How do you stop the physical desires for someone you know is totally wrong for you in every other way but the sex is really awesome?

Physical desires verses moral beliefs
Physical desires verses moral beliefs
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You dont, the same way you dont stop the desires of anything else. You simply deal with your own dysphoria and change what you have in terms of control or re-evaluate your priorities to what is worth more to you. Every descision is based on what you prioritize. Its self control, your desires won't go away.

  • you are asking one of those mystery of life questions here lol... it's a very difficult to answer dilemma... maybe change the home page or screen saver on your phone with a note to say "DO NOT CALL SO-AND-SO" to remind yourself before making the booty call or text lol

    • Thanks for the MHO and...

      How do you stop the physical desires for someone you know is totally wrong for you in every other way but the sex is really awesome?

      lol... :)

    • 😅😂😂

    • Oh... and in the spirit of sharing is caring... FYI as I've got:

      How do you stop the physical desires for someone you know is totally wrong for you in every other way but the sex is really awesome?

      lol... :)

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Remind yourself that you're completely incompatible and outside of sex, things won't last long.

    Eventually you'll get bored of sex and want a real conversation or person to spend time with... then what will you do? Sex can only bring you so much happiness.

    • Very true. The brain knows all that. It's the other "part" that forgets sometimes

  • Hump your hand till you're exhausted

    Sorry :-). You did ask...

    • 😂😂 lol

    • Best advice.

    • what if that just makes it worse?

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  • Light it up, and let it burn!! Get through it, and just enjoy it, knowing it isn't going to last!!

  • By putting your pussy away.

  • You see them as a brother or sister. You start by thinking of them as a kid before puberty. Taking that mindframe of friendship but also see them as family. Like he's your little brother or big brother. It changes your love for them and let's you love them in a different way

  • By having some level of self control lol I like playing games but I would quit my life so I could game to my hearts content lol

  • Why would you want to stop? Enjoy the sex. You don't have to rearrange your life for them..

    • Some people, like me want more than just sex. I'm not a casual sex type person. Then I'll just feel bad after, for being a way that doesn't feel right to me

    • Then why did you start?

  • I say unless they are being abusive to you or causing harm in some way then why not just keep them as a booty call and have him fuck your beautiful brains out?

    • Because sex only feels good in the moment and if it's with someone undesirable in every other way, is it worth the regret you feel after?

    • Only you can answer this question for yourself.

    • @KrakenAttackin I know you're right

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  • Stay away for a week and flip the switch

  • You don't stop the "desire". You stop the contact.

  • Just got to remember that the good sex comes at the cost of having to deal with a real piece of shit

    • That's the truth

  • You masturbate more often.

    • That just scratches your Itch. How do you get over the physical desire for that person?

    • Time will take care of that. Eventually your BRAIN will realize it's a temporary pleasure that will only bring longer lasting distress and mental pain. When that happens, your body will back off. Hopefully you'll meet someone else in the meantime who will be right for you in so many MORE ways. Then the sex will be really good too, more than likely, from what I know of you :)

    • Lol thanks 🙂

  • The answer from me: Don't have Sex. I'm afraid too many people just DON'T wait for Marriage, and end up in a hole of Sexual Frustration without a Mate to satisfy.

  • I broke up with her.

  • Good luck with that lol

  • I think this describes your relationship pretty well.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/Mw_0_sNiwlw
    • Well I don't have a dick lol but otherwise very fitting

    • You are a slave to his dick.

  • If that is the problem then as for me it would stop as soon as I felt it was wrong at lest it has in the past for me so for as stopping it it just happen's on its own is the best answer that I could give u.
    God Bless

  • Damn, I do not know, I am on the other side of that problem

    • You desire someone you don't want to? Or someone desires you you don't want?

    • I wonder what a girl feels like when she he's unsure at the actions I perform, yet is empathetically in love with my character

    • She is unsure at the actions I perform*

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  • Wow that's a tough one I've been their you have to just stay away from them.

  • You don't you just don't act on it

    • Sometimes easier said than done. Distance is easier to accomplish that, but if they are there in front of you?

    • I don't make conversation with them at all then I remember it's just a dick and anouther will come along soon.

    • But you don't always have that sexual compatibility with everyone

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  • you need to cut it off and find somebody else. But you also need to take a little break for yourself

  • Will power

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