Guys, Will it bother you if the lady you wil have sex with gets jumpy during intercourse?
Or do you think guys should be more understanding in this particular case, especially when the woman is starting to learn the tricks of having sex. I mean why it can be bad for a man to teach the woman or guide her so she be more comfortable being with him, instead he assumes a woman can't be jumpy or uneasy or nervous, beause sex is just a natural thing like eating and no woman has to be jumpy.
What your the opinion of guys who for them is important a woman should not be jumpy or uneasy during sex otherwise they stop contacting the lady just for that particular issue? Fair not fair? judgmental?
A friend I know went through that with a guy she was really attracted and know for 5 yrs!!! They did had sex in the past but she as not very experienced in sex. They both had sex twice but in both times the friend got jumpy when the guy grabbed her legs for missionary position,, and that was even before the penetration started with the guy and the guy noticed that immediately. The guy change his mood towards her and did not like what was going on, beause he said, (my friend told me ) "Being jumpy I can't fuck you well you have to relax your body for God sake. My friend is new to all this sex experience and she told me "Well in 2 dates I had sex with the guy how can he pretend Im already a connoisseur jsut after 2 times of quick sex? I feel bad that I was a dissapointment to him and I like him very much. My friend even told me that even so the guy contacted her (after ghosting her for several months) to see if they could have a 3rd date together but of course sex as the main issue but in order for him to let her know...
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