When getting a massage, do you let them massage your belly/abs?

Question

I've only ever gotten 1 professional massage in my life, and the lady asked if I wanted her to massage my abs (Bless her heart, I don't have any!) I declined because I'm very ticklish and I thought it would make me laugh or tense up. Anyone else have thoughts on this?

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When getting a massage, do you let them massage your belly/abs?

Answer 1

TheCunningLinguist | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Everyone has abs, just not all are sculpted. It should not have tickle if done properly. Your ticklish nerves are superficial. So, with adequate pressure, they should not only reach the muscles, it will aid in digestion and be comforting.

DorkVader

1 y
I didn't let her because I was scared lol. Maybe I'll give it a shot next time.
TheCunningLinguist

1 y
Receiving a massage can be intimidating for most people when new. Just remember that it's all about you. The more you allow, the more pampering it can be. I know women often find it hard to be focused on and don't want to ask for too much but, we get into massage therapy to do for others and make them feel as good as possible. I know that many people are uncomfortable getting fully undressed but, we are taught to maintain your draping throughout so as to access your muscles without exposing your private areas. Relax and enjoy. It's actually the earliest form of medical treatment it Western medicine.
DorkVader

1 y
Oooh, are you a massage therapist? I'm a larger lady, so I had many misgivings, but someone was paying for me as a treat and I felt bad turning them down. Is this a common thing, people not liking their belly touched? I remember that she asked, and she didn't really ask about much else, I assume to keep things relaxing and calm
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TheCunningLinguist

1 y
I am. No longer practicing. Your size has nothing to do with us, other than technic. Look at us as you would your doctor. We are working on your body but, we are not focusing on appearance. We see bodies of all kinds, male/female in various shapes and levels of undress. Just show up clean and communicate your needs and enjoy. We are there for you.
TheCunningLinguist

1 y
And yes, your concern is common. We are used to it.
TheCunningLinguist

1 y
Thank you for the MHO.

Answer 2

DorkVader

I didn't let her because I was scared lol. Maybe I'll give it a shot next time.

Answer 3

TheCunningLinguist

Receiving a massage can be intimidating for most people when new. Just remember that it's all about you. The more you allow, the more pampering it can be. I know women often find it hard to be focused on and don't want to ask for too much but, we get into massage therapy to do for others and make them feel as good as possible. I know that many people are uncomfortable getting fully undressed but, we are taught to maintain your draping throughout so as to access your muscles without exposing your private areas. Relax and enjoy. It's actually the earliest form of medical treatment it Western medicine.

Answer 4

DorkVader

Oooh, are you a massage therapist? I'm a larger lady, so I had many misgivings, but someone was paying for me as a treat and I felt bad turning them down. Is this a common thing, people not liking their belly touched? I remember that she asked, and she didn't really ask about much else, I assume to keep things relaxing and calm

Answer 5

TheCunningLinguist

I am. No longer practicing. Your size has nothing to do with us, other than technic. Look at us as you would your doctor. We are working on your body but, we are not focusing on appearance. We see bodies of all kinds, male/female in various shapes and levels of undress. Just show up clean and communicate your needs and enjoy. We are there for you.

Answer 6

TheCunningLinguist

And yes, your concern is common. We are used to it.

Answer 7

TheCunningLinguist

Thank you for the MHO.

Answer 8

Jjpayne | 4.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I have not had one in a while. But I remember not remembering if they did... But I will say that is one huge cock 😂

Answer 9

TacocaT6969 | 502 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Everyone has abdominal muscles.

Having them massaged doesn’t tickle because it’s a slow motion in the direction of the muscles.

DorkVader

1 y
I was making a joke about my lack of visible abs. But I'm very ticklish around my waist, especially around the obliques. I don't know
TacocaT6969

1 y
Could always try it and just tell them to stop if it tickles. 🤷‍♂️
DorkVader

1 y
True enough. Next time, I'll give it a shot.