How can I make him have a strong libido?

The guy I’m in love with ( unfortunately not with yet I’ve been trying to get with him for a while) has a low libido, I sent him a nude a while ago and he was supposed to return the favour.. but he hasn’t yet. He did message me two days ago apologising and saying he hasn’t forgotten his promise.. he’s just got fuck all libido at the moment. How can I help him bring it up.
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  • Many guys before this reply offers good and positive opinions. And I hope they are right about his feelings for you.

    To make this thread complete, I like to bring your attention to a negative aspect: that he doesn't crush on you 😪 (sorry but this is a possibility).

    This is because speaking as a guy, if I like a girl, I'll be having sexual thoughts even without her nudes. And when nude is given, I'm sure she likes me, all the more I'll respond positively with sexual advancement.

    Hence I think (apart from other guys opinions) he may not be interested to enter a relationship with you. And if he asks you to sleep with him, it may only be just to satisfy his lust. 😪 (sorry for the negative evaluation).

  • I think you are wasting your time and just need to let him go. He's either not into you, he's taking you for granted or the timing is off for him. You can only do so much. He has to get out of his thing whenever (whether its depression or something else) I seriously consider just start look elsewhere

    If I was in the UK I would totally date you. You have a great personality and you're really funny.

    I have a pretty high libido. I'd want to do it with girls I'm with at least once a day

    • I used to live in the UK 25 years ago until moved to the U. S. too actually!

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  • Skip the sending nodes and just spend time with him. Go on dates, cuddle up to a movie together. Etc.

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  • He might be depressed, doesn't mean he needs to see a doctor but if it carries on or it's recurring then it would be a good idea

  • Well, I certainly can’t even suggest he has low libido based on him not sending a nude back to you.

    If he is telling you that he has low libido (which, is a weird thing to tell a woman that you’d wanna shack up with). The diagnosis criteria is a mile wide and a inch deep. I need details.

  • Give him a BJ and don’t let him cum. Tease the fuck out of him and draw out the pleasure as long as possible. For me, this kind of thing over a long time seems to have made me so horny I have to cum twice to be satisfied now.

    Before, I was just bustin nuts whenever. Letting all that pleasure go too quickly. Now I like to let it build up. And make my girl feel the same and I tease the fuck out of her. You have to first know what heights of pleasure can be reached!

  • I used to have you as a friend. I just joined again, I wish I could see one of you. Can I show you one? Just the thought of you seeing me 💙

  • Well in person for sure. I'd say pick out something intimate and silky. When you see him in person if you have the relationship just reach down his pants. Make him glup. If that does not work either ask him what does or go get professional help and maybe get some meds for him. But on the phone there is not much you can do but talking seductively and enjoying feeling yourself while talking or doing Skype with each other doing this might help but either way it's going to take his live participation. A picture or text will not do

  • Maybe its a self steem issue maybe he have previous partners ghat have teased him about it

  • Might be due to his diet or lack of exercise maybe. That he has a lower libido. Some foods can block or lower a guys testosterone levels. Or if there out of shape by a lot. That might play a factor also. Not saying you have to be super fit. But even a mostly healthy life style can improve a guys levels.

  • I don't think you can. It is for him to work on it. He is a lucky guy, receiving something like that from such an attractive lady.

  • You can’t

  • He can try No Fap. No watching porn, masturbating or orgasming allowed for 3 weeks. No exceptions.

    After that it should go up, his hormones should level out and all that.

  • damn, u sent a guy nudes?
    i gotta figure out some way to hack his phone or something... shit.
    bet u looking smoking hot naked, mmmm 8=======D

    • I COULD have so many great intense wanks to that

  • Send him a picture of a dick instead & see what happens? I think that's what he wants. Maybe he hasn't admitted it to himself yet

  • Dirty talk might work... it might not be able to be helped by you

    N. b. I remember once when I was dating my second ex, I pawned my TAG Heuer to raise enough for a business deal and from the moment that watch came off my wrist until I got it back (about 10 days later) my libido, well my everything stopped for worry about the deal going wrong and me losing my watch

  • Maybe he's insecure with his body.

  • If he doesn't want sex, something is wrong, sis.

  • An more hands on abbroach would be an idea

  • Suck his dick
    Im sure u will get it up

  • Are you sure it's a libido problem?

  • I may need to examine that photo...😉kidding. Have you talked with him about seeing a doctor about this?

  • I have no solution.. just happy to see a girl facing this problem for a change 😂😉

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