Compared to physically masturbating, how do you rate the pleasure of being very sexually aroused (but not touching yourself/being physically touched)?

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[Herbie_Otch]

It depends on the way that you're aroused, in my opinion, but I personally get a lot of pleasure from being aroused by my wife, either with no physical stimulation while she gets off, or with physical stimulation that stops before I reach climax.

My situation is probably fairly rate, though. I'm fairly submissive, sexually speaking, and my wife recognizes that we both like my behavior better when I don't frequently reach orgasm (even if it frustrates me) so she keeps me locked in a chastity device and has full control of my orgasms.

I've always felt a little bit let down after masturbation, and sometimes even a slight touch of shame or guilt. It's not that I think it shouldn't be done, just more that I could have been more focused on being a productive, a more giving partner, etc.

On rare occasions, when my wife has gotten me to a high enough state of arousal, and then we bring her to a powerful enough orgasm, I've come right along asking with her with no physical stimulation to my caged genitalia whatsoever.

Sorry if that's more information than anyone is looking to read. The point is that I acknowledge I'm probably not representative of the average guy on here, but I can get plenty of pleasure from arousal without having (or being permitted) to masturbate.

[broken_heart_at_48]

I'd say if my choices are rubbing one out or getting worked up and no happy ending I'm rubbing one out for sure I mean whose wants to go to the strip club then go home and not have an old lady to work over and just go to sleep I guess it happens but if I'm getting worked up I'm finishing the job

[Anonymous]

To be honest, I find being very sexually aroused much more pleasurable than masturbating.
I love sitting there and feeling the pleasure spread from my stomach to all parts of my body. There's nothing better than that to me.

[mld_97]

i agree completely.

[wisefool]

i'm interested to know more about this.

[summiter]

While it has hapened I usually like masturbation (or sex for that matter) way more

[dany018]

Frustrating to say the least.

[quizz]

Anticipation can be extremely pleasurable

[leonidas69]

Zero

[gagsucs]

well,,,,,,,,,,, when iv been watching porn for hours im so horny and hard... n then i start jerking... it feels like shit,,,, so brain/ visual hornyness can be more strong than the touch sensation

[Mroz75]

You should win the award of the most sexual questions asked!

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not pleasurable, but it is exciting.

[Ianto]

Being aroused, without the prospect of fulfillment is not a pleasurable experience. It is frustrating and can become uncomfortable.

[justunlh]

I wanna fuck. And we are romantic but just being aeml

[abbey11]

No problem

[clampfan101]

It’s kind of like not being able to reach an itch...

[oldermale]

Even hotter if unable to touch myself, hands tied etc

[Kinky_Mo]

for me wearing some lace panties is the sexiest thing !

[HelenJacob]

Almost as pleasurable

[RebeccaSJ]

Almost as pleasurable.

[anzgaupel]

It makes a diferance what your have on where you are and what your doing like say church wow great way to meet a woman dress slacks dark color she is sitting me standing just great as exposed to a gay really you wandered into following what you thought was a very sexy woman just to find she is a he and your not gay but still there it is

[Slate69]

Can be intense if done right

[Plitty-Tank]

Arousals are about 72% as pleasurable as masturbation.

[Mike9449]

Irritating

[Misterboombastic]

To the point were I have to do something

[tipofmytung]

Being a highly perverted… I can turn most comments into something sexual, or sexually referenced. In my head and or sometimes say them out loud. Thinking sexual all day I seem to be aroused consistently. Unfortunately masterbating (sometimes longer than an hour alone) is the only recourse to satisfy the need, or nothing else does.