Talk with this guy about it. Also take some time to realize that it's your body and as long as its consensual, of age, and no one gets hurt, it's no ones business but yours.
Also if your worried about the slut complex, you can have an "alternate" sex life. Think, "saint in the street, but a freak in the sheets"
Just because you have sex for the first time doesn't mean your instantly going to go wild and screw every male in a 100 mile radius.
You controlled your sexual urges this long, you can absolutely control them again.
Plus it's your sex life and you should live it the way you want. Dont let anyone dictate what is and isn't okay for sex. You are in control of your sex life no one else.
If you talk with this guy about it I'm sure just the idea that he might get sex will get him interested. He'd probably be happy to talk about sex with you.
I wish you a happy sexual awakening.0 0 0 0Definition of slut:
Modern: a promiscuous woman.
Arcane: a prostitute
https://www.dictionary.com/browse/slut
If you choose the modern meaning, then yes, you are if you are promiscuous.
But personally, I stick to the original meaning: a prostitute.
This means a person who offers sex for money.
Hence if you do not take material payment, then you're not a prostitute hence not a slut.0 0 0 0
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You could just accept the fact that the people who told you that are idiots and move on with your life.
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