What does it mean if a guy never wants/refuses to be on the bottom during sex with his girlfriend?

[ohshee]

It means he's a fool and is missing out on soooooooooooooooo much lol,, one of the hottest things about sex is fore play before sex one if the hottest things is to roll her over on top of you please and guide her hips so her. Pussy lips are straddling ur cock and pull her hips forward and then back. In slowwwwww motion and do not let her put it in pull her down on top of ur hold her tight. Push her back up let her. Move on her own. But do not let her put it in. And that's just foreplay

[Dargil]

It means he loves Cowgirl. As do I. The show is wonderful visuals.

[jellyroo]

Could be a multitude of reasons. Talking directly to the boyfriend about it would be far more efficient than asking strangers who don't know him.
And if he refuses to talk about, could be trauma or something personally embarrassing involved.
At that point, either bail if it's too much of a hassle somehow, or accept it and foster the relationship so that he'd be comfortable to talk about it in the future.

[Moonchild714]

Lack of Control Dominance

My Ex who was an Manipulative Abusive Narcissist hated being on the bottom, he would say he loved it but the moment he he'd start fidgeting cramping up and we'd have to stop...

[Lliam]

He's an inexperienced lover and doesn't understand the joy of different variations.
Or, he has some pathological fear about a woman being in control. Which is stupid, because he can still have a lot of control when she is on top. Plus, he has the advantage of enjoying her tits to a better extent than almost any other position.
Either way, he is a dumb ass.

[Apple1996]

Probably a control freak and feels the need to be dominant during sex cuz he isn't dominant in any other aspect of his life

[lightbulb27]

I have no idea... did you ask him? Maybe he's a bit clausterphobic? Maybe it doesn't feel good? Or... his sister used to beat up on him so it feels bad emotionally?

[RHK36]

It could mean several things, best answer you'll get would be from his mouth. Maybe he's insecure, doesn't feel comfortable or doesn't like to not be in a overpowered position. Either way he's missing out.

[CuriousQuestions8423]

I prefer to be in top but refusing it completely isn't normal. Something's up with that, does he have a short member or something? He should let you straddle up

[Almostoverit]

He prefers to be in control. Could also say he has a difficult time with vulnerability, but that's not necessary the case either.

[ChronicThinker]

I don't think it's "not normal" - I think it's a preference. My man doesn't dislike being on the bottom per se but he really prefers being on top.

[alice55]

He's just not a submissive, I don't see in what refusing to on the bottom is bad or weird. To me that would be pretty weird if a guy wanted to be a bottom.

[Warmapplecrumble]

It's normal. My husband likes to be in complete control mostly during sex and that position puts a woman in control.

[genericname85]

he's probably affraid of her crushing his dick xD cause if it slips out and she goes back down, missing the hole, there's a good chance to snap that dick.

[i1T2daty]

He needs to have his face sat on by an insatiable woman willing to teach him some manners

[Blublub]

It could be for a number of reasons. Maybe she’s too big to sit on him

[Red_Arrow]

It means he is missing the best view of sex with his partner!

[Creepazoid]

I don't know. Why wouldn't he? I guess he rather do all the work.

[LiamSawyer]

My three most favorite positions are missionary, cowgirl and doggy so at least one out of three.

[ajaykinky]

Do not find meanings in sex... I would say... Just give space as both have decided to share the space... Let guy open up... Though sometimes this means he wants to dominate in bed rather than playing switch roles...

[Luvinmuffins]

does he like to take control when you guys are having sex cuz if not weird

[Jjpayne]

I feel like he might be uncomfortable not having a way out like being blocked into a resturant booth. But yeah it is kinda strange...

[Anonymous]

No idea but my boyfriend says he feels more pleasure when I’m on top. He always tells me “I like you on top better” and oh tu a me there! Lol ☺️

[Anonymous]

I am one of those and I simply just don't like the feel of it.

Nothing more and nothing less.

[Chill_Meta]

Means he's energetic and feels like taking someone to pound town. Also that he likes to control the rhythm and flow of the interaction.

[andy530]

He may be very dominant and not want to give up the control that is necessary to be on bottom

[ImSparkly]

It means he better be amazing at getting me off on his own, or he's getting dumped.

I enjoy cowgirl/reverse cowgirl, and sometimes its the only way I can bring about resolution.

[anonbrunette99]

That’s so weird... most guys want to be on the bottom. Lazy assholes. But yeah that’s odd.

[Anonymous]

I agree. I think it shows some insecurity about giving up any amount of control.

[AmandaYVR]

That's a problem. It means get out of that relationship, girl.

[Ianto]

He is an idiot who doesn't know what is good for him. (Unless she is 20 stone/280 lbs)

[hiddendevil]

Its means he is not capable on going for longer duration and more chances to cum early.

[outside_Toronto]

it means he's lame and why are you with a guy that's so lame?

[BlessedDaddy]

He's either young and inexperienced or that will make him cum too fast. Or he's gay

[MackToday]

Maybe he's afraid once she sees him down there she'll lose confidence in him as a man.

[Anonymous]

It is not normal at all. I have never heard a guy say no to that request.

[coolhandroo]

It might mean she sucks at top because a lot of women suck big time at it

[Nigjt]

It just mean's that some guy's are not bottom's.
God Bless

[esotericstory]

he wants to do all the work because he likes it, it will change with time.

[Guardian45]

He means he wants to be the only one in control. NO sharing!

[Anonymous]

Its easiest to get her pregnant in missionary. Maybe that's why.

[coolhotchacha]

When girl on bottom than girl enjoy a lot but no feelings of sex. they can feel when they r up, when in doggy position

[B2281]

I don't know what it means. However I like trying different positions, so woman on top is perfectly fine with me.

[engel23]

Well maybe she doesn't ride well. But I love to be in top to push button

[MannySimms]

Kinda depends, right?

[Steve-ram]

Hmm it's not normal! Actually it's my favorite position, i can handle the girl as much as i want by my hands! Did you try to ask him?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's afraid cause he was raped by a woman in the past :P

[Anonymous]

Odd but I never really liked it either but would let her if she wanted

[CuriousMufuxka]

I have no idea. Reverse cowgirl is probably my favorite position! Maybe dude's just into doggy.

[hellknight666]

I prefer to have her on top I can last longer and allows for more finger play

[reptocarl]

Means he’s a piss poor selfish lover

[TonyMetal_1986]

You should ask him and yes it's not normal, also sex should be done after marriage.

[bamesjond0069]

Because he's a man and likes to be in control. I dont refuse but i just dont really like it so much to not be on top. I like to be the one "doing" the thing instead of the one being "done"

[greycadillacs]

Is his penis shaped in a way that would make it uncomfortable for him?

[FrenchyRomain]

how is that not normal? (not defending my preferences here i enjoy most positions) i want to know why you think that it's not normal

[katiesmuff]

It means he is losing out on a lot of extra fun!

[Anonymous]

Control-freak/major dominant personality / hypermasculinity stereotypes mentality

[DictumVeritas]

He has terrible piles.

[COMMODOREII]

Its not normal actually.

[Nik1hil]

It means he is dominant by nature

[spartan55]

It means he secretly a CIA Agent.

[Walrus_au]

Probably that he's insecure,
ask him directly.

[honestGUY45]

He's dominant, maybe?

[Jacklesky]

It means that he is not perfect enough.