Guys: Would you be flattered if you knew a girl fantasized about you?

[akihon]

I'd be very flattered regardless of how she looks, if she somehow let me know or let it be known to me then yeah I'd be flattered by it.

Where it would become disturbing then is if I had no attraction to her and she continued to let me know, if be comfortable knowing that it's just a fantasy and if she had done something and I rejected her but she kept the fantasy and kept it to herself then I'd actually have no problems with that whatsoever.

If on the other hand I'd rejected her and she still had the fantasy and still tried to do things to either make something happen between us or make a situation happen where things could go on then yeah that would be disturbing, it would show a psychopathy that I'd really want to have nothing to do with

[Anonymous]

I'd be flattered regardless however it would also depend on her actions. Example if she liked me and I had no interest, yet continued to pursue me and tell me this trying to get me to go out with her or something, that would be a problem and annoying..

[Jaximus-Lion]

Omg... NOoooooo. It becomes so freaking awkward and very uncomfortable. It happened me few times and it all felt so weird plus they all knew am married which it makes everything much worse. That's a hell no for me 👎

[pajamasam]

It does depend on the girl, I can't lie. But I will say even girls I'm not attracted to, just knowing they do fantasize about me is very flattering, I may not be super excited if a girl I'm not attracted to fantasizes about me , but I would still feel flattered.

[rtlm368]

well, that all depends if she is all that and a bag of chips, then yea, In a way i guess it would not matter, cause i'm desirable. i
Its nice to feel that your desired by the opposite. Whats even better is if your single and secretly desired her. Its a win win if she is single too.
but what if you can't live up to expectations? She may hold you up to her fantasies.
\Ok getting off topic. Nothing like getting your ego stroked !

[Finchie40]

Depend on the girl to be honest but I guess even if I wasn’t attracted toward her I still be a little flattered and laugh but it be better if I was attracted toward her cuz wouldn’t mind turning her fantasy into reality lol

[captain_enterprise]

I’d accept the obvious compliment that carries but what I’d do with the information is dependent on the girl doing the fantasising.

[Lynx122]

It would depend on the girl a bit but even if I wasn't into the girl I'd still be a bit flattered :).

[D2theB666]

There's my girl

Funny thing about this picture is that SHE'S the gay one hahaha

[Josue274749347]

If there ever was a girl that thought about me I would feel amazing knowing someone thinks about me (I'm pretty sure no one is attracted to me since I have turned from slim with muscles to chubby since over Time slacked off on working out

[mat_username]

It obviously depends on the girl, but generally yes

[DiscomfortZone]

Ofc I'd be flattered to know a girl finds me attractive and sexual. Probably because I'm not a victim of the feminazis, so I don't find such things to be "violating"

[Dargil]

An unconditional compliment, even if she looks like Rosie O'Donnell.

[fueledbythc]

yeah that would be nice. espeically if i like her too.

if i dont like her id just be flattered and surprised.

[HawkPerception]

Depends on if she's attractive to me or not. If not, it's more disturbing than it is flattering. That's the harsh reality.

[Gibby09]

Because ladies won't come on first in most situations you are into. May put me into shock only happened a few times that it was all-out feet first nut beautiful lol

[anustart]

I know from experience. A girl told me once that she used to be really into me. Even though I was never attracted to her in that way, it still made me feel good, and gave me a massive confidence boost.

[noxius]

I did answer yes, but it does also depend on the girl. But almost always yes.

[BlazinFiresAshNthaB]

No I would be flattered either way doesn't matter which girl That's a great compliment Flattery is Flattery

[RedWings19]

I’d be flattered no matter what. Good looking or not. It’s just like gee thanks. Not like I would have to act on anything, it doesn’t affect me. So yeah I’d actually be flattered, it would make my day

[tslater]

I would first be shocked, then flattered, then I would rewind and say, "wait, but who", then if I don't like her I say, "aw, hell no!" But, if she's a great person then I'm like, "Okie dokie, I'ma ask her out."

[R4vedave]

Yes, extremely flattered. That's one of the reasons I find sexting such a turn on. Knowing someone else I getting off, or enjoying the thought of you, is extremely exciting.

[iFarted]

Sure, itd be somewhat flattering even if I werent attracted to her. As long as she's not creepy about it.

[BoxySama]

😎😎😎

[Meropatrick]

If it was a girl that i dont find attractive still I would be happy and confident. If she told me to my face I would just wink ;p but if she is hot then I would not think she just hit her head too hard that morning

[stormbreaker06]

i'm incel... that would never happen. don't put unrealistic events in my head.

[updog45]

It would be very flattering. As a guy, you dont get many compliments, so that would be huge.

[Twalli]

I would be flattered if any girl did it. I would be turned on if I thought the girl was attractive

[honestGUY45]

I'd be flattered automatically. How I react depends on the girl.

[theCobbler]

Of course who wouldn't be , unless You found the
" Dreamer " to be repulsive?

[Dchrls78104]

That would be a first for me but ultimately it would depend on the girl.

[RHK36]

I don't think it would matter if I was attracted to her or not. It's still flattering that someone has feelings for you, doesn't mean you need to reciprocate or feel guilty about it.