How would you feel if your daughter came out as a lesbian? And what would you do?

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How would you feel if your daughter came out as a lesbian? And what would you do?
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  • I would hug her and wish her luck finding the right girl for her

  • Congratulate her and give her and her girlfriend a big hug

    How would you feel if your daughter came out as a lesbian? And what would you do?How would you feel if your daughter came out as a lesbian? And what would you do?
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  • we had that discussion way back in high school. She's not but it wouldn't have made any difference just that I would have had to guide her differently since the world is a hard knocks place.

  • Mine did let me know and I told her I was a lesbian to... but I told her really that I loved her no matter what.

  • Tell her she better not become one of those ho lesbians. She better find a cute girlfriend.

  • My daughter did. I just told her that it's not really natural but I support and love her just the same

  • That's the best case scenario. If she's lesbo I ain't worried about her getting pregnant

    • We think same

  • I'd love her regardless. She'd still be my daughter.

  • I'd voice how i felt but in the end it would be her choice, her life, her decision.

    • Her "choice"? Where I come from, people can come out as a sexually inactive homosexual. As in, they don't want to violate their religion, but they want people to understand what they're going through.

    • @meesegoMoo correct, if they actively wanted to pursue what they felt

  • I'd give her a hug and promise my continued everlasting love

  • I don’t care frankly. Just be safe and do what thou wilt.

  • Probably disappointed and strangely aroused?

  • I would be very shocked and a little upset. I wouldn't be mad you can't change what you are it wasn't her decision. I would still love and support her and her friend.

  • Tbh, I'd tell her babygirl I'm happy for you, be comfortable in your sexuality and embrace it

  • Honestly at first I’ll freak out it’ll be unexpected but eventually
    After some time I’ll take her to a father daughter date and try to understand her better and comfort her that no matter what you’ll always be my little princess
    I’ll explain her that parent’s aren’t your enemies, they just need to see things from your side and all you have to do is talk to them and show them the world from your perspective
    Then I’ll lighten up the situation with couple of jokes and make sure that she’s distressed
    We’ll have a good time for sure
    Cause when a person tells a truth that person will feel like he/she has lost 50 pounds

  • Well, as a Christian I would be going by the "love the sinner, hate the sin" rule and I think I would be surprised for a moment, but commend her on being honest cuz I know it's hard to admit bombshells of that size, especially when you're parents are Christians.
    That conversation would have nothing to do with disagreeing with her choice. When you do something that you already know your parents disagree with, the last thing you want is to have a whole conversation about how much they disagree with you and this particular decision is one where you're scared of being banished over.
    I would wrap her up in my arms and I would say, "while many will hate you for your decision, I'm going to love you just as much as I have everyday since the day you were born into my life. I will never turn you away from home for romancing a woman and you will always have a home with me. Nothing will ever change how I love you, my baby girl! I want you to know that. I will pray for you, as I always have and I will always be here for you every step you take in life until I'm gone." Then perhaps I kiss her forehead and say again, "I love you."
    That's probably the shorthand of how I imagine that might go. So much of the church would reject her for that and I want to show her the Lord's love as fully as I personally can, that no matter what happens I will still love her, I'd show the same sort of love to a son if he came out as gay to me. I expect my kids will do things that I won't agree with and will take paths in life that I won't like and will take different stances on things than I do. That does not mean I will react with anger and kick them to the curb cuz that's not love, I'm gonna be there every step of the way loving them as best as I can.

  • I wouldn't mind it. Id support her

  • Idc go do you

  • There wouldn't be anything I could do it's a birth defect and we haven't bothered to study it to find a treatment or to prevent it. I'd have to warn her about the communists that prey on homosexuals and hope for the best. Hope she didn't hook up with some communist girl and start hanging around with her and her friends causing trouble

  • Some people re just born like that and have a deviant behavior. It's just not possible to change it. So I think as long as she enjoys her life and does not hurt someone, that is good enough already. Life is just a matter of choice.

  • id say why did u make that decisision, is there a lesbian club in school that u wanted to feel apart of?
    BUT , if no one influenced her to be a lesbian and she jus wanted to be cos she finds girls hot and guys not, then id jus say ok sure, go ahead do ur thing

  • Well...
    First she has to give a few men try..
    Second if she has found a good girl to be with..
    She has to have kids..
    Rest is alright

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