Have you ever gotten someone off with your hand because they were bothering you and you didn't want to have sex right then?

A very specific question, but I'm curious to see what people will say.
1 6

Most Helpful Guys

  • I definitely never did it to get someone to stop bothering me.

    But, one time, a girlfriend and I were sleeping on the floor of a cabin along with a large group of friends. She and I were in our underwear, covered with a sleeping bag. We couldn't have sex, but I fingered her to a quiet orgasm and then she jerked me off.

    Another time, a different girlfriend and I were at a county fair. In the evening, we found a secluded spot to make out and listen to music. I wound up playing with her titties and fingering her nipples under her shirt and she orgasmed. Yep, she was an orgasmic girl! But I certainly didn't do it to get her to stop bothering me. ;-)

    • Done both of those. (Second one at a Ren Faire.)

    • I consider a woman whose tits are sensitive enough to bring her to orgasm to be a priceless treasure. I only knew one woman like that. The Ren Faire! I'm picturing those outfits that display women's boobs like they are on platters. Perfect for a bit of fondling. :-)

  • It's funny not off of my physically but a friend from school did offer me a blow job in the bathroom one time I said no... Because at the time I felt that like it was too quick plus I did not feel like it was respectful to her and I wanted her to know we could be friends aside from that...

    • That was really sweet of you

    • It was really an arkward moment... I certainly hope she saw it as a good thing and not a turn down...

    • She probably saw it as a good thing, but it depends on the context You don't have to answer this unless you want to, but when she said that, did it get you hard, or were you just totally not into it?

    • Show All

Most Helpful Girls

  • I've rarely not been in the mood. But when I wasn't for whatever reason and the guy keeps bothering me to have sex well I'm not going to Reward his Disrespectful actions with a Hand-Job or any Job... Just like a Dog Positive Behaviors gets Positive Rewards, Negative Behaviors gets Time-Out in the Crate to lick his own Balls...

    • LOL...

    • Awe, some Poor Sap doesn't like not being Rewarded for being a Nuisance... Must be the only way he gets Laid, Begs for scraps like the Stray Dog he is!!!

    • @Moonchild714 😂😂😂

    • Show All
  • Yes, when giving a sensual, or erotic, massage and then realizing that the chemistry for any more advanced level of intimacy just wasn't there at the moment.

    Have you ever gotten someone off with your hand because they were bothering you and you didn't want to have sex right then?
    • Oh right. You're a masseuse. I heard they do that sometimes.

    • Yes, but I only do local friends and don't charge, so they just come to me for the smiles... lol

    • Oh ok

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

10 38
  • No, I have, but never because didn't want to have sex with them

    • I understand

  • No. If he’s bothering me I’m not doing anything. If there a reason I can’t have sex turn sure I’ll do other stuff. But if I don’t want sex bc he’s already being annoying, I’m not rewarding him further.

    lol no one has ever “ bothered” me for anything. Maybe my view would change in time I can’t say yet 😊

    • That's a very good point :-)

  • Fuck that, I don’t play with anyone unless I actually want to. Someone tries to pressure me into it they aren’t going to be a part of my life anymore.

    • Awesome

  • Yup. Working as much as I do you would too if you were exhausted

    • Same. Especially in law school.

  • You mean like a totally uninterested hj just so he’ll stop pestering me? I may have done this once or twice.

    • Exactly!

    • Me too

  • No way. Getting someone off with your hand sounds like way more work than having sex anyway.

    • In theory, yeah. You could just lay there, but then the person would (probably) know you weren't into it. But if you do it with your hand you can talk on the phone or text one-handed or do other stuff at the same time. You can even move from place to place and they'll probably follow you.

    • I'm being hypothetical here

    • @WhiteShoulder 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm going to have to try that make him follow me around LMFAO 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • Show All
  • nahh... I haven't had sex enough of times for that to happen🤔

    • Cool :-)

    • Lol well there are times sex is not a priority for that moment.. But I love your comment it makes u sound amazing

  • No, not because they were bothering me. Fingered her and she jerked me off

    • Got it

  • nope. never done that. is that something they'd be open to?

    • Like if you had a girlfriend (or even a female friend) who was so horny they were sort of humping your thigh

    • if i'm just friends with a girl i'm not going to touch them in that way unless they are a girl that i want more with

    • I totally understand. I feel the same way about most of my guy friends.

  • Yeah, I was tired and we'd already had vaginal sex twice that day.

  • Nope. If I’m not in the mood then it’s just not happening. They can wait

    • Good policy 😊

  • I was 15 and kept bugging a 14 year old girl for sex. She finally gave me a handjob just as long as I didn't bother her anymore.

    • I downvoted that. Not nice!

  • Yes my last ex-girlfriend , Kimberly she wanted sex i didn't so i just got her off

    • Did she cum really hard? I ask because I'm curious if the person on the receiving end gets as much pleasure out of it even if you're just doing it so they'll quit bothering you.

    • Yeah she had great orgasm for sure and cummed

    • Awesome :-) That was nice of you to get her off without expecting anything in return

    • Show All
  • Yes, many times.

    • Yeah. I totally get it.

  • lol no but i would'nt mind it at this very min lol :)

    • Haha

    • i speak the truth lol ;)

    • @TCredo are you at it again 🤔😂

    • Show All
  • Wow.. is this even possible? Why didn't I bother someone this much lol.

  • Does myself count?

    • I guess if you were super horny and couldn’t concentrate till you got off it would

    • So just like always? Thanks for clarifying

  • "Bothering you"? Hmmm... I can see this is going nowhere.

    • What?

    • Read your question again. Your lover was 'bothering you'? Or just some random guy and you give out free handjobs? Reminds me of the quip, "She likes sex alright... just not with you!" LOL

    • An ex a long time ago

    • Show All
  • Yea i did it a few times

    • Cool 😊

  • No. Not cause we didn't want to but wanted to but couldn't atm due to our location and I couldn't help myself.

    • I totally get it ;-)

  • Show More (28)