Can you have sex with someone without feeling?

[Anonymous]

I know I can’t I gotta be into you to lay in bed with a partner.

[ChloeStarlight]

Nope, I’d have to be in a relationship with the guy if I’m gonna sleep with him

[Anonymous]

No I can't have sex with someone whom I don't love. Feelings are needed.

[btbc92]

That is not how sex works. The men who say yes are designed to sexually attach and detach at will. We women do not have that ability. For the women who say yes, it's often a psychological or some type of mental disorder that comes with it. Or abuse.

[NyteLyte]

If you don't mind doing it for them and not feeling anything. Then, you're a real trooper and deserve a medal. You're basically doing them a favor and pleasuring them while you're not getting anything yourself. Congratulations.

[CuriousQuestions842]

Oh yeah but their has to be a least minimum attraction. Unless I'm drunk lol

[itsallaroundtheworld]

What kind of attraction?

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld Something attractive, okay face and pretty manicured toes. Okay face and big boobs of big ass. Really pretty face and no ass or boobs. Ugly face and big boobs, big ass, great body. Something

[itsallaroundtheworld]

So you mean, just physical attraction. Does it work the same with the people you see on hookup apps? I mean, does there have to be some sort of attraction to get to have sex with a girl? Why do I have the impression that on hookup apps you bang whoever appears there?

[itsallaroundtheworld]

I mean (relating to the last sentence) people in general.

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld On hookup apps it's a lot harder for the guy for various reasons. Even with that I have denied girls because they didn't have enough features I considered attractive to be able to hook up with them. When I reach Xper 2 probably tomorrow I'll dm you

[itsallaroundtheworld]

Would you name one reason?

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld What exactly do you mean?

[itsallaroundtheworld]

You said on hookup apps it's a lot harder for guys to find attractive girls for various reasons. Am I right? Can you name one reason?

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld Theirs actual statistics about this. Girls are a lot more judgmental then guys on hook up and dating apps. Something like 80 percent of guys are considered unattractive to girls. That's a huge number. For me I would say a majority 50 percent are attractive. 20 percent are very attractive and like 30 percent are unattractive. I get denied all the time don't get me wrong but I would consider myself attractive. Girls are just a lot worse then guys on there. All the girls go for the top 5 to 10 percent those Sam's studies say while guys usually go for girls in their range or just above. We have it harder than y'all

[itsallaroundtheworld]

Well actually most of guys I see on dating apps are not attractive. Or at least don't have good pics of themselves there. I wouldn"t say 80% tbh.

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld What percentage of guys would you say are attractive? 1 out of 10 what would you rate yourself honestly? How many guys have you messaged and how many responses? Be honest okay, sometimes I'll message a 100 girls and get like 5 replies back.

[itsallaroundtheworld]

I would say 40% are attractive. I'm attractive but my fatness has lowered my attractiveness to 6. I never message first. But almost all the guys I have swiped right on, have messaged me and I have replied back. :) I have tried swapping right on girls (curious) even messaging, and none of them ever replied to me or swapped right on me.

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld I hate to tell you this but know a lot of guys that when using those sites they swipe right on every girl. Even if they are ugly they message them just to sleep with them. After they slept with them they either hook up one or two more times then look for a hotter girl that's in their league because they acted like they liked the girl because she was below their standards and just want to use them.

[itsallaroundtheworld]

Well I kind of knew that guys don't care whether she's attractive or not in order to have sex. All she needs to have is a pussy lol.😉 Maybe not everyone is like this. Anyway, so to some attractiveness matters, to others not.

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld what are you looking for?

[itsallaroundtheworld]

What do you mean?

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld In a guy in general

[itsallaroundtheworld]

You mean, what do I like in a guy?

[CuriousQuestions842]

@itsallaroundtheworld yeah what do you look for?

[itsallaroundtheworld]

I like a guy who is kind, understanding, positive, funny, smart, and with a nice smile.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Feeling what? Emotional? Pleasure?

[Asker]

Having feeling for the person your with.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It happens. One can have casual sex with friends with benefits partner (a. k. a. "fuck biddy") without any emotional attachments.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I meant "fuck buddy"

[Asker]

Ah ok.

[spartan55]

Absolutely

[AndreasM96]

Most people do it just to have sex, especially of they haven't done it in a long time, they find someone attractive and go for it. Others are more "romantic" like you, it's not so uncommon either, I'm kinda that way too.

[Glenn603]

I’ve had sex lots of times with girls that I don’t have feelings for

[KrakenAttackin]

Agreed. Hell, I have had sex with girls I can't stand.

[ecfresh]

Technically I could if forced, but I will not without having deep feelings. It’s just cheap otherwise

[Girther10]

Absolutely, assuming you mean no emotional feelings... sex is good for everyone, it’s healthy and normal, do it as much as you can...

[Dargil]

No and wouldn't want to.

[SirRexington]

After doing research on my sexuality I discovered I fit into the "demi-sexual" category. I can only have sex with someone I'm emotionally attracted to. I can be sexually attracted to someone and want to see them naked but I could never have sex with someone I don't know and trust and have at least a moderate amount of emotional attachment to.

[Jamie05rhs]

Same here.

[BillieJean1070]

I’ve done the occasional one-night stand, so I understand your feelings. I’ve justified it by realizing that we’re just two willing and open individuals. I treat it as having the potential of becoming true love. I ensure that we are safely protected by insisting on using a condom. I feel as though I’m giving it a chance to flourish into a future and lasting relationship.

[Asker]

With women it’s different.

[BillieJean1070]

I expect a lot of hate with this comment.

[Asker]

I got lot of that.

[Lily-bardot]

Yes, feelings aren't always the best thing

[AngelLily]

I can't.

[chriscdi]

yea probably but im not planning on doing that

[Rippersavage]

Yes.

[DiegoO]

Surprisingly there are people who do that. They lack honesty.

[theCobbler]

Hell no ! What would even be the point? Other than the obvious = = = $$$$

[Jamie05rhs]

That would never happen. I care too much.

[Clara_]

No, for me it's disgusting without feelings

[Bangeran86]

I don't understand how someyhing can be disgusting one moment and really enjoyable another moment.