Would you stay with someone who isn't willing to have oral sex?

[Lliam]

It depends.
I had a girlfriend who didn't really care about receiving oral. When I tried to go down on her, she would just tell me to come inside her. She loved intercourse and came like a maniac during penetrative sex. We fucked all the freaking time. I didn't miss licking pussy when I was with her, so, in that case, I wouldn't have even considered breaking up with her. In reality, I go down on women to give them pleasure, not so much to give myself pleasure, although I don't mind doing it at all.
She gave great blowjobs and swallowed hungrily. But I never asked for them because I enjoyed fucking her better than getting head. When she initiated a blowjob, though, I didn't mind at all. It's such a wonderful surprise gift for a woman to give to a man. She was incredibly skilled at it, too. But because our sex was so unbelievably good, I could have lived without blowjobs.
Now that I think of it, though, I did ask her to suck me off after I had been fucking her and was about ready to cum. She would do so without hesitation when asked. I wouldn't have broken up with her if she didn't. I'd be glad to cum inside her all day long. But that kind of blowjob is a gift from heaven.
In the end, I'll say that I love receiving oral, but it's not mandatory if the woman is a wild, orgasmic fuck.

[Finchie40]

No , I wouldn’t , by a partner not giving you oral just means they really aren’t into you is the way I look at it , I wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t like oral period , cuz if I am going down on her and she doesn’t go down on me then that just shows she is selfish and only really cares about herself , so a relationship wouldn’t be progressing , I would be on the prowl for someone else , it’s shit like this that makes relationships fail , I see it all the time , in a committed relationship you should never make your partner not feel wanted , I don’t care how upset or stressed out you are you should still make your partner feel wanted , what people aren’t getting at home is what they will get outside of home , happens all the time , can’t tell you how many married women I came across that were sexually frustrated at home , saying their husbands don’t want sex , they don’t help them around the house , they are never home always going out with their friends etc.. I know Girls do this shit as well to their husbands and that’s the problem with relationships , people r selfish and only really think about themselves , so if I am in a relationship I am going down on her as much as I can and she better be doing the same lol

[MissKittyz]

After I've been with two boring guys in my past who literally made me hate sex, I'm NEVER going back to close-minded guys. My first ex was super vanilla and wanted to receive oral but not give it back. Like ever. Didn't even give me a reason either just that it isn't "his thing". Well, it isn't my "thing" to date a boring man so no, I wouldn't stay with someone who isn't willing to give me oral sex. It is part of sex and I want to be with someone who is open-minded and wants to try many things with me.

I did find a man like this though and he is my fiancé :) so now I seriously love sex. But I'm not dating someone who isn't into oral sex.

[tooturntT]

I only give Oral when I really like or trust a guy to not be a meanie weenie to me Bc Freshman year I had sex with a guy and he didn’t finish so he told everyone I was bad at sucking dick even though I didn’t do it in the first place. So now Bc of that experience I’m insecure and scared they’ll judge me lmfao. Also the first time I sucked dick I was dating a football player and he didn’t shower and it was the worst thing I ever encountered, but I was not about to look like a little bitch all over again. But the smell of his balls are burned into my brain.

[ghostqueen]

Nope, life is bad enough.

[Moonchild714]

Oral Sex isn't the be all and end all. My husband is the first man I'm able to give Oral to and not be Triggered of PTSD. If someone is against Oral they may have a Valid reason. It's a common Trigger for those who were Sexually Assaulted as Children since that is often the First Sexual Assault Act Induced on them.

[Purpleronnie]

I really can’t see myself ever saying “ I’m sorry sweetheart , while I think everything else about you is perfect , you don’t do oral sex and because of this I cannot be with you “. Lol 😂 really , well good luck with that , it’s about the whole package , when you grow up you will realise this !! 😂

[TonyMetal_1986]

If you love your husband just for sex, than you shouldn't have married him.

I personally having nothing against oral sex and i like it but i respect others who don't like it...

P. S: as a man i like to receive oral more than i give and never had a problem with this, actually my ex was the one who still wanted more and more to give me oral sex until i stop her and switch to other things.

We were very happy sexually but again, love is everything.

[0112358]

Probably not. But maybe.

I’ve spoken to the odd woman here who has some past trauma with oral. They were enthusiastically into EVERYTHING else. Just oral was triggering.

I could live without it in a case like that.

But that’s rare. Most people who won’t do oral, oral is just the most common thing on a huge list of “won’t”. Forget that.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Well, I'm not in a relationship and don't plan to be again at least for quite some time, but I would be completely fine with it, seeing as I have zero interest in it. Actually, one of the many reasons I choose to remain single is because I have zero interest in ANYTHING sexual, which I know is a dealbreaker for 99.999% of guys. I know I can't force myself to do anything I'm uncomfortable with and don't have any desire to.

[JackSmy]

People like what they like, but it isn't a deal-breaker! I have never really liked any lady thinking she had to do oral, and don't really find it that amazing, so I could easily let that go. I love pleasing her, though, but some are nervous and uncomfortable with that too!
I think if you are a good couple, you find your own, personal way that works for both of you!

[WhiteShoulder]

God no!!! Need it way too bad for that.

Did your husband ever go down on you at a D&D game?

[Miristheiss]

I have no idea.
I have never not had it.
I do not know what I would feel if some told me I will do this and that but I will NEVER do that.
Would I not care, would it bother me after months without?
I kind of seems like they feel you are gross... you do not want gross things in your mouth.
I do not think I would like that feeling.

[mudie0991]

The first (and only) guy I ever gave oral to kinda forced it on me... by shoving my head down on his dick (we were sitting) and wouldn't let me up until he was done, despite me trying to push myself back up. Kinda ruined it for me, and I haven't done it since. The guys I've been with never cared, but its always been a "if you won't, then I won't" kind of deal. A bit disappointing, but fair. Only one guy didn't care, and gave me oral anyway... and it was just...👌

[cheapshotbob]

i would seeing how i can't be made to orgasm that way but if it makes them think i enjoy it and i would i would let them till the cows come home.

[broken_heart_at_48]

Sex is very important in a relationship and if your SO isn't willing to do oral then you're either looking at a lifetime of not being sexually satisfied or you're not figuring on being with that person forever (which is fine if you're not wanting a forever relationship). If you're not planning on being with them forever then cut bait and find someone you're more compatible with or one day you'll look back and realize you got burnt

[stanstraykids]

not having oral sex isn't the end of the world. if you really love someone, would you really let them go, just because they're jusy not comfortable with this sex thing?

[TCredo]

It would be a tough one... I love giving oral sex very much... it's so intimate and erotic... as is receiving it... would def create an incompatibility... don't like thinking it would be a deal breaker but... if known before relationship gets going then likely no relationship is going to get going :)

[Shamalien]

I mean they should be open to pleasing you in any way that isn't way over the top grotesque. No anal is fine, if a chick says that, that's actually better than fine as I'm not interested, but no oral is a harsh thing just to say... at least be open to the idea of it. Not something I feel I'd need to discuss though tbh, I think if the relationship is good and y'all love eachother you wouldn't mind going down

[chrissykerdock]

I would actually need to give oral sex... so I would definitely need a guy who likes receiving it... not really troubled if he doesn't want to return the favor... I never asked a guy or gave an ultimatium for a guy to eat my pussy.

[ecfresh]

Been there done that. Unless it’s a medical condition there is no excuse. I wouldn’t stay again

[Ripper_E]

I would be okay if she isn't into oral. I cannot force her to do it and I wouldn't want her to do something she doesn't like to do just because it feels good for me. I would still perform on her, so long as she does not expect me to.

[matchrestore]

I don't need oral sex, so I would. My wife does need oral to orgasm sometimes, so I would if I were here. Luckily I love giving oral, so it's not an issue.

[TheCunningLinguist]

I enjoy going down on a woman WAY to much to ever go without. It's one of my favorite sexual acts. I'd ever enter into a relationship with any woman who doesn't let me or give me an opportunity to change her mind.

[EmbraceThePain]

Yeah, I would depending on everything else about her. Of course, I’ll be disappointed that she wasn’t willing to give or receive oral and I’ll communicate with her to see why she believes what she believes.

[chriscdi]

nah thats a sign of unloyalty, leaving someone for something like that is petty, but people can do as they please

[Meatunnel69]

is that linda belcher from bobs burgers? Im so disappointed

[Dazed0N0Confused]

That's my current boyfriend. He won't go down on me, but other than that the sex is great and he's an amazing person... Gotta make compromises sometimes

[DevikaButts95]

I actually don't really give oral to my boyfriend. I do now, but when we first started, that was never on the table.
I however, need to be with someone who will give me oral. Lmao.

[SydneySentinel]

Maybe. My body responds better to penetration anyway.

[motownplayer2000]

It would all depend on how good she was with he vag and how in sync she is with being good at sex. There are a lot of women that are straight trash in bed. So they have to be able to give good oral to keep a guy. So yeah, it would depend on that..

[babygirlneedsc_ck]

Never been in a situation like that but I like receiving and giving oral a lot so I wouldn't wanna stay with someone who doesn't want to do it ever

[Sonorous]

Considering the fact that I'd give myself oral if I could. (no homo) I would not be willing to date anyone that didn't.

[theCobbler]

People are Strange, but to each is own !
I Absolutely LOVE to perform Cunninglus ! Ymm hmm. Good !

[Trooper205]

I want Oral, and I REALLY want to give Oral, but I will STAY with my Girl, whether She's into it or not.

[Vedika08]

Have been with my husband who isn't willing for oral sex: either giving or receiving but I have held onto him.

[Anonymous]

Most women aren't into giving, anyway. They pretend to be, at first, but then start making up excuses.

[Buckzor]

I don't like oral, never enjoyed getting it, so no issue for me.

But I have no problems giving oral.

[Jjpayne]

I'd be ok.. It makes me feel weird to have her do that to me anyway but if she wants me do her area and not mine is be fine with that

[jamesgoldman]

I could... my first ex didn't but at that time I'd never had oral and having had it with my second ex it is my first one I would take back given the choice

[MackToday]

I couldn't care less if I put effort into it. If I can be with the girl I care about stupid sex acts mean less to me than the dirt in a specific sidewalk crack some place in say Japan.

[LazyMan]

I would not stay with someone who wouldn't do this for me.

I am someone who would try almost anything for a partner and or potentially do sexual acts for them I am not fond of to please them. They should do the same.

[Usernamesrdumb]

Have been without oral for years. men, get into a long term relationship. Odds are you won't be receiving it either.

[MannySimms]

I think I ruined this for others. I promised my ex I wouldn't cum in her mouth. While receiving a rare and surprisingly good blowjob I proved myself to be a liar. Never got another from her.

[your_guy_23]

Is a woman didn't want to give me oral but would let me give oral to her then I'd definitely stay with her, but if she didn't let me give her oral then that would be a little different

[pretty_bad]

Lol sound like this person is dealing with a jamaican lol but in a relationship both partners should be comfortable sexually that plays a big role in a relationship

[Okami_Kitsune]

Being a pretty kinky person, if some vanilla ass oral sex is where you draw the line we are NOT going to click well in bed lol. So I would have say no to that relationship.

[beebella]

No way. If you want to be with me, then oral is part of the deal. 😂

[Forestfox]

With someone who wasn't down to receive from me, no. But give, sure. You?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I mean, it wouldn't be a deal breaker but I'd like her to at least try it once, and I wanna go down on her too.

[worldscolide]

I'm one of those weird ones where I love to give, but not receive. I'm perfectly OK with not receiving. That having been said.. I'd not want to be in a relationship where I couldn't taste her..

[dovido]

well its complicated. i love it. ny girlfriend doesn't, im with her and i emphasize to her how good it makes me feel and i go down on her a lot so she kinda has to =P

[mk200195]

It wouldn't be a deal-breaker or anything but what guy/girl would say NO to oral sex 😣

[fgalvan]

I love doing it more than getting it i meet one that didn't like it but i wouldn't want to anyways not good hygiene maybe she knew it wasn't good. So i didn't last longer than a few days staying with her

[Surely]

Here is a joke that I heard. And it is just a joke.
Why do all brides smile while walking down the aisle?
Because they know that they gave their last BJ!
Glad not all women are like that!😍😋😝

[jss123]

I don't understand why anyone wouldn't want it or to do it..

[SeanshterMonster]

Sure. Sex is disgusting anyway, its useless, selfish and just dumb. All sex is painful for girls, doesn't really feel good and a hot sweaty loud gross humping pile of flesh.

[sassy1433]

I’m in a relationship like that now. He’s not into giving it. I’m ok with that.

[blkgold33]

I'll stay with them but everything else we do sexual got be on point. Cause I love getting bj

[spartan55]

No way, no how. Far too many women who have no problem with the bj... next

[Thefinisher11]

Aw hubby doesn't like oral sex , I think I can help in that department

If that's what you want

[rullysyske]

I've been with girls who aren't actually willing, but do it anyway because they're so submissive. In some ways, that's even hotter than when girls are willing

[Proxyz123]

Yeah if I truly like that person and love her I'll stay with her although she won't go down on me. There are other ways we can do it and sex isn't everything in a relationship

[Anonymous]

Nope. I love oral sex, it satisfies me so I will never be with a guy who is not willing to do it. Life without orgasm is boring. Lol