Are good partners hard to find these days?

[Rosabelle98]

Thanks to online dating sites like Tinder, etc, rise of erotica and pornography, hookers. Are they the main reasons why it’s hard to find a good partner?

[Anonymous]

Well such questions are always tricky to answer. Because most of the time, it is not possible that we have the same consensus about the definitions. Like what a good partner is? I mean sure there might be some agreement in general, but it highly depends on individual. Like for me, I would define a good partner as someone who can let things go. Who dont hold grudges. You might want a person who does not let anyone get away with anything. Who stands up for you and himself. These two are completely opposite characteristisc, still the definition differs.

[Opinion Owner]

(continuing. Because GaG sucks even more now and cut me off while adding opinion) So depending on definition, you might be able to find good partner. Like if you live in a society where majority are not loyal, and cheating is so common that it is not seen twice, and if you want a partner who is loyal, it might be tough. Not because it is acceptable to cheat there, but because it is less taboo and the consequences are less severe. Hence it makes more people open to the idea.

[LJOILMAN]

yes, They are.. way to many selfish people.

[Anoniemus]

Nope. It should be much easier. The hookup culture allows people who aren't looking for serious relationships to enjoy themselves.

Also, there's nothing that says that a partner can't be good if he writes/reads erotica and watches porn. There are also men who are serious on Tinder though it has developed into a site for majorly sex.

[coolbreeze]

Finding good compatible partners is very hard becuase everybody is looking for differnt things.

[ecfresh]

I feel the opposite. So many options and bad actors that when you are authentic and honest you are a catch these days. Just being normal means I can attract plenty of good partners to meet and date. I’ll leave the hookups to those who want them on tinder

[johnhere]

You can say in a way... Increased our choices

[Dchrls78104]

For me a good partner is hard to find because many simply don't cultivate the qualities that would make one a good partner.

[dthomas89]

Yes, they are

[COMMODOREII]

If you allow them to control you.

[GreenGold1992]

yeah

[Nahid1707]

Yes dating is difficult

[esotericstory]

I guess, but I haven't looked in a long time.

[JamesBlackDragon]

Yes and no I guess

Yes if you're looking it's hard to find because some people can tell that you are looking can that makes you easier to play

Sometimes it's better not to look and just let it happen

[Slim57]

Yes because people would rather break up and go for someone else rather than actual do the required work it takes to maintain a relationship

[Anonymous]

That, and good people who aren't taken are few and far between. Seriously, I've met so many nice, pleasant girls in my life and they turn out to have boyfriends. The single ones, usually they are either crushing on another guy or are dealing with some major issues that would only get worse if you started dating them.