Option C which is dear me? i really want to participate in your posts but sometimes they get me spinning like aurosonic and i only recently met them? kind of like you? and no i don't like slow can we speed it up pleez? and you know that i think the world of you! and Moonchild and zebra! and so many are helping me on this site! and one guy asked if i was stoned and i really wish? but what was the question? i think the answer is yes? and you don't even want to hear my take on when they beat it off on your face and then lick it up? and deep french kiss you like it's 2159? yo dude. true story!
My boyfriend prefers to give than receive. He's happy to go down on me any day but no matter how much I beg he won't let me go down on him. Believe it or not, some guys just don't like it... not because I'm awful at it, I'm really passionate about it and we've tried every technique in the book! To tell you the truth I don't get that jazzed about receiving either, I won't say no and it does feel great... I just prefer normal sex. So, I could completely live without it, I do miss giving it a lot though haha.
Oral is personal. :-) You may want to start transit slowly from foreplay into giving oral sex on him just to let him feel it. And talk openly with him about it.
Try this - just start telling him how much you love his penis, and how beautiful you think his penis is. Spend time admiring it and caressing it. Eventually he will let you put his penis in your mouth just for your own pleasure - because he'll know you're really enjoying yourself and he wants to please you.
A... A... and... A... :)
And... the pic for option B should be considered sexual blaspheme! lol
I do understand some folks are not into oral - either giving or receiving or both - and of course that is cool - but I do think it would be a major incompatibility problem if the other person was into it.
A younger me would likely not say this but I would be good with someone who wasn't into giving but did like receiving as the later is awesomely enjoyable and to me giving of pleasure is immensely satisfying :)
Just had a follow-up thought for this.. one the first date... be a good idea for the guy to wear this t shirt just to make sure compatibility is ok :) 
And she can wear a shirt that says eat me 😂😂
Of course! If they end up getting married, be a heck of a story when tell kids and grandkids etc of their first date... lol :)
I'm totally fine if my partner doesn't want to receive oral. I'll gladly do it for her if she wants it.
Receiving oral from a woman is a wonderful gift. Something I particularly enjoy is fucking her to near completion and then getting sucked and tongued as I explode between her lips. But if she doesn't like giving oral, I can live without it as long as she is an insatiable, orgasmic, fuck monster. In that case, I'll choose pussy any day. But women like that don't have inhibitions about sucking cock.
Very good, and graphic answer 🙂
awesome answer :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes. It's not a balanced situation. I want/demand it but don't like to give it. I make it up to her in other ways and she seems quite happy with the arrangement.
That's s great compromise.👍🙂
Thanks.
No licking pussy? That is very one-sided then. Oral sex is personal, while vaginal penetration is intimate. Please give her the pleasure back, most women go to bed with males because of they want to be licked.
I have to give blowjobs everyday or at least most days... it's sort of religious or spiritual for me... dim lite room with candles and i'm on my knees sucking for awhile... maybe giving a 2nd or 3rd blowjob if time allows... I couldn't be with someone who didn't like them... and i'm not much into receiving the equivalent I can take or leave it.
Wanna miss multiple orgasms and squirting (can be done otherwise, of course)? Hmm, I would for sure miss licking her pussy a lot.
Tell them to wash properly inside out..
I'm really surprised with some of the guys answers on here! Within my girlfriend group, the guys we know oral is very important to them & a deal breaker, yet it's 50/50 about them giving 😐 maybe I'm living in the wrong country! Lol
Lol funny. What country do you live in?
Australia
Oh ok cool. So they like their BJ's in Australia lol
I don’t particularly like receiving head, but I very much enjoy going down on a woman. Although it wouldn’t be a deal breaker, I think it would be pretty sexually unfulfilled if I couldn’t regular go down on my woman tbh
Its not a must to receive but it is a must for me to give if i find his dick yummy looking. Like i’d be pissed if he didn't let me suck it. But its not a dealbreaker
Oh haha sounds great... Just reading this is making me... Feel..
@Realdude_prince haha
I bet you have the best pussy 😉😘💦💦
If she absolutely refuses anything oral, then I guess I would be fine with it.
That's cool
This comes down to the emotional connection. When both partners feel the love of giving and receiving, the trust. It can work out when guided, work through it with love and patient. Understnad the reason (s) behind it.
It took some time, but it worked out. I was shock the day he wanted to give so passionately and lovingly.
It's a must for me to give oral to her.
But not a big fan of her giving oral to me
It is each couples choice and you have to respect each others wishes. I enjoy giving and receiving... although I still love handjobs also in addition to sex. How bout you?
If the sex itself is really awesome, then not a real breaker. But if not, then a must 🙂
* deal
This seems very familiar, like I answered this before. . .
I LOVE going down on her, when I am with a lady, but I don't want her to think she has to do anything oral, with me.
I LOVE kissing, and teasing her, all over when I am with her, but never want to taste 'dick' with that wonderful kiss!! If she doesn't want to do that, OK, no problem, and I won't miss it!
I love giving and receiving it so yeah it's a total dealbreaker for me
as it should be. A 2 way street and mutually satisfactual
@ravenengr yesss I think it's so weird that some people aren't into it. It seems like a natural part of sex to me
Right agree with both of you 👍👍🙂
I'd be fine either way. It's all up to her
Aww🙂
Yeah it is a deal breaker for me.
Which ways if I may ask? Receiving, giving or both?
Both
Same here. Still I won't demand anything from her, just kindly ask her to lick her pussy and welcome her if she likes to give me a blowjob/Fellatio back as long as it comes from her heart.
Vital
🙂 right?
Need it 😊
69 oldie but goodie 🙂
It is a dealbreaker for me if he won't give it. I have a me first policy
Licking pussy is awesome 😍😋
Good girl wanting to be licked! :-)
If she didn't do oral that would mean we wouldn't be sexually compatible. That wouldn't mean there was anything wrong with her aversion to it (at least not necessarily) but just that we would be too different when it came to sexual expression.
I get what you mean
Same here, major deal-breaker, because I would miss it to much and we won't be compatible.
It's not a dealbreaker, but it would be a real downer
Lol right
depends on her reason for not wanting to.
So if she had a valid reason, you'd be ok with it then? If so, that's sweet
ya like a bad past experience or something like that. there are other ways to get a woman horny if you know how. and with a bit of lube or her really wet even. don't need her to do oral if she not willing.
That's nice
Don't know how to vote.
Essential for me to give. Optional to receive, so long as there is an alternative to fellatio that is still all about me.
I really luv giving I don't care about getting. I find that I have a hard time getting off that way I have gotten lots of head but only one girl has gotten me off. I would rather be the one giving it I will get so excited and turned on by her cuming and I usually don't get enough of it. I have a thing that the lady always cums first and foremost and I will try to make her cum again.
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