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Should I wait for him until he is done with work, or really find another guy to fuck with? I mean will he see me less if I decide to wait for him?

So lately my boyfriend is really busy. And i've tried everything to seduce him for the last two weeks.. Yet he always decline sex or even a date because he is too tired and stress with work. And this morning he asked me to have sex with another guy, because he doesn't want to make me wait for him.

Question is, should i wait for him until he is done with work, or really find another guy to fuck with? I mean will he see me less if I decide to wait for him? I mean i don't want him to take me for granted as well
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  • The situation is quite abnormal. Either he's telling the truth or hiding something from you. So, the first thing you should do is talk to him. Ask him what's the real problem.
    Because it would be better for you to leave him and find another guy. It's not an easy task to manage two relationships at once (emotional and sexual). First, it'll feel so good but eventually, you'll get frustrated.
    You have three choices.
    1. Wait for your boyfriend to be free from all the work stress and then have sex with him.
    2. Do as he told you. Find a sex partner (or random hookup) to satisfy your urges.
    3. Leave the current boyfriend and find another guy who will satisfy both your emotional and sexual urges.
    You are free to choose any one of them. So, think deeply and then take any decision.

  • Listen first of I think you need to find out if it's really work or something more cause this whole thing just isn't making sense to me. Soets analyze this first off I'm a man and I dont know no man that's turning down sex with his girl unless he had some sexual issues and far as getting it up or he's fuckin with some other chic on the side and thirdly who the the fuck is gonna tell there gorl go fuck someone else. That's make no sense in box me cause this is something that we might have to delve a little deeper to get some answers

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  • I believe the real question is would you like to see other men? And how do you feel about him being OK with that?
    From you question it seems that you are not entirely comfortable with this idea

    • Honestly i am sad and offended that somehow he said that. So i just said "ok" to him just to save my ego. And tbh i do want to find another guy to teach him a lesson - so that he won't take me for granted, but i am really not sure

  • Work and additional stressors are certainly a factor that can lower a mans sex drive. It happens, were not sled dogs.

    I have a lot going on right now myself and haven't been interested in sex. That doesn't mean I don't love or care about my girlfriend. He could just be exhausted.

  • Wait. Use a dildo if you really need it.

  • Sounds like you guys have an extremely toxic relationship. Fucking another guy won't make you feel better. Maybe during, but after I'm sure you'll feel even worst. Why is he rejecting you? Find out.

    • Well he said work stuff. And tbh I am aware that he has lots of works until end of March later

  • What kind of a man that allows himself to offer his girl to fuck another guy? that's disgusting. Just dump him, you clearly mean nothing to him

  • Why is he not wanting to have sex with you that's odd. Is this an open relationship?

    • Nope. But he is too busy and stress with work lately. And well he love to get drunk and just sleep during weekend to de-stressed himself

    • Where does work or what does he do that is so stressful? 😗

  • If you want sex and he is letting you do it it with another guy, go for it. If you only want sex with him, then wait.

  • Just jump him when he is a sleep suck it get it hard get on top and take it

    • Or tell him he can just lay there and you have your way with him

  • Fuck another guy

  • How horny are you

  • If he's giving you the option to f*** other guys I would do it I gave my wife that option and she loves it

    • Why? Don't u love her and jealous that she do it with another guy?

    • Got to love her I just thought that she deserves to be satisfied in ways that I can't give it to her I'm small and have erection problems

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