucky. Most grow up, others don't.

[BeanieCoatman]

i didn't, I've been wanting to fuck a female since i was like 3... literally... i remember when i first saw a girl on tv n start humping my bed at 3 looooooollllll

[BeanieCoatman]

i was like an adult at 3, i put it down to my intelligence, i knew too much too quick lol

[purplepoppy]

Your definitely in the minority

[BeanieCoatman]

i was jus grown up already when i came out the womb lol

[boggboss]

How is it a choice lol we fundermentaly have no control over who we are attracted too

[MackToday]

It's a birth defect it starts at conception.
http://www.nimbios.org/press/FS_homosexuality

[Hugemoth]

miss me with that gay shit

[Pipeliner87]

comes from school.

[Plitty-Tank]

They just aren't taught properly.

[Anonymous]

Its not a choice and they do not select who they are attracted to.