like... imgaine u wake up tommorow... u start finding guys hot and u have no idea why... u then discover u turned gay overnight... what do u do?
initially i thought id proably jus kill myself, but realisticly... that sounds abit too extreme and i wouldn't wanna die jus for that... but i would definitely try to hide it and stay in the closet... i would also try hard asf to force myself back to liking girls... even if it doesn't work... i would keep trying for years until i can't try no more
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and they say being gay isn't a choice, looking at the results im not surprised there's so many gay people nowadays, they dont even try to rebel against it or be straight, they jus let their gayness be and go down the gay path, so in a way being gay is a choice, cos no one is choosing to act straight like i would do,
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SensmindYoda
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I am too old to worry about stuff like that - I would just go "F*** it" and see what happens - I am sure there are a whole new set of benefits and issues that go with it.
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cicchis0Xper 6
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Probably start sucking cock and fucking guys but I wouldn't necessarily be flamboyantly camp about it, so none of the above options.
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cicchis0
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Your update is ridiculous. Your question proposed that we found ourselves to be gay, not suddenly deciding that we wanted to be gay. Our answers are based upon this premise. You can't then choose to be straight any more than you could choose to be gay beforehand.
gagsucs
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thats because u all let gayness be and dont try to be straight, so how can you know its not a choice if no one is trying to be straight and every gay person is jus letting it be? if every gay person ACTUALLY tried to be straight... i guarenteed you there wouldn't be many gay people left
gagsucs
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if u keep trying at something for long enough... believe me or not... it can be achieved
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cicchis0
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Your premise was that we find ourselves gay and don't know why, not that we tried and tried and eventually succeeded in becoming gay. You wouldn't have got the same answers because that premise is ludicrous. Go on, then. I challenge you to use your willpower to change the colour of your skin or your height - you choose.
gagsucs
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ur genetics (skin colour) cannot be changed because thats under the control of ur dna, which u can't change with ur mind... but gayness exists in the mind and is all under the control of the person operating the mind... so yes... if i was gay... i would be able to turn myself straight by thinking the right way about females and consistently trying for a few months
gagsucs
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show me some evidence that being gay isn't a choice, and maybe i will believe it, but so far i havnt seen any evidence, only some excuses as to why they are that way
cicchis0
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I can't show you proof that sexual orientation is not a choice any more than you can show me proof that it is a choice, however, there is some evidence to indicate that in utero hormone exposure plays a role: www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/homosexuality
CharlieBadger
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@gagsucs You mean if they kept it in the closet and led normal healthy unhappy lives living with someone they weren't attracted to like they used to when being gay was illegal? I lived as straight for 48 years. I have known I liked both men and women 38 of them. As long as I've known I liked women I knew I liked men. Last year, when my wife and I separated, I decided to try what I had enjoyed looking at for decades but didn't because when I was growing up it was at best a way to be ostracized and at worst a death sentence. But I was lucky, I could live as a straight male because I liked women too. But those that didn't were often pressured into relationships they did not want in order to conform to what society deemed was right. That did both a disservice to the men and the women that married them. The same holds true for lesbians. While the women married to the closeted gay man was often left neglected and untouched, the lesbian had to live a life where a man would force himself on a woman who did not want to be with him. If every homosexual tried to be straight they would still be homosexual, they would just be in the closet and potentially ruining 2 people's lives.
gagsucs
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@CharlieBadger i dont know because iv never been gay myself and im jus making uhhhh, whats the word? uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ignorant assumptions... i jus think being gay is a choice and say it like i think i know right and everyone else is wrong, but maybe i am jus being a stubborn stuck up twat... what do i know? iv never been gay, i jus realised i need to stop making assumptions on something iv never been myself, maybe you're right and being gay isn't a choice... what do i know?
gagsucs
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@CharlieBadger sorry
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DanaeAdam5Yoda
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FUCK WITH THE MAN I FOUND HOT *DABS LIKE A BI BITCH*
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gagsucs
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hott
DanaeAdam5
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Yasss I know im the hottest gay man ever
gagsucs
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O_O i won't disagree
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DanaeAdam5
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Ofc u won't. Honey u can't change or disagree with facts 😂😂😂😂😝
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