If I don't find cocks appealing, does that mean I could be asexual?

[Anonymous]

[whipitout]

Ok, here's my thinking - dicks are not attractive in general lmao. The associated 'thrill' that may come from seeing one is more about the implication of what could come next, but the dick itself is not a pretty sight. Now, there may be nice looking dicks and ugly dicks, but tbh that's more about what they could do I guess? And it's nice looking relative to the average dick, not relative to a flower, cause then they're much worse lol.

Asexual = don't enjoy having sex/other sexual activities. So it's possible, but if you get turned on when engaging in sexual activities in general, then no.
Demisexual might be something you could look up. It's where you aren't attracted to a person at all until you like them romantically - i. e. you require a romantic attraction to develop a physical attraction.
Sexuality is a spectrum, so you might just fall somewhere different to what you expect.

[ushagomez]

Well they are not great to look at generally, but they have their uses...

[Asker]

Lol 😂

[Passinggas]

I have had some women send me vagina pics and if I am not into her, it does nothing for me. Some didn’t look very good either. As a male, I am assumed to see a woman, get a hard-on and want to f her. Nope, I need to have some overall attraction to her and sense some slight bond before I am turned on by her parts. However, once I am into her, I will crave giving her oral e. g. a lot. I think women simply rely more on that emotional bond part then do men and you haven’t met a man to which you are attracted and there may not be one. I also had an ex that was really or turned (not sure) lesbian and I always sensed something missing with her—not implying you are, no way for me to know. “ I almost dislike them..” It just comes down to if you want someone at all and if you form a bond with someone as to liking body parts, I say.

[whipitout]

Amen 👏

[Chaipa]

If you don't like males attributes, then can we say that you don't like males?
What are the males attributes? penis, balls, sperm, beard, shape? what else? how many of them you like or don't like?
Same question about women. Would you like their tits, pussy, shape etc.
that is how you answer these that you will know your tastes?

[Asker]

I don't really like anything about men, physically speaking, except their arms lol like having them around me. And their chest

[Asker]

Oh and some faces of course

[Chaipa]

some girls can put their arms around you. some girls aven have bigger arms or some muscles.

[Asker]

No that is just yeck, in my opinion.

[Chaipa]

Then you probably don't like men. if you don't like girls neither then you might as well have some psychological issues (maybe chilhood or so) and might want to try a therapy?

[Asker]

Pfft, um no, I don't have any psychological issues.. You haven't heard of asexual?

[Chaipa]

Nop i am not used to this concept. but i believe nature made you to like boys or girls but in any case to stay alone. But if you like nobody perhaps you can be asexual but maybe as well you experienced something that made you disgusted. there is nothing bad to admit to have a psychoclogical issue. we all have in our own ways on different topics.

[Asker]

But on this topic, I certainly do not have a psychological issue.

[Chaipa]

fine 🤷‍♀️ that is all the help i could give you i suppose

[Billy0670]

Asexual means you dont need actual sex to reproduce.
If you dont find the penis appealing, and prefer vaginas more, then yes, you are considered a lesbian.

[msss98]

Cocks are ugly in general lmao

[holidaze]

Yes, in this case it’s function over form. 😂

[Asker]

So you don't get excited by them?

[wankiam]

lots of straight women dont like the look of a penis... thats why so many women dont like porn... the question of your sexuality is a whole other subject... you may be more into girls or just asexual but this really isn't a stand alone indicator

[R4vedave]

Not necessarily. Asexual means you have absolutely no sex drive. You don't get horny, you never think about sex, you don't masturbate, etc.

Just disliking dicks doesn't mean you're asexual

[Dargil]

They aren't designed for beauty, as vulvas also are not. But for some of us, our libido gets us to liking their looks. But not everyone. If the like the pleasure it gives you, you aren't asexual.

[jspl90]

Well just because you dont find the look of them appealing dont mean that you are. i have seen some vaginas that are not appealing to me either so maybe you just dont like the looks you have seen so far maybe you are a lesbian maybe you are asexual who know. Do a thought play think yourself having sex with a man and a woman oral sex and everything which one feels more appealing?

[BeanieCoatman]

well some pussys are absolutely fuckin disgusting and look worse than cocks,
but at no point would i prefer to suck a cock instead

[rab3072]

I'm pretty sure you are not needing to worry if the physical appearance of a penis isn't appealing. Quite a common concept. Quite separate to your actual sexuality and if you would be turned on (or not) in the presence of a guy.

[Pejtu]

Depends on the cock I guess

[Twalli]

No. The penis isn't too attractive. If you enjoy a cock inside of you or you enjoy touching/licking/sucking on it then you are not asexual. Inky if you find everything associated with a penis disgusting is there cause to consider it.

[Asker]

What does inky mean?

[Twalli]

Not sure. I think I accidentally sat on my phone. I don't remember posting this, although I did write it.

[OddBeMe]

You could be lesbian. Or just not feeling it right now.

[FrenchyRomain]

you could be lesbian

[Curiousnesshmmm]

What do you dislike about them?

[beatcoock]

You might be a lesbian

[Anonymous]

You might be a lesbian too

[Anonymous]

there is no such thing as asexual

[Asker]

Says who?

[Anonymous]

Most women say they don't. I guess the question to ask is does the erect penis of a guy you're with turn you on? But a lot of women say they don't like the look of penises, even call them "ugly", which is upsetting lol. Imagine if we called your body ugly?

[Asker]

I'm not with any guy. But the thought turns me off. Maybe if I liked someone a gazillion..

[Opinion Owner]

What about past guys? Someone you were romantically interested in, was it a turn off then?