Guys do you prefer dominant or submissve women?

I'm talking about in and outside the bedroom so you can answer for both ways.
Guys do you prefer dominant or submissve women?
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Guys do you prefer dominant or submissve women?
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  • I like today’s women so much more than earlier stereotypes. They are much more independent minded and able to stand up for what they want.

    That does not mean I want a dominant woman who demands everything from a guy, just as I guy should not demand everything from a lady. Relationships should be mutual.

    In the bedroom I like it when a lady takes the initiative and tells what she wants that night. And I like it when she allows me to do the things I want on nights. What happens then is that we both know more about turning each other on. That becomes powerful sex!

    • So Cindy! Enlighten us. What is your preference

    • I don't like women like that lol

    • Sorry Confused by your response. You don’t like women like that

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  • Do you mean she will either be dominant both in and out of the bedroom, or submissive in both? Or do you mean she could be dominant in one and submissive in the other?

    I'd like her to be submissive outside the bedroom when it came to making important decisions for our home/family/kids/etc. but dominant in the bedroom.

    • yes to second

Most Helpful Girls

  • I know that most guys secretly prefer dominant women, but the one in your poll picture is most likely not dominant, she has a cross around her neck, religious women are mostly submissive because they were indoctrinated by patriarchal religion (judeo-christian-islamic).

    • Thank you for MHO

  • I'll occasionally switch but I prefer being the one in charge of everything. I dont give up control easily it has to be with the right person and in the right moment

    • I had a controlling/dominant woman and it ended in a confluence, a mixture of areas where boundaries don't exist anymore or very weak. It was a reason why our marriage broke apart.

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  • Not dominant, but that's it. If a woman went along with every little thing I said or did I would respect her less. I'd want somebody who can speak their mind and give reasons as to why they disagree with me. I rather be won over than ordered. And I'd rather lead than be followed.

  • I'm a bit more spirited OUTSIDE the bedroom, but I like a man I balance with, with a fairly strong personality, as I have the same. He has to hold his own all around.

  • I don't think I'd use the word dominant but I like women who are strong and intelligent, the sort who can debate you about something and one of you can admit you're wrong and you crack on with life instead of it being an argument. But then it's much hotter if that same strong lady is submissive in bed, I don't see much appeal in someone submissive all the time, but to suddenly be in total control over someone who in every other aspect in life would never allow it is super hot.

  • I don't want a domineering woman but I do want a woman who is not too shy to tell me what she wants.

  • Of course everyone has their own tastes , mine would be very submissive in the bedroom outside it slightly different I like women to grow with me, to trust me to have the confidence to be themselves outside the bedroom , a benign dominance kinda be totally yourself but with me as a safety net in the background to keep them safe and loved.

  • Something in between, but I would rather choose a very dominant partner over a very submissive one.
    And when I say that, I'm talking about overall conduct and attitude, not power roles.
    If someone genuinely expects to exercise control over their partner or expects their partner to exercise control over them, that's a little "out there" for me.
    I'm more into sensible, mature people who don't feel the need to compensate for whatever maladjustments that they may have.

  • I prefer a woman who knows how to lead and how to follow, in certain areas. I much prefer to lead in some areas, but know I can't do that very well in others. Someone who can match me in that is good because then I can lead where she can't and vice versa. I'm not incapable of leading but I'm not above following either. I'd prefer her to be the same.

  • I'd say outside, submissive but here's the reason why, I'd like our relationship to be more senisitive and submissive to each other equal to each other. A dominant woman would be fun but she could also be demanding and unwilling as a result. I'd like a submissive girl but in another way an easy going girl. That is chill. But in the bedroom dominant is so sexy

    • That sounds like a good plan!

  • I just like strong woman.

  • Dominate. Which is weird because I’m also dominant. I like those bad girls though. She curses, could kick my ass but chooses not to.

    • That is DEFINITELY me... Though I'm small, Im feisty... I need a feisty man too. I don't mind a little quieter and shyer than me, but he can't mind my strong, big personality. It can't overshadow him, however. He has to have his own, quiet strength that I respect...

    • And that doesn't threaten him..

  • Like submissive out of bedroom but Dom in bedroom

  • Passionate invested.

  • I prefer women who are mostly submissive when it comes to sex but who sometimes switch to being dominant. It's nice to switch things up sometimes.

  • I prefer a woman who is either submissive or on an equal with me vs. Dominant.

  • blend

  • Dominant, I like women who tend to take control in any situation. (Especially if she doesn't ask!😊)

  • I'm a switch, and I want my woman to be too, but it's so much easier for a dominant woman to be submissive than a submissive one to be dominant.

  • My wife is submissive in bed. Equal in our marriage. Totally dominant at work it seems like nobody at her job goes to the bathroom without her permission. I love all three of her.

  • I'm happy to let a woman drive the bed, in fact it's nice not to have to lead all the time. Dont care for being commanded outside the bed tho.

  • I prefer submissive girls, I’d butt heads too much with a dominant woman 😛

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