How do I convince my boyfriend he's not going to hurt me durning sex?

Question

He is really strong and like twice my weight. It's super sweet he is gental but I want it rougher.

Answer 1

Xper 1

I've been there and it's hard for him, I think what would have worked for me to loosen up a bit about that is you gotta take a little control at first, you get on top that way you can set the pace, lead by example and I think you'll see that you'll get the wild ride you want without him feeling tense about hurting you, show him what you mean and he'll come around, loo

Answer 2

ecfresh | 4.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Do it in stages, or ask him to start at 50% intensity and then try 60%. Be sure to be vocal, use your words, and tell him how you feel each time he goes harder. Ideally he will hit one hundred percent and then you will hit a mind blowing orgasm.

Answer 3

ZackBan | 921 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Just ride him and show him just how much you can take.
If he's still hesitant get him a little bit angry. Tease him if you have to but don't go too far and he'll unleash the lion