Not so much media and art, but I suppose I am more influenced in terms of my sexual ideas, and what I find very sexually exciting, as closer to the realm of "erotic" than "pornographic". Perhaps I was influenced more by steamy R-rated sex scenes in films over pornography as I was exposed to that more in the earlier stages.
I'm also kind of averse to the most pornographic types of conversations. I was never into sexting, for example, and I prefer to leave such things as "wet pussies" and "throbbing dicks" in the background compared to appreciating the beauty of a woman as a whole, not just "tits" and "ass" and such, and chemistry and connection in sexual contexts.
sire, that's beautiful.
I suspect it might be a matter of what influenced us growing up. I was an odd boy that was really attracted to girls even when the boys around me thought girls were weird and had "cooties". I'd be picking flowers for a girl I liked in my kindergarten. :-D But it wasn't like I had access to pornography in kindergarten. So what influenced me were more PG ideas of what is attractive, sensual, sexy (though I don't think I was thinking in terms of sex as a kindergartener, I just liked how girls looked and the more innocent ideas of romance). Then later maybe rated R as I saw films with sex scenes and such. I do have a caveman side if an attractive girl bends over in front of me. :-D But you know, if we get close, it's a much more abstract and closer to the "erotic" idea of what makes me sexually excited, like the careful ritual of undressing a woman, the kiss, perhaps even smiles in the bedroom. I sound very cheesy but then again I am kind of cheesy.
you sound like a summer dream. an incomplete one.
Definitely, and it is best, when mutually shared with a loving companion. Not sex, but like a higher level of sensual feelings, above simple 'bumping bits'!! Finding erogenous places, that the other never imagined, and connecting, sharing something really intimate.
Sharing 'art' and my favorite is cooking together, and being really close, and intimate, using flavors, and touch, teasing, and just exploring her sensual feelings and what makes her smile, and laugh, and love that connection.
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So.. porn?
No, I try to get that stuff out of my life not invite more of it.
why is that
Personal/moral/religious views :)
Erotic had so many forms, I think better displayed in art or words rather than raw pictures
Nope
I don't really get philosophical about sex. I am open minded and enjoy it, but like a hot shower, it's never been artistic or deep (mentally) to me.
I like sexuality to be simple, vulgar and intense.
I follow what I feel into.. I mean Anything.
I've followed the literature once
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