I can’t stand my xfwb so much. How to get over this?

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Answer 1

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block and delete them from your life. Find more satisfying relationships to get into.

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AustinMan | 40.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Why can't you stand him/her?

Sadused1

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Because
AustinMan

1 y
That's not very informative. Sounds like an answer I'd get from a child. If you really want to get past it, you need to understand it.
Sadused1

1 y
I do and I don’t. I’m understanding why I can’t stand him but I don’t understand his selfish and unreasonable actions.
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AustinMan

1 y
Sounds like he doesn't care what you think. Is that possible?
Sadused1

1 y
Unfortunately yes. I’m obviously bothered by it otherwise I wouldn’t ask.
I just need to get over this.
AustinMan

1 y
Focus on the pain he caused you.
Sadused1

1 y
So he hates me?
AustinMan

1 y
I don't know about hate but for him to be so disinterested in how you're feeling says he's no longer interested so let him go.
Sadused1

1 y
Done.
AustinMan

1 y
Good for you. Does feel better? If we're wrong, he'll let you know but don't cling to hope. Just decide if you'd be open to reconciling and move on.
Sadused1

1 y
I don’t know what to feel? I feel confused.
AustinMan

1 y
Just be annoyed and let it go at that.