Am I no longer an virgin?

[Anonymous]

I had sex for my first time, with an close guy friend I trust. I didn’t bleed and I didn’t feel pain, I didn’t let him finish but I let him inside me for an bit. I wasn’t used to it so told him to stop than he listened straight away. I’m his buddy.

[PrudentGuy]

So many had spoken before me and almost all agree that you're not a virgin. I'll join the chorus.

One more point I want to add (none mentioned) is, please DON'T stop at first time. Sex only gets better with experience. So talk to your boyfriend and start a sex-filled lifestyle if possible.

That was what I did. My (now ex) and I agreed to be monogamous and after tested, she inserted IUDs.

Thereafter we fuck without condom, which heightens the senses a lot.

(Dont forget an "exit clause" if you want to try my method. In this way there is no need to cheat. Just need to be honest with each other.)

[Asker]

His not my boyfriend his my buddy but yeah I’m not an virgin anymore

[PrudentGuy]

I see. There is no plan for LTR?

[Asker]

No but he asked me if I want date him I said no but he said tell me when I’m ready because I’m on break last month I got dumped and he said he doesn’t care if He gets with me in future.

[PrudentGuy]

Fundamentally, do you love (or at least like) him? If no then leave it there. But if you do love or like him, then give it a try. It's an opportunity for you to mature yourself sexually (its OK to use him as a rebound). This is my opinion, although I know many may disagree.

[Asker]

I like him as a Friend and I wasn’t with the last ex for long only lasted for an day..

[Finchie40]

You aren’t a virgin anymore. But in your mind you are still a virgin cuz you didn’t let the guy finish lol I dated a girl that did this to guys , she would get with the guy to the point he was inside her and then she pushed him off , cuz she said she wasn’t really into them , when she finally had sex with me she let me finish and said that I took away her virginity , I was like what? She said I was the first guy she let finish , I laughed and said that doesn’t make you a virgin , the second a dick enters your vagina makes you not a virgin , so I laughed and said well thanks for taking away your made up virginity lol

[Asker]

Lol I realised that now.. haha 😆

[Finchie40]

I have to say though it’s crazy that you let your buddy take away your virginity , that’s not really heard of lol usually a girl gives it to her first love

[Asker]

Oh true I ended up giving it to my buddy but don’t regret it

[Finchie40]

It sounds like you 2 might become more then just buddies lol

[Asker]

Oh true like an relationship? he did ask me if I want to date I said no. He did tell me he doesn’t care if he gets with me in future but I like him in that way

[Finchie40]

Why don’t you want to date him?

[Asker]

Because not attracted to him and not Ready to date again after being dumped an month ago

[Finchie40]

It’s funny to hear that a girl can have sex with a guy that she isn’t attracted to , I just answered a question on here that was pretty similar to your answer , so I am shocked to hear that to be honest , considering me personally couldn’t have sex with a girl unless I am attracted and have a connection with her. But I know there are guys that can just screw anything , so be honest are you kicking yourself in the ass for getting that far with your friend? Are you still calling yourself a virgin cuz you stopped him lol

[Asker]

I’m no longer an virgin and he won’t talk to me anymore he was ignoring my snapchats so I blocked him.

[Asker]

Think he used me for sex...

[Finchie40]

I don’t think he used you considering you pushed him off , I think he is upset that you pushed him off without letting him finish , honestly you probably killed his confidence , by you pushing him off probably made him feel like you thought he was disgusting so that’s why you stopped him. That’s another reason I only have sex with a girl that I am attracted to and have a connection with , cuz sex is one of those things that can really mess with people’s heads cuz we assume someone is thinking one way when they really are thinking a something different , people get mislead a lot of times , example when I was younger playing the field , pretty much hooking up with random attractive girls at a party etc. Then having sex with them , At the time I was just looking to get off , I liked the girl but I wasn’t looking for a relationship and I assumed she was thinking the same and that wasn’t the case she was thinking we were going to date and become more then just sex , Girls have done this to me as well , where I wanted more and they just assumed I just wanted to get off , so again why it’s smarter to only have sex with someone you have a connection and attracted to

[Finchie40]

I honestly feel this guy likes you more then just a friend and he was looking for any which way to get with you , cuz even if you said let’s have sex and nothing more in his mind he was thinking she isn’t being serious , she is just saying this , she really does like me so he assumed completely different then what you were telling him , by you pushing him off killed his confidence and he is probably embarrassed that you didn’t let him finish that’s why he isn’t talking to you

[Finchie40]

Why it’s hard for a guy and girl to be just friends , the guy usually wants more

[Asker]

Oh He went slow first than went a bit rough than I moaned, Than told him to stop He got off on top off me I send you a private message.

[Anonymous]

All virgins dont bleed on their first time. I guess you lost your virginity. But i dont know about that, i hope that a person with more experience gives you the right answer.

[505error]

Yes you lost your virginity. Not every girl bleeds or has pain during their first time.

[Asker]

Oh wow

[505error]

I had tons of pain when I lost mine, but never bled either. When his penis is inserted you lose your virginity. That’s it.

[CuriousBadBoy]

Hey @505error It's me Harsh

[Asker]

Oh okay

[Trolloween]

I'm confused what you thought the definitely of virginity was.

[Asker]

I knew once someone has had sex the person is no longer an virgin.

[Trolloween]

OK so what did you think sex was? If it's not a penis in a vagina.

[Asker]

I know what sex is

[Asker]

It’s when the penis gets inserted in the vagina knew that one

[Trolloween]

Lol OK so you see my confusion. But yes you're not a virgin, I hope it was a nice memory and meant something

[Asker]

Yeah it was with an guy friend I’m close to that I trust I felt good after it. Should I put an update on my question.. fixing my context.

[AzureGirl]

If you’ve had sex then you are no longer a virgin.

[Asker]

Yeah that is true

[R4vedave]

Yes, a dick went inside your pussy. That means you're not longer a virgin.

[Dargil]

The general consensus is any PIV or PIA ends virginity. In a roll as Virginity Lawyer, I would say that if the head (the pinker area)...

... passes fully through the vaginal (or anal) opening (you might get a stretch and give feeling, both going in and coming out), that virginity has ended. I choose to think that unsuccessful pokes do not qualify. How's that?

[Asker]

It was vaginal sex.. so no longer a virgin anymore wow 😮

[Dargil]

If his head got all the way in, correct. Welcome home.

[Asker]

Yep his banana was inserted in my cherry I was moaning my head off. Thank you.

[Dargil]

Well then. There you are. :-D

[Asker]

My First time of vaginal sex was unexpected lol I didn’t plan it it just happened

[Dargil]

Sounds like it worked out OK. You don't have to worry about it any more. Just improve on it next time.

[Asker]

Oh yeah sure will improve on it as I get used to it. i got nothing to worry about now that’s true used protection. Have the implant rod in my arm and He used an Condom.

[Dargil]

Try to work on emotional bonding. Add love to sex and it is several clicks better.

[Asker]

I lost my virginity to an buddy

[Dargil]

Fondness can grow anywhere you plant it.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true aye

[chriscdi]

ok good for you 😂

[Asker]

😅😅😅

[Pejtu]

Kids
Are you 15 or some shit?

[Asker]

18...

[Asker]

But used protection sex

[Pejtu]

You are still virgin in my eyes Untill I shove my cock inside pussy balls deep She is a virgin in my eyes

[Asker]

I don’t think so.. Because I had vaginal sex

[Pejtu]

Thats not possible since u felt no pain And believe me when big dick goes in and u are virgin u will feel that Do either the guy is small or he did not go deep enaugh

[Asker]

I felt his small banana went inside my cherry but wasn’t painful his banana was small. I felt my cherry pop though.

[CuriousBadBoy]

Very fruity talk 😂

[Pejtu]

He was small okay we know everything we need

[Asker]

Yeah

[Steve37]

Penis in your vagina means no longer a virgin

[Asker]

Yayyyyy

[Twalli]

If his penis was fully inside you it counts. As for not bleeding and no pain, that can happen. Really it just means your hymen was broken earlier. A lot of girls who ride horses a lot experience the same lack of pain because their hymen was already broken. Other people like my girlfriend just didn't experience pain or blood their first time.

[bklynbadboy1]

Sorry but your not a virgin any more

[Asker]

I know I got used... for sex

[bklynbadboy1]

In box me cause I think your looking. at this all wrong

[Asker]

Do you know who I am

[bklynbadboy1]

I do now

[Asker]

Yeah... you figured haha

[Silence00]

I never heard about man losing their virginity, how does it possible even?

[Nachowedgie]

"I had sex for my first time"

You've answered your own question

[mynkMumbai]

No u r not... by physical activity exercise also virginity is lost

[Anonymous]

You’re not a virgin anymore.

[Asker]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Inside what?

[Asker]

Inside my Private part

[Opinion Owner]

Yes.

[Asker]

Vagina.