Does a man with a preference for doggy style want to impersonalize sex and not see his partner’s face or is there another reason?

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@Lliam Now that’s hot! Sounds like sweet talk to me! Omgosh. You’re giving me a sex high! 😍
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@Romeocuck Not with that username lol. The “cuck” part says you’re a submissive and I prefer male dominant sex... he can be a little bit o’ pig but he’s got to have a kind heart, keep me happy and safe and be playful. Lol Is that too much to ask?
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  • It implies a position of dominance. Some men like that, and some women like to be in a submissive position. I've had partners that just say it "hits the right spot", which I can't describe because I'm not the woman. I can say that you can be rougher and that is often pleasure for both. It also seems to me women become tighter in that position, probably because of the way pelvic muscles arrange then.

    Personally, when she turns around and looks, it is very hot. So the reason in the question is not one for me.

  • I think there is a good-sized subset of doggy-style lovers who like it for that reason, but plenty of others who like it because it's male-dominant, because they love asses, or because that's the position that's easiest for them to thrust or cum. Oh, and there are tons of women who prefer doggy-style as well.

    Myself personally, it's a position I like but it's not a "favorite".

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  • No. I mean if you don't know him maybe but if you are dating or married no. It's a sit back and enjoy to some extent for the woman.

    • It’s my ex husband I might be getting back together with who loved doggy when we were married and looking forward to it again.

  • He may but there are other reasons, predominantly, it feels good... for both.

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  • No I don’t think so. i find it a more comfortable position in general tbh

    usually it’s a sign of a sexually dominant person, also some guys just wanna see the girls ass why they are having sex.
    it also allows for deeper penetration and better stimulation of the g spot often.
    Having said that it shouldn’t be the only position you do I don’t think. It’s good to lock your lover in the eyes sometimes 😂

  • That ain't it at all. The visuals of doggy style are absolutely lovely. The only thing missing is a full view of her tits. Plus, snuggling right up between those soft, jiggly butt cheeks as you plunge into her feels amazing.

    • Thanks. So you get an exciting visual of the “drag” going in and out? I’ve never actually seen that. I’d need a mirror. Lol

    • No, it's not that either. Okay, maybe partially. What I'm talking about is the architecture of a woman's back, especially when she is bent over with her knees apart. First there is her relatively lean back: shoulders, shoulder blades, tapered rib cage, dimples on her lower back to either side of a ravine along her spine. Then there are her hips flaring widely from her waist. From the man's perspective, her waist and back recede into the distance and look even smaller compared to her wide ass. And that wide ass is what it's all about. Wide, in this sense, is an extreme compliment. She doesn't have to be as broad as an ax handle. She could have a 34" waist, but her ass is still round and fat in relation to her waist. And that's what we're looking for. It's the inverted heart-shape formed by her hips and ass. There are the soft creases where her thighs meet her hips. Her round thighs look thin when spread out in this position. The natural fat of her ass butts up against her lean back to form bulges. And boy does that shit slosh and jiggle. A guy really enjoys gripping her hips and bumping hard against those pillows. I won't go into detail of the sight of her labia and vagina from that angle, but it's wonderful. Even though the couple can't gaze into each other's eyes from that angle, it's not about being impersonal. It's just one of many positions that make sex joyful.

    • Thanks! It can feel a bit “out there”, vulnerable and embarrassing, for the woman, hoping the view is attractive to her partner. Lol I feel really exposed, especially in daylight. I don’t have any special attributes, except desire and sensuality, but it seems like I get more than my fair share of doggy style aficionados. They do kiss me long and slow first tho, and try to make it a friends with benefits thing, but I want a long-term relationship.

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  • More just fascination with seeing her booty. I like eye contact too.

  • Doggie style is a good position for men that they can have sex and hold/control the woman and the rhythm of it for better sensation

  • That seems a very extreme interpretation of preference for a sexual position. There are things he probably likes about the position but he could be the tenderest guy in the world with tons of kissing/eye contact foreplay and aftercare. If you are with a guy who you feel is excessively into doggy or behind positions, tell him you want to switch it up with face to face/eye contact, you on top to make the lovemaking more personal/connective for you.

  • Just turn your head.

  • Actually I only started doing it doggy because my partner liked how deep I could go that way and always experienced great orgasms that way. If anything it drew us closer and absolutely nothing to do with sexual Impersonalization.

  • I think, to some extent, yes. It simulates rape.
    One exception is for a guy with an upward curved, long penis. Doggy directs him into the deep pocket.

  • I just love watching her ass bounce while I fuck her, its nothing to do with not wanting to see her face whatsoever

  • Maybe because he thinks it as a symbol of dominance.

  • you can see the booty clap

    • What’s a booty clap?

    • you know when the guy rams doggystyle and it makes noise? well in doggystyle you can see the booty clap lol

  • Doggy style is actually very personal if you think about it. It takes a lot of trust to let someone enter you from behind.

    • Interesting. I see now from everyone’s replies that I was thinking of it from a woman’s perspective. I knew you guys would enlighten me. I’m always trying to be a better partner for a man, so all this personal info helps a lot. Thanks. Now I just need a partner!

    • Thanks. I'm glad I was able to help.

    • will you consider me as a partner? ;)

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  • The back and ass of a woman is extremely attractive to look at.

  • Have heard some women claim that it is the ultimate position for sexual satisfaction for a lot of them.
    Maybe the guy wants to pleasure his lover.

    • I don’t see how it could be the ultimate for female sexual satisfaction. It doesn’t come anywhere near rubbing the right place in the right way

    • OK. I can see it your way about being impersonal. Find a stranger, bend her over and do the deed and never know what her face looked like.

  • Possibly but it’s not a big deal. How does he treat you the 99% of the time you’re not having sex? Just having satisfying sex is enough. Trust me.

  • I don’t care much for doggy but many women prefer it as it makes them cum really hard.

    • I don’t see how. It doesn’t rub the right place in the right way. On top, riding, works best for me and I can control the rhythm to get to the goal.

    • I totally agree with you. When she rides my cock, I can see her full upper body, suck her nipples as she rides, rub her clit and see her face when she cums. We would make a good team. Just ride hard!

    • My favorite is man on top, legs up by my ears so I can’t move and can barely breathe! It feels like he’s wrapped all around me and call me old-fashioned, but for those few moments, I have no stress or worries and feel like the man is going to make everything ok. Sure, its just an illusion, but it’s a sexual healing illusion I need after too many years without a man’s touch. I’m not desperate tho.

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  • I think it’s more about the stimulation, it feels different in doggy style plus you get the visual stimulation of her back, shoulders, and butt.

  • Doggy style is just fun. You can get deeper in the position as well as leave room for hair pulling, back scratching, spanking, flogging, choking, pulling the arms back and all other things.

  • no, not at all... I love doggy style and I loved my ex for me its just another sexy position which allow me to see her sexy butt while making love to her the same goes for reverse cowgirl