Tips on having sex for the first time?

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Update: I'm worried about not being good in bed

Answer 1

SweetMess

Xper 2

Did your man do this before? In that case just follow his lead and let him know this is your first time. All I had to do is look and feel as attractive as possible, and my boyfriend did the rest lol. Just make sure you have some kind of lubricant in case needed

basilsn96

1 y
And if they were both virgins? Or the man?
SweetMess

1 y
Then I do not know too much. Maybe try making sure both of you are comfortable, aim towards satisfying one another, and then build on that experience next time?
basilsn96

1 y
I ll try, I hope I won't be to excited haha
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TheCunningLinguist

1 y
@basilsn96 Engage in a lot of exploration and foreplay, this should increase her pleasure and help you get comfortable. It's natural, you'll have no problem doing it and practice with intention will bring performance.
basilsn96

1 y
I think so too, thank you both guys for the advices 🤗

Answer 2

basilsn96

And if they were both virgins? Or the man?

Answer 3

SweetMess

Then I do not know too much. Maybe try making sure both of you are comfortable, aim towards satisfying one another, and then build on that experience next time?

Answer 4

basilsn96

I ll try, I hope I won't be to excited haha

Answer 5

TheCunningLinguist

@basilsn96 Engage in a lot of exploration and foreplay, this should increase her pleasure and help you get comfortable. It's natural, you'll have no problem doing it and practice with intention will bring performance.

Answer 6

basilsn96

I think so too, thank you both guys for the advices 🤗

Answer 7

gagsucs

Xper 5

you go in n out in n out in n out,
there's no specific way to do this n it doesn't matter how u carry out the procedure,
jus follow these instructions and u will succeed in ur misssion

gagsucs

1 y
also u should continue to go in and out in and out until u feel an explosive feeling in ur genitals and some liquid exploding out,
when you have reached this stage you may stop and end the sex procedure,
also... 1 more thing, dont worry about the speed in which u do the in and out thing,
it is completely up to you and ur control and u can go faster or slower whenever u desire... typically u go faster as u near the end of the sex... good luck
gagsucs

1 y
also u should not care about whether or not you are good in bed and dont think about what ur partner is thinking of u,
jus do it for ur own pleasure, thats where the enjoyment comes from

Answer 8

gagsucs

also u should continue to go in and out in and out until u feel an explosive feeling in ur genitals and some liquid exploding out,
when you have reached this stage you may stop and end the sex procedure,
also... 1 more thing, dont worry about the speed in which u do the in and out thing,
it is completely up to you and ur control and u can go faster or slower whenever u desire... typically u go faster as u near the end of the sex... good luck

Answer 9

gagsucs

also u should not care about whether or not you are good in bed and dont think about what ur partner is thinking of u,
jus do it for ur own pleasure, thats where the enjoyment comes from

Answer 10

Telekinetic-Potato | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Make sure the guy knows to go slow and take it easy. And just have a good time. Try to make the atmosphere relaxing as possible. Some people light candles, some people listen to music.

Answer 11

CubaPirate | 10.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Make sure your really ready and certain that you want to. Then take things from there

Answer 12

OfDeath | 3.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

The penis goes in either the vagina or the arse. Any questions?

OfDeath

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Offer to change position sometimes. There isn't that much a woman can do to make it good. Just be willing to do what he wants and let him know what is feeling good for you.
Women who are bad in bed are the ones who just lie there or the ones who try to control it themselves and it gets thrown off rhythm.

Answer 13

OfDeath

Offer to change position sometimes. There isn't that much a woman can do to make it good. Just be willing to do what he wants and let him know what is feeling good for you.
Women who are bad in bed are the ones who just lie there or the ones who try to control it themselves and it gets thrown off rhythm.

Answer 14

Pejtu | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Just bend over for the D
He will do the work no worry

Answer 15

Billneidrich77

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Noone is good their first time.

Answer 16

Anonymous

Front hole first

Answer 17

Nahid1707 | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Be safe

Nahid1707

1 y
Update you and him / her should communicate in bed room

Answer 18

Nahid1707

Update you and him / her should communicate in bed room

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