Men, those of you who attract and have a lot of options when it comes to getting with women, what types of women do you attract? How do you choose?

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Assuming you cannot sleep with all of them

What traits physical or non-physical are you interested in the most?

What types of women do you attract most?

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Would you be open to having sex with all of them? Dating all of them? Some for dating and some for just sex?

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From my personal experience, I’ve attracted a ton of Caucasian and hispanic/Latina women and rarely any Asian women. Many of these women are also well-educated, with a degree or two. One woman I was talking to one time and wanted to eventually meet up with me it seems, had a master’s degree and had a high-end position within the business/corporate industry for a private university. A lot of these women are also very social and like to travel.

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Yoda

At least when I was younger I suspected the biracial thing played a big role. When girls approached the very first question was 99% of the time along the lines of, "Where are you from?" with the mixture of Caucasian and Asian qualities. In the US I didn't fare as well but I got a girlfriend at a clothing shop a similar way, and I told her Japan, and she asked me to write her name in Japanese. Then she gave me her phone number.

I find I seem to attract those who find my looks "exotic" which is hardly all of them. If I was in a room with 30 women my age, maybe only 3 or 4 would approach, and those would be my options unless I felt like approaching.

In terms of physical qualities, I seemed to draw cuter and shorter ones (maybe because I'm not so tall), slim typically, usually open and friendly (the ones who are shy probably wouldn't approach). Like in the US, that girl at the clothing store was very slim (maybe "skinny" by American standards) and the short type who was kind of a stoner. In night clubs I had cases where girls would fight over me, and they oddly looked very alike (skinny, medium-height Japanese girls who are very smiley).

I didn't want to date all of them. I found them all attractive but I got more and more picky about personality traits over the course of dating those. I actually started to favor ones I approached more. I didn't find that many keepers among those who approached me.

>> Would you be open to having sex with all of them? Dating all of them? Some for dating and some for just sex?

I don't draw these distinctions and was never the type in favor ONS. I wanted something long-term. I got married in the end.

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I can empathize a bit better with girls than usual as a result. I'm no stranger to being approached by the opposite sex. But I don't always want to be, and it didn't take long where I no longer liked being approached even by ones who were tricky. They could still be a bundled mess of emotions over the course of dating. So I got quite picky about who I went after.
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[...] But I don't always want to be, and it didn't take long where I no longer liked being approached even by ones who were [pretty]. [...]
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In particular, I think I drew women who thought I'd offer them something "different", looking different, talking different, acting differently. Especially in Japan, I think some Japanese women don't like the traditions -- poker-faced husband and housewife. But maybe going for someone not at all Japanese might have been too scary for them. So I was "safe" -- I could speak Japanese, act somewhat Japanese, and half-Japanese. But I suspect they still wanted something very "different" favoring and approaching me. And it's like that's too much pressure. I'm just a biracial guy who bounced between cultures growing up. I'm not that different. I appreciated the attention but I think they were misguided.

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I can empathize a bit better with girls than usual as a result. I'm no stranger to being approached by the opposite sex. But I don't always want to be, and it didn't take long where I no longer liked being approached even by ones who were tricky. They could still be a bundled mess of emotions over the course of dating. So I got quite picky about who I went after.

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[...] But I don't always want to be, and it didn't take long where I no longer liked being approached even by ones who were [pretty]. [...]

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In particular, I think I drew women who thought I'd offer them something "different", looking different, talking different, acting differently. Especially in Japan, I think some Japanese women don't like the traditions -- poker-faced husband and housewife. But maybe going for someone not at all Japanese might have been too scary for them. So I was "safe" -- I could speak Japanese, act somewhat Japanese, and half-Japanese. But I suspect they still wanted something very "different" favoring and approaching me. And it's like that's too much pressure. I'm just a biracial guy who bounced between cultures growing up. I'm not that different. I appreciated the attention but I think they were misguided.

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ManOnFire | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Influencer

I usually attract women who like intelligence and decent appearance, even though I'm not a beautiful man. That's what I've noticed over the years. Often times the super attractive women aren't that attracted to me because they think of men like me as nerdy, but they will go after men who aren't even good-looking or smart but they like them cuz those guys are disrespectful or simpletons. Something many women seem to think is interesting.

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leahzrc | 232 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

id assume that if a guy has a lot of options, he will choose the one that's most horny

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LexyIsSexy23

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Straight men with a pulse is who usually find me attractive.❤️

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SirRexington | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I don't know why I was tagged with this I can't attract anyone... I cry myself to sleep sometimes because of it. Other times I don't even wait til bed time. I certainly cannot help give advice on this.

But I don't trust women who are that easily fooled by those types of guys anyway.

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OlderAndWiser | 17.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

The women I attract have at least a bachelor's degree, have had careers, and all of them seem to be interested in travel. I am looking for a LTR. I would prefer to sleep with one woman for the next 30 years rather than sleep with 30 women in the next year.

Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over

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@OlderAndWiser Nice. I have an advanced grad degree in education, 10 years of higher ed. I’m a retired bilingual/ESL teacher. Divorced 20 years. Where do you live? Lol
OlderAndWiser

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@Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over Florida.
Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over

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@OlderAndWiser Me too. Tampa area.
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OlderAndWiser

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@Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over Jacksonville.

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Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over

@OlderAndWiser Nice. I have an advanced grad degree in education, 10 years of higher ed. I’m a retired bilingual/ESL teacher. Divorced 20 years. Where do you live? Lol

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OlderAndWiser

@Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over Florida.

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Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over

@OlderAndWiser Me too. Tampa area.

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OlderAndWiser

@Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over Jacksonville.

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Iron_Man | 10.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I live in Miami and I attract hot Latin girls and on occation white girls from time to time when you can find them

Iron_Man

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Do you ever hand out Most Helpful Awards?
I've been coming in here to your Question Invites for the past year and I don't ever recall winning not one single Most Helpful Award yet

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Iron_Man

Do you ever hand out Most Helpful Awards?
I've been coming in here to your Question Invites for the past year and I don't ever recall winning not one single Most Helpful Award yet

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Hispanic-Cool-Guy | 5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I attract decent, good looking women for the most part. Alway been like that my whole life.

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BronzedAdonis | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

send me nudes OP and ill share my secret to success with you

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