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Whats the difference between sleeping with a girl you care about to a guy?

is the sex better if you have feelings for the girl?
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  • Not knowing the girl is new and exciting. It's a new body you are exploring. With a girl you have been with for a while you are familiar with her and her body. It's different. But if you both love and care for each other. You can feel that love too. It's like the warm hug you give your parents. You can simply lay on each other and look at each other and be brought to tears at how close you are and how much you love each other, you can get lost in their eyes and not even have sex but just enjoy their presence. But that's love, just knowing each other for a while boredom happens and if love is not in place sex is more like a video game system that was fun ten years ago but is put into the closet to store away for later. It's really about your relationship and how you interact with each other. And it is unqine for each couple. Sorry I bounced around a bit it's just my train of thought :)

  • Yes. I only have sex with women that I've established a strong emotional connection with.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Watch the movie called: "Newness"

    It's a movie based on the Tinder culture. (Although the name "Tinder" isn't used for obvious reasons)

    So even though caring and love play a powerful role in sex, so does the excitement of newness.

    It might be the conflict of having the little angel on your left shoulder whispering in your ear, and having the little devil on your right shoulder whispering in your ear.

    • Great movie, but not the typical happy ending you usually see in most movies. I guess the ending wasn't really bad, but she was saying that she's willing to be monogamous with him, but she knows she won't like it and she'll be bored! LOL Woo Hoo! Nothing like hearing that from your girl.

    • i saw that, its a good movie

    • Cindy, Yeah, I wish I knew where I found it, so I could help others to find it. I think it's a great movie for people who aren't the Tinder-type, but are curious about what it's like. One dynamic that I found fascinating, was the scene where all of these attractive young people are in this bar/lounge. But instead of interacting with each other, they're all focused on their smartphones and apparently on Tinder. So you have attractive girls and guys who all have a common goal, but just all being in the same room isn't enough. They need to have one foot on Earth and one foot in the cloud! I guess it's multi-tasking at it's best. :)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes sex isn't fun if I don't care about them. I've had sex casually and it was the worst sex of my life and I'm just not interested in hookups, I'd literally rather masturbate.

  • Huh?

    • does sleeping with a girl you care about, feel better than with someone you don't

    • Ok. thanks. I don’t sleep with girls but It always feels better when I’m in love with my partner.

  • I still have many great orgasms either way but if I care about someone, the whole experience is better.

  • Absolutely, having a close emotional connection is the only way to have good sex.

    • according to one guy on here a emotional connection has nothing to do with good sex

    • He does not know what he is missing.

    • yeah clearly never connected with anyone

  • Feels the same to me

  • The sex is way better because of that connection to the girl you love

  • For me the sex is definitely better and meaningful.

  • I'd only have sex with a girl that I love with all my heart. Call me a unicorn, but I only put my trust and care into select people.

  • Anytime I had sex with even a ons I developed feelings for her; it is just instinctively in my dna—I know what a sucker. However, being in deep connection goes to a new level and I find myself deemphasizing personal sexual pleasure more and focusing on hers.

  • I actually care about the pleasure of a woman I care about. If I have feelings for her, then her pleasure matters more to me than my own.
    If I don't care about her, I'm selfish.

    • That makes sense.

  • yes slightly better,
    but still jus sex in general is pretty amazing, i wouldn't be fussy.
    if any random girl wanna fuck me i won't reject the offer

  • Wish I could answer you, but I didn't have any chance. (It seems like guys my age are already having fun!)

  • the sex is sooooooo much better when you care about her

  • Sex is like pizza. Maybe it's not your favorite pizza but pizza is still awesome. Same with sex. Yeah it will be better if it's your favorite girl.

  • It's usually a little bit better, but not necessarily. Guys are visually-driven-- if the girl is hot/pretty, the sex is almost always going to be better. That's usually what matters more, not "feelings."

    • yep, this exactly

  • Of course the sex is better if you have feelings for her. It's not even a comparison.

  • Yes. Sex is a thousand times better if you care for the person and double that if said person cares for you. All sensual parts are heightened and the two of you communicate better, the sex takes longer and the two of you are more prone to coming back for more.

    at least that was my observation, it's different for everyone.

  • If someone doesn't have the right feelings it can't become better then slightly below average as best of the total what is possible.

    It's the secret sauce of wonder.

  • No, not neceesarily

    • so sex isn't any better to you if you care or don't care about her?

    • Nope

    • Emotions, have nothing to do, with sex

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  • Yeah its always best when u know a person and specially if she looks like this girl

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