Insecure about my size. Will a girl like me for that?

Hey, everyone, this is my first time posting on here. As you can see by the title it explains it all. I'm an average size guy (5.1 inches) and I'm really insecure about this. My question is, is there a chance for me to meet someone who can look past that? I'm very inexperienced in the dating realm and sex. If someone could give me some advice that would be greatly appreciated.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • For a very large number number of girls in the world, size does not matter at all.

    What is more important is how the owner of the "size" is able to go about with his appendage.

    A very large number of guys that rely on a monster penis of 6'' do not really know how to master their penile attribute. They rely solely on the wow factor of their penis and the effect it could possibly have on girls but have actually little control over it.

    On the other hand, a guy with a smaller penis, let's say ranging from 4'' to 4.5'' knows that he has to to do an outstanding performance in order to impress.

    I am not personally interested in those penile attributes, but if I was, I would much rather prefer a guy with a small appendage but that really is master of it and has the proficiency and knowledge to use it to the full satisfaction of a lady.

    I always say to those penis size question that it is much better to have a small one that wiggles than a bigger that sleeps on the job.

    Many people, if not most, feel that the manly penile display in porn clips is the standard to go by, which is erroneous.

    But men have always been made aware that in order to be "men", they needed to be well endowed.

    What about personality, character or the internal beauty of a person? Are those attributes all disregarded in favor of a penis size? Are we really that vain to reduce a gender to their outer appearances?

    • To the questions that you posted at the end. I agree. Personally, I don't really care for any flaws that my significant other has because I want them to know I love them for them. Perhaps social media and pornography have messed up my head. I'm worried that what if my future partner won't be satisfied with what I have.

    • Pornography has not only messed up your head but the heads of the entire society. People believe what is shown on those clips and fail to realize (or want to realize) that those clips are not the reflection of what is happening in real life.

    • You're right.

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  • small penis guys are undesirable when they are self conscious about their size not because of their size.

    so if you don't let your penis size define you but your actions you will be fine.

    • Thanks for your honesty

Most Helpful Guys

  • For your comfort. Most women prefer average, a few rather the big D, and a minority really wants a D'Zilla. Calm down, you are ok. Never compare yoursf to what porn promotes 👍

    • With an average size, they can enjoy a quickie. Bigger dicks can't do that favour for them. Having an average penis is like owning a Swiss army knife.

    • Thanks man. Cheered me up. I’ll keep working on my confidence.

  • Not all women are size queens. In fact there are women who prefer average because anything big hurts.

    • You're more than likely right. Porn has f*cked up my head, unfortunately.

    • Even some porn stars will admit they don't like the big dick guys. But the main reason the don't use average size guys is because it looks better on camera.

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  • It's entirely possible to find a girl who won't care about size. It's all about how you use it and chemistry, not size.

    • Lots of women say it's all about how a guy "uses it." What exactly does that mean? How do women want a guy to "use it" to please them?

    • @Steve37 I keep asking the same question and no one will answer it. :(

  • The average size when errect is 5 inches. If you know how to use it and you're good in bed then you shouldn't feel insecure

    • In your experiences, how would be the best way for a guy to be good in bed and know how to use his dick?

  • You're bigger than me!

  • If women could look past a guy being average sized, half the population wouldn't ever get laid.

  • No women will lie about it but they need a big dick filling them or they will leave you in search for a real man.