Do I look like a virgin?

[Alice2398]

The office slut aka my work bestie said that it was obvious my boyfriend was my first as I look like a virgin and give off a virgin vibe. Obviously im not a virgin but we met before I met my boyfriend. All the men at my work agreed. I don't know if I should take that as i look unfuckable or that i have a pure look about me because of my blonde hair and blue eyes and pale skin. I also don't talk about sex much and get embarrassed talking about it too and i have very high morals and dress slightly modest to compared to most girls my age.

[MrOracle]

You're a pretty girl, but you definitely have a "pure and innocent" look about you, and when coupled with more conservative values, speech, and dress, it's easy to see why people would make such an assumption. It has nothing to do with your attractiveness - I imagine most of the men in your office find you attractive. They just don't pursue you because they think they've got no shot at having casual sex with you (which is what most of them would probably be interested in, rather than a relationship), because you seem innocent and very unlikely to have casual sex. In other words, if they thought they could fuck you, they'd be lined up at your desk waiting to hit on you, or at least dreaming of what they would do if they had the balls to get in the line (I'm talking about the married men who wouldn't stray, but occasionally FANTASIZE about straying).

[WalsallGuy90]

I fail to see how anyone can look like a virgin or not. You look amazing (your boyfriend's a lucky guy!) and yes, you do look fairly innocent, but there's no way I or anyone else could determine whether you're a virgin or not from how you look.

I've known people who look incredibly shy and innocent, and act it too, but have been around the block a few times, and I've known people who look like they could have anyone they wanted who have actually been very inexperienced in the bedroom. And that goes for both men and women.

Really, just carry on the way you are, and continue being happy with your boyfriend and don't worry about what other people say. You're fine as you are :)

[Anonymous]

People who say things like 'virgin vibe' are idiots.

Dressing & acting conservatively rather than emulating a prostitute doesn't make someone a virgin. If that was the case every professional/self-respecting woman would be considered a virgin. Nor does blonde & blue eyes. If that was the case every blonde & blue-eyed person would be considered a virgin.

You look young. That's all it is. I'm often confused for being 10 years younger than I am & I'm sure since I can act a bit childish & naive there are people who think I'm a virgin.

[HoratioCaine]

it's mostly your big eyes and facial expression. doe eyes tend to look more innocent while almond eyes are more seductive

[kymberz]

i just see a pure heart? and it is just beautiful! and i thank you for sharing! thank you!

[Jackelray]

Okay the fact that your boyfriend says you look like baby yoda is cute af Hahahaha

i would say they are saying you look innocent and pure, as you have a fairy princess kind of face. (You are very pretty by the way so I doubt they mean your unfuckable lol)

It’s probably more about the way you said you behave and dress tbh and there’s nothing wrong with that.

[BreakingSound]

You do have a sort of modest, innocent look about you.

[Lliam]

It's impossible to tell. Looks can be deceiving. I would never make an assumption. A woman could look sweet and innocent and be an insatiable, orgasmic, sex beast (I mean that in a good way).
by the way, your eyes are amazing. Large eyes do have an innocent quality. Your face is beautiful overall.

[Ceasar97]

I think what they mean is you look cute and innocent. You are right that your blonde hair, blue eyes, and pale skin play a role in your cuteness, but it is also your round cheeks, soft skin, and big eyes. You are far from "unfuckable," just innocent and pure. Due to this soft and pure appearance, it is easy to believe that you are a virgin and "untouched" by the socially unacceptable act or sex.

[cheapshotbob]

your boy friend is right , but yeah you d have that look of someone wh has not seen many dates or had that many guys even if you have the looks hides it well.

[hellionthesagereborn]

That's not a bad thing (for women at least), its a "purity" thing.

[OlderAndWiser]

You look like a porcelain doll!

[pajamasam]

Number 1-- your adorable so guys do find you attractive so dont worry about that.

Number 2--- they are probably commenting more or your personality/fashion style.

[KeziL]

You don't necessarily look like a virgin, but you do look sweet and innocent.

[lightbulb27]

I think you look modest and young.
I would not say virgin, but I don't generally go around trying to figure that out...

I still think you'd make a great actress. you have the look for it...

[SarahsSummer]

What exactly is a virgin supposed to look like?

[Sensmind]

Of course you cannot tell a virgin by looks alone but when you move into stereotypes the rules are bent out of shape. I probably would take what they say as a compliment, you look young and innocent a look may girls want and guys desire. There are many girls like you who are not virgins and many girls who may dress and look "Sexy" who may be virgins or have a very low number of sexual partners,
To your question yes I can see why people said it but do I care, no, it is none of my business, you are happy with your boyfriend whether or not in a physical relationship. Whatever you are comfortable with, society should be saying if you are happy, I am happy

[Interstate]

Save future sex for your marriage and people who criticize you for how you look (especially in regards to stupid matters they are taking notice to about you), you should stand clear of. They are obviously BAD NEWS.

[indian_repunzel]

Virgin is not an abuse like slut. you might not b a virgin but you are a pathetic person calling you office best friend a slut

[Alice2398]

She cheated on her boyfriend with her manger and she calls herself the office slut she's not ashamed of it

[indian_repunzel]

But this question was about you and you could have kept it in a nice manner.

[Alice2398]

She didn't keep her opinion of me in a nice manner and im kinda sick of her treating me as less just because i haven't slept with over 30 men like she so proudly shouts about

[indian_repunzel]

She isn't your frnd then. friends dont insult each other. they stand for them

[Chergar]

She’s right, 2 wrongs don’t make right. Forget about what your friend says. She should not have said something so frivolous to you and perhaps she’s got some guilt issues and needs you to behave like she does so she can feel better about herself.

[Alice2398]

@Chergar that's very true but she calls herself a slut and she is a good friend at times amazing friend but she can also be horrible and self centered at times too and she really made me feel self conscious when she said that and embarrassed me in front of my co workers

[Chergar]

Never be embarrassed about who you are. You’re fine, your beliefs and values are yours. Cherish them.

[Chergar]

You’re also probably better looking than her and she’s got esteem issues. Don’t let it bother you. And yes, you’re attractive but don’t let her push your boundaries.

[Buckzor]

You just look innocent, don't give off a "flirty" vibe (in photos) and people will just assume you're more reserved and want to "wait for the right guy" in regards to sex.

[Jjpayne]

I love your eyes!! You do look pretty innocent but that's a good thing and there is nothing wrong with that

[Jjpayne]

You look very sweet! You can tell your boyfriend he looks like a baby Yoda lol

[WhiteShoulder]

You don't look like a virgin to me

[msss98]

I mean do virgins have a look? 😂 😂

[Alice2398]

Exactly that's what i said

[R4vedave]

You're definitely not "unfuckable" by any stretch of the imagination, they just meant you look innocent.