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Do you care about body count why or why not (yes the person gets checked)?

My number is high not that I’ve been questioned a lot because most guys don’t expect it just because of how I portray myself I guess I don't know. I’ve never lied but by the time the question is asked it’s just accepted although I know some guys wouldn’t accept it. I also went through a phase after college of just being with random guys because it was more exciting. Anyways I’ve calmed down... for the most part. I’ve never cared about it just as long as they got checked and were clean.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • "Body count" is a tricky subject, and so is testing validity. STD'S can take one week to 3 months to show symptoms, OR some people are asymptomatic and end up being carriers. HIV can take years to show up. Don't believe it? Look it up.

    Let's say you meet a guy and he produces the results of a test he took 3 days ago and he shows up negative for everything. So you ask "how long ago were your last 3 sexual encounters with different people", and he says "5 days ago, a month ago, two months ago". So what do you REALLY know at this point? Not much, except that he hasn't shown symptoms of anything from the last two months. You know nothing about the one from 5 days ago yet.

    Bottom line is even with testing, you're still at risk.

    • Yea I get it... well I make guys use condoms anyways unless were in a relationship

    • Condoms reduce the risk, and it's better than nothing, but they are not a guarantee. It's a jungle out there.

  • Well, I don't believe in casual sex and I believe that physical intimacy is a serious matter.
    And I expect a potential partner to share my views, of course.

    So, yes. Body count is important to me but so is the nature of a person's "experiences".
    If they had sex with someone outside of a serious committed relationship, that's already a deal-breaker for me.

    Similarly, if they claim to have had over 5 "serious and committed partners" I'm going to question their behavior.
    If you make the same mistake 5 times in a row, your judgement is probably not what you claim it to be.

Most Helpful Girl

  • If I was into dating, this would be one of my main issue.

    First and foremost, my health and life are way too precious to me to want to jeopardize it with someone with a very high risk of STI/STD and second, I don't feel like being just another body count, target of a guy that solely sees women as pieces of meat or a trophy.

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  • I've never cared about that with a women but if she has been with a lot of men I say hell I've been with so many girls I guess we're just good like that and start fucking,

    • That's cool for a fuck buddy, but not for the mother of your children.

    • People can change 🤣🤣

  • mines high but im not bothered either way if a partners is high or low... we all have a past and thats what makes us who we are today but numbers are just numbers

  • Ya it matters because the girl doesn't give a shit she's just some thot. Disease is an issue to.

    • Oh wow Thot huh? I know a girl who had 2 partners and got herpes only dated 2 guys and one gave her genital herpes. So it’s not about numbers it’s about being safe and using protection regardless and getting tested. But you keep saying that

    • I sure will, I'll keep thinking that too, as will others. I'll keep spreading the idea as well.

    • Lol you do that just how there are others that agree with me

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  • Nope.

  • Yes of course

    • Well since you said yes can you explain more or say like what’s the max I hope it’s not like 1

    • No more than 2 partners

    • How many partners have you had...

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  • Yeah; I care. But my opinion is irrelevant to your situation because you're already lived your life and you are who you are. Also, plenty of other guys do not care. So I say to each their own.

  • I do; sorry, I don't tread beaten paths.

  • Never even asked that question doesn't bother me.

  • Yes. You can't turn a whore into a housewife.

    • In 2020 never say never

    • You say you have "calmed down", but it tells me that you will always hunger for strange cock. Your past will come out over time, especially if you are with one man for any length of time. Your photos of all the guys you fucked, your GF's who will eventually let out clues about how many guys you fucked, even your family. A high body count is always a really unattractive thing to a man. We want to think there is something special about our woman, something unique that we are the only ones who understand. When we find out a girl has had a thousand cocks in her, she completely loses being "special" and is now just another whore. Sorry, this is rough, but it is how I see it.

    • No one knows I’m a private person and i have no issues. What I do with my pussy is my business anyways. I’ve dated guys that are like me and it was fine... guys like you we wouldn’t be a match pretty simple

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  • Nope. How you express and enjoy your sexuality is up to you, who am I to judge you for enjoying yourself.

  • Body count does not bother me at all

  • I've never killed anybody. SO my body count is 0.

    • Lolll same

  • I honestly prefer a woman with a high body count

  • Yeah. It's just an unattractive quality.

    Sure, STDs are trouble and all, but that's not even the reason. I think a lot of people talk like it is, but it's obviously it's deeper than that. It's simply an unattractive thing for a lot of people, guys in particular. It's like if you have a unattractive face, or smell bad, or have annoying mannerisms or personality. It's just gross and a turn off in the same way as those things.

    • Most guys don’t know so I really don’t get that? I guess

    • There's lots of things you don't know about someone when you meet them, and there's plenty of things you could learn about someone that makes them unattractive. I'm not saying "I'll know" but I'm saying if I learn that then it'll going to be off-putting.

    • Yea I understand

  • Yes, high body count bothers me. I don't respect people who sleep around indiscriminately. I don't expect a virgin, it's fine if she has had sex in committed relationships, but lost of casual sex with random guys is a red flag for me about her personality.

  • Your partner doesn’t need to know your body count regardless if it is low or high as long as they are clean from STD’s that’s all that should matter

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