What do you think about your partner keeping quiet all the time instead of moaning during sex?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

There is a huge difference between men's and women's experience during sex.

It's true guys don't make a lot of noise. Picture the way a cartoon portrays the face of someone who is concentrating with their tongue is sticking out of the corner of their mouth.
A man's experience during sex is like that. He is focused on what he is doing, just like he would if he was building something. He may say any number of things from "Oh God!" to "You're pussy feels so good!". He may be breathing hard or even gasp or grunt occasionally, but the sensations he feels don't warrant moans.

On the other hand, a woman's body is being penetrated to the core. Her vagina is being stretched as well as exercised. Having the end of her vagina pushed or even pounded can be felt all the way inside her tummy. A man is working but the woman is the one being worked. A man feels sensations in his penis while a woman feels sensations internally and throughout more of her body. So it makes sense that she would make noises like grunts, gasps and moans that sound like strain.

People want to know that they are pleasing their partner. So it really helps if they say things. Being vocal and uninhibited in the use of "dirty talk" is awesome. A guy loves a woman who says things like "That's so good!", "Just like that. Don't stop!", "Fuck me harder!", and especially "I'm going to cum!!!" So of course women like to get the same kind of feedback.

But men and women have to learn to give that kind of vocal feedback. It's a learned behavior that they have to do consciously for the purpose of maximizing their partner's experience. When it comes to purely spontaneous sounds, though, women are more likely to do that for the reasons I tried to explain. And if a woman is climaxing while being fucked, Although some women are pretty quiet and focus on the experience.

Another aspect is climax. A guy is more likely to make sounds when he cums. But that's a one-off thing that signals the finish. He doesn't have extended climaxes. On the other hand, women can climax while being fucked. They can even climax repeatedly or have continual or extended orgasms. That's when they are most likely to be vocal. Aside from giving physical signs like bucking, writhing or clawing, they can make sounds or say things that signal the almost unendurably intense sensations of rapture. Some women are really loud at that point.

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

Yeah I could not stand their being slience unless we were at a parents home then duct tape over of our mouths but the look on our faces of pleasure should be able to hopefully be just as good as the sound for then

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

It's so booooring. I want to hear them. Not too much talking, but anything that is spontaneous and in the moment is sexy. Especially if they're really enjoying the moment they cum. Let 'er rip.

sassy1433 · Accepted Answer

Most guys are quiet during sex. Rarely my guy will make any noise. Except to tell me when he’s going to come

ohshee · Answer

It means I'm not doing my job right

i1T2daty · Answer

I stop and ask, "I'm not boring you, am I"?

ecfresh · Answer

I wouldn’t like it. Hearing them is a big part of the experience.

R4vedave · Answer

I would prefer my partner be vocal, as those noises are a huge turn on for me

hemo821 · Answer

Its a real kill joy

dthomas89 · Answer

I HATE moaning, and would never do it

Bikerboy123456 · Answer

I prefer to moan especially when imm starting to fill her sweet pussy with hot cumm

COMMODOREII · Answer

Like there is something wrong

Twalli · Answer

Guys do this because we learned to be quiet masturbating.

NightOwl8801 · Answer

Only if children are awake or company is present in the house is she quiet. I moan but not loudly when I'm in the moment and when I am orgasming

iFarted · Answer

Boringgg and makes me feel like she's not getting much pleasure.

Jerre · Answer

I moan and talk dirty

Guardian45 · Answer

I don't like her reactions to forced, but I relish receiving feedback on how she feels, whether it is vocal or not!😎👍

CharlieDMX · Answer

Depends on the girl and the guy. Some women are put offf by it

simplelikeme · Answer

Sometimes you just have to accept it because there are people that don't make noise and then there are people that moan and then there are those who scream LOL