Is it cheating? I want honest answers please?

A couple of days ago a girl texted me "hi" on an app. Then we talked hardly a little and she started to send me her pics. ( Not nude) . And she asked me what i wanted to do her. Tbh i wasn't interested in her body or whatsoever. (I even have a girlfriend. ) I was skeptical of her i thought she could be a guy. So i fakely wrote i want to kiss you etc etc. She asked me to shake my cock and cum. Which i falsely said i did cum talking to you. During the course tbh i too went a bit horny but then i tried to break the chain and talked normally on common topics. I found the girl to be intelligent and wanted to talk to her on those topics and not sexually. It was clear , she wanted me to praise her so it end it i tried to seduce her as fast as i could do ( i was not interested in it tbh ). It was just i wanted a normal convo later. She had her orgasm later. I thought it is done and now ee can normally talked. And during this she many a times asked me to shake my dick and ejaculate. I tried once or twice but did not feel to do it. And the main problem is i have a girlfriend and i am not feeling good now i have some serious anxiety going on. Can someone tell me was it cheating?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I would say it's cheating. You texted sexually with another girl (if it really was a girl) .

    If you're not interest, then don't do it. Just block the person next time. There are many people on the internet up for just a casual talk. You don't have to go through this just for a normal convo.

  • If you think you shouldn’t do it; don’t do it.

    I personally think that’s cheating, and you shouldn’t do that. Not to mention you’re harming your own mental health.

    • But i wasn't interested in her tbh

    • It doesn’t matter if you weren’t interested. That’s like saying, “I had sex with this girl behind my girlfriends back but I wasn’t interested in her so it’s fine.” No it’s not, your interest doesn’t justify it. If you engage or discuss sexual activity in that manner it’s cheating. And I don’t mean as in talking to a friend about jacking off or habits, I mean sexting. Sexting is cheating. I’m not gonna sugar coat it dude.

    • Alright. I am a dick 😫

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Those type of texts are from scammers trying to get money or something from you. Take that pic she sent you and do a reverse photo search on it... guarantee you that's a pic of someone else (usually a fully clothed porn star) and they try to pass it off as them... seen it 100 times

  • You actually was looking for a quickly you found it and now you regretted it, the results is you cheated.

    • I had no sexual stimulation even when i was chatting with her

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  • You never were in a position ever have to talk to her.

    • I don't get you

  • probably

    • I wasn't interested sexually. Just wanted a normal chat.

    • yeah but you couldve talked to someone else not some catfish online

    • I seeked attention maybe 😥

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  • You didn't roll with that vibe, if you had promoted the sexual convo, then it would be more serious, just don't think about it it's not going to help your real relationship.

  • Sounds like a lie to me. I don’t thinks she texted you and said that at all tbh

  • whether you want to consider it cheating or not, it was mot right of you to do

    • I know n i am really feeling sorry for it. But i had no sexual stimulation then. I wanted to get over her talks and then chat